self-disclosure theory

social penetration theory

Altman and Taylor

gradual process of revelling inner self to someone

revealing info - displays trust (strengthen relationship)

breadth - types of topics

depth - level of detail

Reciprocity

relationships will only develop if both individuals are active in disclosing information.

Attributions

someone who discloses to everyone - less attractive

someone reveals info to fewer people - more attractive

Appropriateness

breaking social norms - revelling too much info too quickly (TMI)

lowering attraction

AO3 - cultural differences

Tang

disclose more in collectivist cultures - USA

than individualistic cultures - China

satisfaction was no different

AO3 - real life applications

people who improve communication in their relationships

using skilfully and deliberately strengthen the bond

also - found in homosexual relationships.

AO3 - supporting research

Sprecher and Hendrick

heterosexual relationships

strong positive correlation between several measures of relationship satisfaction and self-disclosure

more satisfied and committed

limitation - heterosexual