HDFS 284 Exam 3

Dr. Sibley, NIU

What is the family projection process?

Parental stress can be projected onto their children, which can result in negative outcomes for children

Occupational segregation

pronounced tendency for men and women to be employed in different types of jobs

Which gender tends to be relationship barometers?

women

Communication patterns (5): "I'll do whatever you say to make you happy"

placaters

Communication patterns (5): "Do what I say"

blamers

Communication patterns (5): "Let's change the subject"

distractors

Communication patterns (5): "I'm cool and collected"

computers

Communication patterns (5): "Let's talk ing a healthy way"

levelers

What had decreased over the years?

intimate partner violence

Family violence makes for ____ of all violence and _____ of all police-recorded violence

11%; 1/3

_____ of unmarried adults reposted experiencing physical aggression in romantic relationships

48%

Children witnessing IPV is _____ _____ _______ as them being hit themselves

just as detrimental

acts of commission

parent does harmful acts towards child

acts of omission

parent neglects the child's needs

What is the 6th leading cause of death for children under 14?

maltreatment

multipartnered fertility

having children with someone who already has children

Common parental issues (7): difficulties balancing ____ ___ ______

work and family

Common parental issues (7): growing up in a society with _______ _____

conflicting beliefs

Common parental issues (7): overwhelming ______ on child’s life

influence

Common parental issues (7): simultaneously taking care of ______ ____ ______

elderly and children

Common parental issues (7): ______ _______ support

less federal

Common parental issues (7): outside _______ on parenting

interference/opinion

Common parental issues (7): more _______ to raise children properly

pressure

stress model of parental effectiveness

parental stress leads to household conflict / parental depression, which negatively affects positive parenting practices; having social support can help prevent negative outcomes

What are some of the challenges that couples face in the transition to parenthood? (3)

sudden shifts, less connection/relaxation for couple, distant from family/help

Who is expected to be the psychological parent?

the mother

What are social fathers and do they improve the household?

Nonbiological unmarried male figures; no

What are nonresidential fathers and why do they cause?

Fathers that do not live with their biological children; family instability

Authoritarian

low warmth, high expectations

Permissive

high/low warmth, low expectations

Authoritative

high warmth, high expectations

“Hurried” child

Spends more time on adult readiness than play due to parents

Helicopter parents

Hover and excessively mediate child’s life

Native American families value personal autonomy in children; what kind of parenting style can this be associated with?

permissive

What is the Confucian training doctrine (3 values upheld by Asian American families)?

Parental love, “training” (shame and guilt), and familial loyalty

What type of punishment is mostly used by Black families?

spanking

What are multigenerational punishments?

Legal rules that disrupt families for generations (I.e. deportation)

Hispanic parents commonly use what type of authority?

hierarchal

Race socialization

Parents teaching their children to take pride in their race

Grandfamilies

Families where grandparents are the head

Formal Kindship Care

Grandparents who are licensed foster parents

Instrumental goals encourage ___ to be in the workplace

men

The female demographic for _____ ____-______ _______ outweighed men

desiring high-paying careers

Role conflict

demands of certain roles intersect one another

Both unpaid and paid work for both sexes has ______ over the years

increased

Good Providers

Focus on financially providing more than involvement

Involved Fathers

Focus on involvement more than financially providing

What increased for women in WWI, WWII, and the Great Depression?

employment

Women make what proportion of men’s earnings?

81%

Motherhood penalty

Parenthood can negatively impact women’s salary

Neotraditional

1950s social norms

What two concepts are used to explore interface between working and family?

Structure-functionalist perspective; social policy

Casual feedback loop

Gender inequality in the workplace impact familial decisions and vice versa

Solutions for work-family balance (4)

Family leave, adequate wages, flexible scheduling, quality child/elder care

What do family-friendly workplaces advocate for (2)

On-site childcare, family leave, etc.

Family cohesion

how united the family members are

Cohesive Family Characteristics (6): Openly express ______ of others

appreciation

Cohesive Family Characteristics (6): _____ levels of _____ to the family unit

high; commitment

Cohesive Family Characteristics (6): Prioritize _____ time

quality

Cohesive Family Characteristics (6): Positively resolve _____

crises

Cohesive Family Characteristics (6): Have ______ _______

spiritual orientations

Cohesive Family Characteristics (6): _______ communication

positive

What are relationship ideologies?

couples' expectations for closeness, distance, and fulfilling roles

What are warm relationships?

High love, low antagonism

What are tempestuous/stormy relationships?

High love, high antagonism

What are bland relationships?

Low love, low antagonism

What are hostile relationships?

Low love, high antagonism

Relationship-focused coping

coping that does not harm relationship

What are three indirect expressions of anger?

Passive aggression, sabotage, displacement (directing anger towards partner’s possessions)

Nourishing relationship characteristics (10): express ____ ____

love verbally

Nourishing relationship characteristics (10): _______ affectionate

physically

Nourishing relationship characteristics (10): express ______

appreciation

Nourishing relationship characteristics (10): view relationship as an _____ ____ system

emotional support

Nourishing relationship characteristics (10): express affection _____

materially

Nourishing relationship characteristics (10): accept your partner’s ______

shortcomings

Nourishing relationship characteristics (10): treat others ____ ____ _____ __ ____ ______

how you want to be treated

Nourishing relationship characteristics (10): ____-_____ more

self-disclose

Nourishing relationship characteristics (10): make time for ______ _____

alone time

Nourishing relationship characteristics (10): do not take ________ ____ ________

relationship for granted

The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse

Contempt – feeling partner is inferior, criticism, defensiveness, stonewalling

What does AAMFT stand for?

American Association of Marriage/Family Therapy

AAMFT counselor qualifications involves... (2)

A graduate degree, 3 years of clinical training under a senior supervisor

What is emotional intelligence (2)?

Ability to manage our emotions and sensitivity to others’ emotions

Who developed PREP?

Scott Stanley and Howard Markman

What is estrangement?

Complete cutoff from others, specifically family

Power

The ability to exercise one’s will

Coercive Power

ability to punish a partner physically or mentally

Reward Power

ability to provide tangible and nontangible materials

Expert Power

one partner is superior to the other in knowledge or ability

Informational Power

one partner provides information to persuade the other

Referent Power

one partner does something to make the other happy

Legitimate Power

ability to have authority over the other

What is the resource hypothesis?

The partner with more resources tends to have more power in a relationship

How is couple power evaluated (4)?

Decision making, division of labor, money allocation, partner influence

What is conjugal power?

Marital power

Types of conjugal power (3)

Egalitarian unions, gender-modified egalitarian unions, neotraditional

What happens to immigrant families as they assimilate?

They adopt less traditional roles

What are power politics?

power politics describe partners attempting to win dominance

Where is IPV data collected from (4)?

Crime reposts, national surveys, qualitative research, reports from other professionals (social workers)

IPV is ______, but it still makes up ____ of all police-recorded violence

Declining, 1/3