Violence - especially domestic violence - is portrayed as a casual event but we know that it is not, suggesting that Adichie is telling the reader that we should not stand for violence. She tells us about how love is not meant to be portrayed through violence, and standing up against violence or abuse is always the right option, but depending on how we stand up against it may be the issue. Death is used as a means of oppression or breaking free from oppression, seen in the characters Ade Coker and Papa, but also a opening to a new world, seen in Papa Nwukwu.