intro to behavioral science final

representative likeness or reflection

According to the lecture on Image of God image means

Substantive View

In the lecture on Image of God different views of what it means to be in God's image were discussed.  According to this view we are like God in Physical, Psychological and Spiritual ways

Emotional experiencing

Which of the capacities of personhood suggest that both God and man feel things as they interact with the world?

sin

According to the lecture on image of God, why don't we just reflect God? 

Deep longings

Which of the capacities of Personhood is an intense desire that cannot be dismissed as an emotional reaction? \n

Perceiving

Which lifestyle prefers to experience life as it happens?

 

Intuitive

According to the MBTI the people who have a preference for taking in information by way of insight and relating to the big picture. (this does not mean gut feelings) 

Judgement

These people like to have life under control (love lists to check off) 

Introversion

According to the MBTI, A person with this preference reflects, and then (maybe) acts

Behaviorism

Which personality theory suggests that human beings are simply responders to the environment and therefore can be manipulated with rewards and punishment?

 

To create a plan to get what we want in a socially acceptable way

Freud believed that there were 3 parts to our personality.  The role of the EGO according to Freud is:

Adler

Which personality theorist believed that there was little going on in the unconscious, but instead our behavior is goal directed meaning we act to get what we want in life.  

A strong faith or spiritual belief

The notes suggest  Existential thinkers believe we are motivated to act in life by all of the following thoughts EXCEPT:

Feeler

These people use their mental processing function to make decisions on the basis of evaluating relative worth.

 

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Nothing can separate a person from God's love

What is the Bible’s response to those who might believe that they have done too much wrong or committed too big of sins? (Romans 8:38-39)

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Obey the commands that we know

In class it was discussed that we should connect with God through our obedience.  The first key to this is to know that God’s teaching and commands are.  The second key discussed in class is:

\n This is how we invite people to relationship with Jesus

What is the purpose of our loving others radically?

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Love as Jesus loved us (lay down your life for your friends)

What was the tough "add on" from Jesus words in John 13:34?

See every event in our lives as an opportunity to know Jesus better

In the lecture on relationship with God from 2 Peter Chapter 1 it was suggested that we can have a major perspective shift for our behavior when we:

Look at Jesus

The discussion on relationship with God suggested that there are 3 ways that we will look like a new creation after we accept Christ.  These three that were discussed include: Put God first, connect through obedience and: (All are good answers…. Which one is in the notes)

 

It is a situation in which one or both parties perceive a threat

How is a conflict different from a disagreement?

a blocked goal

In the lecture on conflict it was discussed that, according to Larry Crabb, anger is due to:

Justified self-centeredness

In the discussion on the causes of conflict it was said that in our sinful nature we have something that makes sense to me that I am angry and behaving badly.  This is called

as a good thing related to problem solving

In the lecture on conflict it was stated that to be good at conflict we must view others expressing their problems this way:

Manage your emotions

In the lecture on one sided conflict resolution it was stated that when someone brings a problem to you your goal should be to investigate what is really going on.  This was to be done in 2 ways.  The first is to ask good questions that help you know and understand the person better.  The second is: 

Glorify

The Purpose of creation and humanity is to ___________ God.

Eve then Adam ate the fruit from the tree of knowledge of good and evil.

Sin entered the world when

Image of Christ

Humans need to be conformed into the ________________________.

Each person is created in the image of God.

Why is each person valuable?

Moral, spiritual, and relational

To be created in the image of God means that we are ________ beings.

Extraversion

What does the “E” stand for in the big five factors of C.A.N.O.E.?

Holy Spirit.

In a Christian living according to the Holy Spirit, the personality is under domination of the _______________________________.

Our spirit

What is changed at the moment of salvation?

Our mind

What is being renewed every day?

our body

What will be changed in the resurrection?

 

Adam, Christ

Who I am in Christ: before salvation I am in ______________ and after salvation I am in ____________________.

passive dependence.

To abide in Christ, humans must have a ___________________________ on God’s \n power.

Active role

To abide in Christ, humans must also take an _________________________ in obeying God.

listening and guidance, prayer and intercession, study and meditation

The spiritual disciplines of Solitude are:

Empowers

To perform spiritual disciplines, the Holy Spirit ____________________ believers as they follow God.

Arrogant

What kind of people have abrasive personalities?

Silent-unresponsive

What kind of people rarely reveal what they’re thinking?

High maintenance

What kind of people are control freaks?

False

While conflict affects someone emotionally and spiritually, they are never affected physically.

Compromising

Which style says, “I will meet you halfway?”

Ephesians

What book of the Bible says, “Be angry and do not sin?”

Bitterness

Forgiveness allows healing to begin, while unforgiveness leads to __________.

Forgiving means restoring the relationship, I can forgive in my own power, Time heals

Myths about forgiving:

true

We have to forgive because God forgave us first.

Satan

Who is the father of lies?

