sesi 10 ATTRACTION & INTIMACY

Proximity

Geographical nearness; people often become friends with those they see frequently.

Anticipatory Liking

Expecting to interact with someone increases the likelihood of liking them.

Mere-Exposure Effect

Repeated exposure to something makes it more likable.

Physical Attractiveness

Importance of physical appearance, with men tending to prioritize appearance more than women.

Golden Ratio

A mathematical proportion (1:1.618) linked to beauty.

Physical-Attractiveness Stereotype

Assumption that attractive people possess desirable traits; 'what is beautiful is good'.

Matching Phenomenon

People choose partners of similar attractiveness.

Evolutionary Perspective

Men seek fertility signals in women; women seek security in men.

Similarity in Relationships

Couples who share interests and values tend to stay together longer.

Complementarity

The idea that opposites attract is weaker; successful long-term relationships are based on shared traits.

Reciprocity of Liking

People like those who like them.

Negative Comments Carry More Weight

Criticism is seen as more sincere than praise.

Reward Theory of Attraction

We like those who provide rewards or positive experiences.

Sternberg’s Triangular Model of Love

Includes intimacy, passion, and commitment.

Styles of Love - Eros

Passionate love characterized by intense attraction.

Styles of Love - Storge

Companionate love based on deep friendship.

Styles of Love - Ludus

Game-playing love viewed as a playful, non-serious game.

Styles of Love - Mania

Possessive love that is often jealous and obsessive.

Styles of Love - Pragma

Logical love that is practical and rational.

Styles of Love - Agape

Sacrificial love prioritizing a partner's happiness over personal needs.

Passionate Love

Characterized by intense emotional and physical attraction.

Companionate Love

Based on friendship, mutual interests, and long-term commitment.

Attachment Styles - Secure Attachment

Characterized by trust and intimacy.

Attachment Styles - Preoccupied Attachment

Characterized by anxiety and possessiveness.

Attachment Styles - Dismissive Attachment

Avoidant attachment, distrustful of others.

Attachment Styles - Fearful Attachment

Avoidant but desires closeness, fears rejection.

Equity in Relationships

Happiness in relationships is enhanced when partners feel they are giving and receiving fairly.

Self-Disclosure

Sharing personal information that strengthens relationships.

Factors Reducing Divorce Risk

Including marrying after age 20, stable two-parent homes, similar education, values, and financial stability.

Detachment Process - Loyalty

Waiting for improvement in a relationship.

Detachment Process - Voice

Openly discussing problems in a relationship.

Detachment Process - Neglect

Ignoring the partner in a relationship.

Detachment Process - Exit

Actively leaving a relationship.

Conclusion of Relationships

Involves psychological, social, and biological factors, requiring effort, understanding, and emotional support.