11.5 Marriage and Cohabitation

What does the Catholic Church teach about the nature of marriage?

Marriage is a valuable commitment that provides a loving environment, is an exclusive union, and is a sacrament through which God's love is given.

What mnemonic can help remember the nature of marriage?

LESS: Loving relationship, Exclusive, Sacrament, Sign.

What are marriage promises?

They are vows made during the marriage ceremony, publicly declaring commitment and asking for the church community's support.

What example is given for marriage promises?

I take you to be my lawful wedded husband/wife, to have and to hold from this day forward... till death do us part.”

How do marriage promises reflect commitment?

They show equal commitment from both partners and acknowledge potential difficulties in the relationship.

What is cohabitation?

Cohabitation is when a couple lives together and has a sexual relationship without being married.

Why do some couples choose to cohabit?

Couples may cohabit to test the relationship, for financial reasons, or to see if they want to marry or enter a civil partnership.

Why does the Catholic Church oppose cohabitation?

It can diminish family unity, break the sanctity of marriage, negatively affect children, and reduce commitment in the relationship.

How might cohabitation affect children?

If the couple splits up, it can lead to instability and distress for the children involved.

What is one potential negative effect of cohabitation on a couple's relationship?

It may create insecurity, as one partner might leave, which can undermine the sense of commitment.