(privilege) YAZZ - “Privilege is about…”
“Privilege is about context and circumstance.” - p. 68
(friendship) SHIRLEY - “Her friendship with Amma is based on…”
“Her friendship with Amma is based on a historic loyalty and comfortable familiarity rather than shared interests and perspectives.”
(identity) NARRATOR - “Penelope wanted to embrace…”
“Penelope wanted to embrace self-acceptance / getting rid of the full-length mirrors in her home was a good start.” - p. 299
(marriage) WINSOME on Clovis - “If it was twenty years later […] …”
“If it was twenty years later […] I'd have left him there and then / if it had been thirty years later, I'd have lived with him before marrying him, you see it occurred to me that I didn't really know this man who wanted me to follow him around like a mindless idiot." - p. 231
SHIRLEY - “Neil Armstrong walks on the moon…”
“Neil Armstrong walks on the moon with the caption: one small step for man, one giant leap for mankind / like her / every step she takes will raise these children up, she will leave no child behind” - p. 220
(identity) AMMA - “Amma spent decades…”
“Amma then spent decades on the fringe, a renegade lobbing hand grenades at the establishment that excluded her”
(friendship/identity) AM/DOM - “Neither…”
“neither was prepared to betray their politics to find jobs”
(unity) ENDING - “This is…”
“This is about being / together.”
(friendship) SHIRLEY ABOUT AMMA - “Amma came out…”
“Amma came out as lesbian […] which was initially quite disgusting.”
(friendship) SHIRLEY’S ATTITUDE TOWARDS AMMA - “Shirley had to…”
“Shirley had to put up with her badge-wearing friend or lose the friendship, she can’t not have Amma in her life.” // “Felt protective of her”
(friendship) AMMA TOWARDS SHIRLEY (AFTERPARTY) - “They’ve hardly…”
“They’ve hardly spoke all evening”
(mother/daughter) YAZZ towards Amma - “Mum’s…”
“Mum’s emotional caretaker” // “Mumsy” (contrast with Penelope)
(circumstance) YAZZ towards Warris - “You’ve…”
“You’ve really suffered” / “I haven’t suffered […] I’m not a victim, don’t ever treat me like a victim, my mother didn’t raise me to be a victim”
(friendship) YAZZ towards Courtney about music - “Everyone’s…”
“Everyone’s at it, right? […] so why are you targeting us in particular?”
AMMA AND DOM UNITED - “Neither was…”
“Neither was prepared to betray their politics to find jobs”
(friendship) AMMA thoughts about Dom - “Amma realized she’d found…”
“Amma realized she’d found a kindred spirit in Dom who would kick arse with her”
AMMA’s attitude towards Nzinga - “Amma wanted Nzinga…”
“Amma wanted Nzinga to prove herself worthy of Dominique’s love”
(distance and friendship) AMMA towards Dom at the afterparty - “Dissolves…”
“Dissolves as if it was never a barrier in the first place”
(Friendship and politics) AMMA reflecting on Shirley - “because friendship…”
“Because friendship was unconditional wasn’t it?”
YAZZ on Nenet - “lazy…”
“Lazy, spoilt, immoral princess”
DOM AND AMMA - “collided…”
“Collided in a hug”