God Created humans in his image

Why is each person valuable

helping them live and become conformed to Christ and perform God’s good acts.

What is the role of the Holy Spirit in a Christian’s life?

To have a passive dependence on God’s power

What does it mean to abide in Christ?

The body will be changed at the resurrection. The mind is in the process of being changed. The spirit is already changed at salvation.

How are the body, mind, and spirit changed at the moment of salvation?

Arrogant people who want their way

What kind of people have abrasive personalities? 

Silent-unresponsive people

What kind of people rarely reveal what they're thinking?

High maintenance people

What kind of people are control freaks? 

Can bring many emotions: Anger, depression, guilt, insecurity, anxiousness, and feeling powerful.

Spiritually: Stems from the Garden of Eden and the separation of mankind from God and each other.

Physically: can bring many symptoms: Fatigue, tense muscles, headaches, ulcers, etc.

How does conflict affect us emotionally, spiritually, and physically?

Ephesians 4

What book of the Bible says, "Be angry and do not sin?"

Forgiveness is necessary for getting rid of bitterness

What is the relationship between forgiveness and bitterness?

Transient or situational: Caused by some event, temporary.

Chronic or long-lasting: Caused by poor social skills or socially insensitive behavior that drives people away.

 Distinguish between different types of loneliness

Solitude is a voluntary withdrawal from others that is positive. Loneliness is involuntary, and is a longing to be wanted and needed by at least 1 other person.

Distinguish between loneliness and solitude.

Fear= a rational emotional response to a real threat.

Anxiety= an irrational response to an imagined threat.

. Distinguish between fear and anxiety

You should leave your parents, be united, and become one flesh- leave and cleave.

Representative of Christ’s relationship with the church, displays the love and covenant relationship the church has with Christ.

It is more than a legal union.

Read Genesis 2 and Ephesians 5. Make mental notes about what the Bible says about marriage.

1. *Enhance your Love Maps*
2. *Nurture your Fondness and Admiration*
3. *Turn Towards each other instead of away*
4. *Let your partner influence you*
5. *Solve your solvable problems*
6. *Overcome Gridlock*
7. *Create Shared Meaning*

Know Gottman's principles for a successful marriage and conflict resolution.

*Inlaws, money, housework*

What are the top three reasons for divorce?

With many members, united as one body, with a variety of gifts.

Read 1 Corinthians 12. Make mental notes about how believers are gifted.

comes from God, and is beyond understanding.

 Read John 14 and Philippians 4. Make mental notes about what the Bible says about peace.

condemnation expresses disapproval, feeling better than others. evaluation is an assessment, deciding what is right, not placing yourself above others

Distinguish between judgment for condemnation and judgment for evaluation

forcing

Using formal authority or other power that you possess to satisfy your concerns without regard to the concerns of others

collaborating

a win-win outcome after cooperating with the other side to find a mutual solution

Accommodating

In this conflict strategy the other person gets what they want while i do not

true

complaining is a good thing in problem solving

I feel, because, what i would like

making a complaint involves

our most important goal

when we drop the need to be right in a conflict we realize our role in the conflict will be defined by ___

true

The point of asking good questions in a conflict resolution is to get to know the person better

Investigate what is really going on

develop healthy intimacy with the person

maintain healthy boundaries

Good listeners in a conflict have the following goals:

see every event in our lives as a way to know Jesus better

in the lecture on relationship with God it was suggested that we can have a major perspective shift:

False

According to Romans 8:38-39 you can commit sins that are too big for God

Obey the teaching that we know

We connect with God through obedience. Key 1 is to know his teaching. What was key 2?

true

the main purpose of loving others radically is to invite others to relationship with Jesus.

True

Emotional experiencing is the capacity that both God and man have to feel things as they interact with the world

true

according to Freud the Id is the part of the personality that wants what I want when I want it.

by choosing our actions

how do existential thinkers suggest we choose our own destinies?

true

conflicts are opportunities for growth

justified self-centeredness

Feeling right about treating another person wrong

true

background is our families way of doing things

true

most people have more than one conflict resolution strategy, but rely on one more than the others

relationship and impact

the Christian view of personality suggests we long for which 2 things?

true

Jesus made the Pharisees mad when he changed what was important from rules to love

false

a conflict and a disagreement are the same thing

our thoughts then our beliefs

when discussing how we can control our feelings it was discussed that we must work backwards from our feelings to our:

false

conflicts generally get better with time even if they are ignored

true

MBTI type is not judgmental

introversion

This MBTI type reflects then acts

true

Sensing vs intuitive represents parts and pieces vs patterns and relationships.

love bank and love languages

what are the 2 ways we discussed that successful couples use to intentionally work at meeting one another’s needs?

your most important goal

when discussing the need to be right, what was said to most likely dictate your role in a conflict?

successful repair after fights

emotional responsiveness by men leads to softened start-up by women, and if men accept influence they may have:

criticism

attacking someone’s personality or character with blame rather than a specific behavior of complaining