8 keys flashcards

what is reciprocity

Sharing mutual benefits or obligations in a relationship.

What is autonomy and why is it important

Autonomy refers to the ability to make one's own choices and govern oneself independently. It is important because it fosters personal growth, responsibility, and the development of self-identity.

What is intersubjectivity

Inversubjectivity is the recognition that one's subjective experiences are acknowledged and validated by another, leading to a shared understanding and connection between individuals.

to have a secure relationship, what 5 attitudes do you and the other person need to have

Mutual respect, trust, open communication, empathy, and support.

explain reflective functioning, how do you do it, how can it affect your life

Reflective functioning is the capacity to understand one's own mental states and those of others; it means to think innerly of yourself and your thoughts. it will help you be able to manage your actions and emotions in relationships

what does it mean to balance autonomy and intimacy

It means to balance independence and closeness in relationships

What is emotional compitence

you are able to control your emotions well

In order to have good connection between two people (intersubjectivity), what three attributes need to be there? 

recognition, understanding, and respect.

 Give an example of there NOT being reciprocity in a relationships. 

one person pays all rent, the other pays nothing

I think I payed my taxes

This is a fact from experiance

I sorted the crayons last week

This is a fact, not from experience

She did it on purpose

This is not a fact at all