This theory says that our beliefs lead to our thoughts, and our thoughts lead to our actions
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Justified self-centeredness
Feeling good about treating someone else badly in a conflict
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Process
MBTI is a___ not a event, it develops with time and changes
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The substantive view
This view says we are like God in physical, psychological, and spiritual ways
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it is how we invite others to Jesus
Why does God want us to love others differently?
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A good thing that can lead to healthy intimacy
How should we view it when others express their problems in a conflict
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Behaviorism
A theory that says we are just responders to rewards and punishments
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Feeling type
People who use their mental processing function to make decisions on the basis of evaluating relative worth
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Emotional experiences
A capacity of personhood that suggests that both God and man feel things as they interact with the world
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Lay down your life for your friends (love as Jesus loved)
Jesus’ tough add-on to john 13:34
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Reflection, likeness, and reflection
Definitions of image
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Introversion type
Someone who reflects than acts
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Put God 1st, connecting through obedience, look at Jesus
The 3 ways that we will look like a new creation after we accept Christ
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Ask good questions and manage your emotions
The 2 things we should do when someone brings us a problem
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Existential personality theory
Suggests that we 1. have a limited time, 2. we can act or not act, 3. we gain meaning as a product of our searching for and creating purpose
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Intuitive type
People who take in information through insight and as it relates
to the big picture
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1 or both parties perceive a threat
What separates a conflict from a disagreement?
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Sin
If we are made in the image of God then why don’t we just reflect God?
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They are a way to know Jesus better
2 Peter suggests a different way of thinking about our struggles in life, what is it?
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Adler
A theorist who suggested that our behavior is goal directed
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Id- I want what I want when I want it, Ego- find a way to get what I want in an acceptable manner, Superego- The moral/right side that wants to control the Id
What did Freud believe were the 3 parts of the personality?
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Perception type
What lifestyle prefers to experience life as it happens
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Blocked goals
According to Larry Crabb what causes us to get angry?
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Deep longings
Which capacity of personhood is an intense longing that cannot be dismissed as an emotional reaction?
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Romans 8:38-39
Suggests that nothing can separate us from God’s love.
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Imago Dei
In the image of God
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God created each human in his image
Why is each person valuable?
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To glorify himself
Why did God create this world?
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Glory
All God’s creation reflects his __
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Moral, spiritual and relational beings
Humans are ___
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What you do
Value is not dependent on __
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Intrinsic value from being created in the image of God
We have __
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Make dead people alive
Jesus came to__
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Clever words
Temptation doesn’t have to use __
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defaced
Image of God has not been erased but ___
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Belief and declaration
Salvation occurs by
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costly
Following Jesus is___
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passive dependence
Humans must have a ___ on God’s power
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Active role
Humans must take an __ in obeying God
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look for God
God has look for us, so we must __
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Listening and guidance
Waiting to hear from God through the Holy Spirit. Listening and getting direction from God through the Holy Spirit
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Prayer and Intercession
Communicating to God through praise, thanksgiving, confession, and petition. Praying for others
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Study and Meditation
Carefully learning God’s word and pondering over it
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Repentance and confession
Turning away from sin and turning toward God
Admitting sin to God
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Worship
Ascribing the proper worth to God
Magnifying his worthiness in praise
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Response to who God is and what he’s done
Worship is a
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Fellowship
Sharing the companionship of other believers
The result of the indwelling Holy Spirit
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Service
Doing work with a willing heart to show God’s love to others
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Witness
Telling others through words or actions about Jesus
In the power of the Holy Spirit
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Holy Spirit
In the power of the ___ believers live and become conformed to Christ
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Categories
Your mind is wired for___
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your diet
Your thinking is affected by __
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Traits
come from genetics
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Behavior
peers and culture affect __
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Temperament
comes from genetics, is a trait
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Brain development
influenced by nutrition and environment stimulation.
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Gorden Allport
Interviewed Freud. Viewed personality according to traits and patterns
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Isabel Briggs Myers and Katherine Briggs
Made MBTI indicator to describe “important personality differ
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age
Traits stabilize with
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More Conscientious
Organized, careful and disciplined
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Less Conscientious
Disorganized, careless, impulsive
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More agreeableness
Soft-hearted, trusting, helpful
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less agreeableness
Ruthless, suspicious, uncooperative
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More Neuroticism/ less emotional stability
Anxious, insecure, self-pitying
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Less Neuroticism/ more emotional stability
Calm, secure, self-satisfied
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More openness
Imaginative, prefers variety, independent
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Less openness
Practical, prefers routine, conforming
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More extroversion
Sociable, fun-loving, affectionate
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Less extroversion
Retiring, sober, reserved
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Spirit
Already changed at salvation. Became a new creation.
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Soul/Mind
Being changed. Our minds are redeemed day by day
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Body
To be changed. Will be new bodies at resurrection, but are dying day by day here on earth.
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abrasive personalities
Arrogant, want their way
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Complainers
find fault with everything but never do anything
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Silent-unresponsive people
Rarely reveal what they’re thinking
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Negative people
Criticize, uncooperative
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Know-it-all “expert”
Condescending, uncooperative
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Indecisive people
Almost never take action
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Control freaks
high maintenance people
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Stressful social conditions
Crowding, heat, forced stays at home, crime, joblessness, political corruption, rival sports teams
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social irritants
stressful societal conditions, daily hassles
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Useful purpose of conflicts
Clarifying goals and bringing ignored disagreements to resolution