Bob: thought they were having a nice relaxing dinner away from the kids. Thought they should do it more often
Alice: Was not relaxed at the dinner because she had already done a million things during the day leading up to the dinner. She picked up her husband dry cleaning, made the reservations, got the babysitter, cooked dinner for the kids, did laundry. She was stressed about work as she was being treated fairly as a woman in law and wanted to gain parter status at her firm.