aggression
intentional behavior, intent to harm, the victim wants to avoid harm
violence
aggression with the goal of extreme physical harm
displaced aggression
“kicking the dog” effect: directing aggression towards someone/something innoc
triggered displaced aggression
minor triggering event increases aggression in angered participants
hostile/reactive aggression
hot, impulsive
instrumental/proactive aggression
cold, premeditated
passive aggression
less direct, vague, implied, target may not be present
active aggression
clear, direct, target is present
bullying
persistent aggression by a perpetrator against a victim for the purpose of establishing power over the victim
cyberbullying
use of internet to bully others, eliminates the variables of size and strength
Kurt Lewin
behavior = function of personality and environment
dark triad
machiavellianism (using people for personal gain), psychopathy (lack of empathy), narcissism (thinking they are the best)
antisocial
any behavior that damages interpersonal relationships or is socially undesirable
broken windows theory
antisocial behaviors will occur in the presence of social disorder
instinct theories of aggression
Darwin, Freud, Lorenz - aggressive behavior is an evolutionary adaptation that has permitted survival
motivational forces, like aggression, are based on instinct
eros: life giving instinct
thanatos: death/destructive instinct
learning theories of aggression
aggression is a learned behavior (modeling, bobo doll studies)
modeling
observing and mimicking back behaviors
bobo doll studies
Bandura and colleagues, children who watched the aggressive model had the highest level of aggression, seeing aggressive models extended aggressive behavior
catharsis theory
idea that venting will get rid of aggression (debunked by Bandura’s study)
inner causes of aggression
frustration, mood, appetitive aggression, risk factors/predictive variables (trauma, gender)
frustration-aggression hypothesis (1939)
the existence of frustration always leads to aggression
appetitive aggression
aggression that is motivated, in part or whole, by an intrinsic enjoyment of the aggressive act
hostile attribution bias
perceive ambiguous actions by others as aggressive (behavior is directed at you)
hostile perception bias
perceive social interactions as being aggressive (observing others)
hostile expectation bias
assume people will react to potential conflicts with aggression
age and aggression
25% of toddler interactions in day care involve physical aggression, second spike of aggressive behaviors occurs during puberty/adolescence
gender differences in stress response
fight or flight syndrome more adopted by boys, tend and befriend syndrome (be in community with others) more adapted by girls
interpersonal causes of aggression
domestic violence (occurs within home between people who have a close relationship, women attack relationship partners slightly more than men but without as much harm, physically weak family members are at greater risk, uncommitted relationships, use of drugs/alcohol)
external causes of aggression
weapons effect, mass media, unpleasant environment, chemical influences (testosterone, serotonin, alcohol)
weapons effect
mere presence of weapon increases aggressive behavior, functions through priming
Turner: stalled truck with either rifle & vengeance sticker, friend sticker, neither
mass media
violent media exposure increases aggression
wounded pride
violent individuals think that they are better than other people, have grandiose or inflated opinions of their worth, typically have traits of narcissism
culture of honor
southern us: violent response to threats to one’s honor
humiliation: primary cause of violence and aggression of cultures of honor, may be an important cause of terrorism
other antisocial behavior
cheating, littering, stealing
attraction
anything that draws two or more people together
ingredients for belongingness
regular social contact with others and close, stable, mutually intimate contact (mutual care and concern)
matching hypothesis
birds of a feather flock together - find someone on an equal attractive level, those who are more physically attractive have a larger pool
complementarity hypothesis
opposites attract
attraction: who likes whom
similarity, spouses are similar in many respects, may just be rejecting those who are dissimilar to us
people like those who are rewarding to them (reinforcement theory), interpersonal rewards
reciprocity (we like people who like us, mimicking increases liking
familiarity and exposure (propinquity: being near someone on a regular basis)
evolutionary explanation who likes whom
we seek out others who are similar to us because similar is safe
social allergy effect
if someone does something that annoys you initially, it will continue to annoy you
what is beautiful is good effect (aka halo effect)
the assumption that physically attractive people will be superior to others on many other traits
golden ratio
proportions of length of nose, chin, position of eyes
evolutionary theory of mate selection
primary goal is to survive and reproduce, males focus on health of mate, females focus on status and ability of a partner to provide
loneliness
painful feeling of wanting more human contact, have more difficulty understanding emotional states of others, bad for physical health
ostracism
being excluded, rejected, and ignored
effects of rejection
inner states are almost uniformly negative
rejection sensitivity
expect rejection and become hypersensitive to possible rejection (protective measurement)
rejection in the cookie jar
self-indulgent behaviors after rejection
criteria that constitutes a group
size, role of emotion, shared identity/similarity, presence of an outgroup
group
