* focus is on ego
* how someone understands themselves in relation to other people.
* then trying to understand what other people/society wants from us and our own wishes; and then also other peoples’ wishes
* Ego is trying to understand and conceptualize these things.
* not everyone will get a fully formed ego.
* how does one become an individual in respect to both societal and parental pressures.
* \*this is based on western individualistic ideals, not collective.
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* ind. learns from environment, culture, and people in their life
* begin to learn self-control, based on punishment and rewards, taught by their parents/surroundings
* they learn what is expected of them by their culture/group, and act with those expectations.
* where they actually are vs. where they should be (criticism) people typically don’t go past this stage.
* standard set by cultures typically
* ind have internalized roles of society
* but their are special circumstances that should be considered when making judgement
* e.g:murder, acceptable during self-defense
* people have diff views and beliefs from you, and that’s okay.
* after thats it’s just self - fulfillment, acceptance and respect for others and yourself.
* ego has high self-acceptance and sympathy for others, appreciates individuality.