The 3rd person is impacted by message **desirability:**
whether the message has a positive or negative effect,
less inclined to acknowledge negative messages as being influential
**social distance:**
whether you think you’re similar to the person you’re judging as the third person
we’re more likely to think that those who are similar to us, we think they are impacted the same way as us
the less similar someone is, the more likely we are to see them as the third person