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Evolutionary psychology
study of behaviors (and thoughts and feelings) through the lens of evolutionary biology. Assumes that human behavior is a result of evolutionary processes over time – these behaviors were adaptive in some way
Evolution by natural selection
Those individuals with heritable traits better suited to the environment will survive
Survival of the fittest
“fittest” = reproductive success; passing on genes, having babies
Sexual selection
natural selection acting on mate-finding and reproductive behavior
Kin selection
natural selection in favor of behavior by individuals that may decrease their chance of survival but increases that of their kin (ex: a mean by which sexual organisms propagate their DNA)
Group and not just individual-level selection
Red queen hypothesis
hypothesis that species must constantly adapt, evolve, and proliferate in order to survive
Explains why sexual selection may be preferred over asexual reproduction
Offspring have variety
Better chance of survival - less susceptible to viruses, germs, threats
The Standard Narrative
Males and females assess the values of mates from perspectives based upon their differing reproductive agendas/capacities
Opposing reproductive strategies
Male competition vs female choice
Men are promiscuous (sperm are plentiful), women are choosy (eggs are scarce)
Sociocultural Theories (from Lehmiller)
Biology may play some role in different matching strategies between sexes, but social structure plays a larger role
In countries with more gender equality, men and women’s partner preference are more similar
Men and women were equally likely to say yes to casual sex if sex with an attractive famous person (rather than a random stranger) were offered
When they thought they were hooked up to a lie detector, men and women in a study reported the same amount of sexual partners
In a speed dating event, men and women were equally choosy if women were forced to initiate
critique: is this mind-body dualism?
Alternative perspective from Sex at Dawn
Authors posit that “we don’t see [current mating behaviors] as elements of human nature so much as adaptations to social conditions—many of which were introduced with the advent of agriculture no more than ten thousand years ago.”
supporting evidence for their hypotheses are correlational and some have criticized the authors for overstating the strength of their data (some have argued, misunderstanding or misrepresenting views of evolutionary psychologists)
Monogamy (zoologist definition)
A prolonged exclusive mating relationship between one male and one female
by ‘essentially exclusive,’ we imply that occasional covert matings outside the pair bond, (i.e. ‘cheating’) do not negate the existence of monogamy
ergo, monogamy doesn’t imply fidelity
however, it is often misused to imply sexual fidelity/colloquially understood to mean “fidelity”
Is monogamy natural in humans (according to Helen Fisher)?
Yes, even if there are exceptions
“pair-bonding is a trademark of the human animal”
Polygamy in culture
A minority of 853 cultures recorded prescribe monogyny (one female)
Western cultures are included in this
Most (84%) of these cultures permit polygyny
However: only 5-10% of men in these societies actually have several wives simultaneously
Polyandry is rare (permitted in 0.5% of societies)
The Oneida Community
John Humphrey Noyes started a colony in the 1830s
Wanted to create a Christian, communist utopia
Colony settled in Oneida, NY in 1847
Everyone lives in one mansion on communal lands and shared everything - including sexual partners
Romantic love for a particular person was considered selfish and shameful
Despite Noyes’ regulations, he wasn’t able to keep men and women from falling in love and forming clandestine pair-bonds
Colony disbanded after a revolt in 1879
“Natural or not, what matters to us is that presently many men and women seem to find monogamy, translated as mandatory sexual and emotional exclusiveness, quite difficult to maintain”
Esther Perel
“Monogamy may or may not be natural to human beings, but transgression surely is.”
Esther Perel
Consensual Non-monogamy subtypes
Open relationships
Swinging
Polygamy
Polyamory
Instrumentality
The extent to which someone is able to help us achieve our present goals
This definition acknowledges that instrumentality can be idiosyncratic and changes over time depending on what a person’s goals are
We want people whose presence is rewarding (both directly and indirectly)
People who fulfill our need to belong
Influences on attraction: proximity
Proximity/propinquity effect
Friendship choices at MIT
Students in your class who sit nearby
Familiarity
Mere exposure effect: exposure makes impressions more positive
However, they seem to have to start at least neutral
Our enemies are also more familiar/close to us
Convenience
Proximity is rewarding and distance is costly
Influences on attraction: physical attractiveness
We assume beautiful people also have good personalities and are more promiscuous
Certain standards for beauty seem relatively stable across cultures
0.7 WHR (waist to hip ratio) in women and 0.9 WHR in men
However, economic and cultural context can lead to some differences in perception of beauty
Things found physically attractive seem to align with evolutionary theories
People tend to engage in matching in levels of physical attractiveness in couples
Influences on attraction: reciprocity
Potential partner’s desirability = physical attractiveness * probability of accepting you
being hard to get doesn’t work, but being selectively hard to get does
We don’t want to get rejected, but we want someone who doesn’t say yes to just anyone
Influences on attraction: similarity
We like people who resemble us - couples tend to match in demographic backgrounds of origin, attitudes, and personalities to some degree
Opposites don’t attract… but it can seem like it sometimes
People sometimes like others based on perceived similarity, but outside observers can tell that they’re different
Finding out dissimilarities takes time
Might be attracted to people who are mildly different from us but like our ideal selves
Dissimilarity among members of a couple decreases over time
Overall, what do people want?
Warmth and loyalty
Attractiveness and vitality
Status and resources
Slight differences between men and women on how important attractiveness vs resources are
Men values attractiveness a bit more and women value resources a bit more
However, warmth and loyalty are more important to both
Attraction processes among LGBTQ people
Physical attraction - as important as to heterosexuals
Similarity - may not be as important (more interracial/interethnic relationships)
May be smaller field of eligibles/smaller dating pool
Proximity may play less of a role
In 2012 study, 61% of gay and lesbian couples reported meeting online vs 23% of heterosexual couples