collection of at least 2 people that are doing/being something together
diversity in groups
greater creativity/flexible thinking, collective wisdom, greater difficulty to gain cooperation and collaboration, diversity of perspective
optimal distinctiveness theory
need to find common values but still need to find distinctiveness in one’s role
deindividuation
people lose self awareness and accountability and individuality, promoted by animosity
self-censorship
people may not fully believe in the message but will still commit to group conformity
evaluation apprehension
fear of being judged
social facilitation
Norman Triplett (bike studies) presence of others increases the levels of performance
Zajon tested this with cockroaches simple maze presence helped, complicated maze presence hurt
social loafing (aka free rider problem)
Max Ringlemann - performance declines in presence of others, occurs due to lack of accountability, lack of personal relevance of task, desire to not be a “sucker”
commons dilemma
resources squandered/not used efficiently
groupthink
tendency of group members to think alike, which often leads to bad decisions, rooted in desire to belong
groupthink is likely
group is similar and cohesive to begin with, presence of a strong directive leader, group is isolated from others, group possesses high collective self-esteem or superiority
signs groupthink is occurring
pressure towards conformity, evidence of self-censorship, illusion of invulnerability, sense of moral superiority, underestimating the challenge/your opponents
risky shift
tendency for groups to take greater risks than the same individuals would have decided to take individually
group polarization
shift toward a more extreme position resulting from group discussion
leadership traits
modest & humility, extreme persistence/’fierce resolve’, decisiveness, competent, integrity, vision, task orientation vs. relationship orientation
peter principle
if you perform well in your job, you will likely be promoted until you reach a position in which you are incompetent and will be stuck in
psychological safety
belief that you won’t be punished or humiliated for speaking
prosocial behavior
doing something good for someone or society, builds relationships, includes obeying rules, conforming to socially acceptable behavior, cooperating with others
factors in prosocial behavior
effective rule of law, fairness and justice, public circumstances (impression management: tip jars, offering plates)
reciprocity
obligation to return in kind what another has done for us, willingness to accept or request help is often predicated on ability to return in kind
Professor Kunz’s Christmas card study
sent 578 cards to strangers, received 117 cards back, a few phone calls, only 6 indicated they did not know him (study on reciprocity)
direct reciprocity
you help someone who helped you
indirect reciprocity
help someone and receive help from someone else
norms that promote fairness
equity, equality
under-benefited
getting less than you deserve (can lead to feelings of anger)
over-benefited
getting more than you deserve, unique to humans (feelings of guilt), origins of survivor’s guilt
cooperation
each person does their part and works towards a common goal
game theory
the science of strategy
prisoner’s dilemma
forced to choose between competition and cooperation
non-zero-sum game
either everyone can win or everyone can lose
improving cooperation
communication, interpretation of the situation (if cooperation viewed as strength- more cooperative)
obedience
following orders from an authority figure
Milgram (1963)
participants pressed a button to “shock” the learner when they answered wrong
62.5% of participants went all the way to strongest shock
obedience fosters
social acceptance, group life
obedience levels in Milgram’s study
obedience dropped when participants/learner were in the same room, dropped when done in a strip mall, dropped when participants had to put learner’s hand on a plate that “shocked” them, dropped when researcher had no lab coat, no difference when women participated as shocker
conformity
going along with the crowd
normative social influence
conformity to be accepted by the group
informational social influence
conformity based on actions of others (think they know better)
trust
confidence that others will provide benefits and/or not harm you, even if they may be tempted to do otherwise, slow to build, easy to unravel
evolutionary benefits of helping others
kin selection, egoistic helping, altruistic helping
kin selection
when we are faced with a decision to help, we tend to choose those who are blood related (theory most valid in life or death situations)
egoistic helping
wanting something in return for helping
negative state relief theory
you help to reduce your own distress
altruistic helping
expecting nothing in return for helping, motivated by empathy
who helps whom
helpful personality, similarity to self, men more helpful in broader public sphere, towards strangers, and emergencies, females more helpful in family sphere, towards close relationships, and in repeated contact - feel more sympathy/empathy, more likely to receive help
bystander effect
people are less likely to offer help when they are in a group than when they are alone
steps to helping
notice that something is happening, interpret meaning of event, take responsibility for providing help, decide/know how to help, provide help
pluralistic ignorance
looking to other cues about how to behave while they are looking to you, collective misinterpretation
diffusion of responsibility
reduction in feeling responsible that occurs when others are present
overcoming obstacles to helping
reduce distractions, reduce diffusion of responsibility, reduce concerns about competence to help, reduce audience inhibitions