Spotting the flags

dwell on

to think or talk about something for a long time, often in a way that is excessive or unproductive.

turn a blind eye to

to ignore something intentionally, especially something wrong or undesirable.

steer clear of

to avoid someone or something deliberately, particularly to evade trouble or danger.

navigate relationships

to manage and maintain interactions with others, balancing personal needs and social dynamics.

play hot and cold

to alternate between showing interest and disinterest in someone, often causing confusion.

a dealbreaker

is a factor or issue that, if present, would cause one party to withdraw from a relationship or agreement.

raise eyebrows

to cause surprise or skepticism, often through unexpected behavior or comments.

come off as

to be perceived in a certain way, often based on one's behavior or words.