Speakout 1b listening from utube

resonates with me

it feels very true, important, or familiar to your own experience

undervalued

it is considered to be less valuable or important than it really is

on (my) own terms

according to my own rules

to despise

hate something very much

it drains me

it makes me feel exhausted

to show up

to arrive for a gathering or event

gather myself

to make yourself feel calm again, or ready to do something, especially after a shock or before something difficult that you have to do

schmooze (imformal)

talk informally

a no-brainer (informal)

something such as a decision that is very easy or obvious