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friendship
platonic, nonromantic relationship
dispositional level of analysis
characteristics of the person as a determinant of frienship
more abt characteristics, doesnt always consider on whether not the friendship is with man or woman, the attributes matter
ex. women might have more intimate friendships bc women r most likely to self disclose
structural level
emphasizes different positions of ppl in society
ex. cishet may have greater variety in friends
boys style of play
play outside
rough and tumble
build
emphasizes dominance
girls style of play
creative (arts and crafts)
cooperative (dont rlly have games w winners
relationship focused
family play
house
school
girl influence
they make polite suggestions, not explicitly demand
they have a hard time influencing boys
can influence other girls but less likely to infl boys
institutional support
parents and teachers have differential treatment for boys and girls
less common for family w s3xual minority parents
they are placed in different opportunities
they r encouraged to spend time w same gender peers
qualities of frndship ppl look for
trustworthy
dependable
agreeable
support
fun and relaxation
similarities
men and women are equally likely to view themselves similar to friends
affective skills
comforting, feel good abt self, building self esteem
women rate affective skills as more important than men do
instrumental skills
entertaining, casual convo, just conveying info
most important skill in friendship
men and women rate affective skill in fship, even though men see instrumental is more important than women would rate it
prosocial behavior
helping behavior
self disclosure
sharing int and vulnerable info w understanding the other person is accepting and trustworthy
empathy
feeling for someone elses experiencesad
advanced theory of mind
ability to infer mental state of another esp in an ambiguous sit
women can identify smth is going on or having a hard time even when there is not a clear sign
women are socialized to care for others
they help other ppl have close relationships
self-disclosure
most imp determinate of intimate relationship
wom self disclose more than men
co rumination
one women shares w another and npw they bpth ruminate
there can be negative effects - pressure, anciety, obsession
leads to good friendship quality but has some pychological costs
types of rumination
contagion: someone shares someyhing and then makes u worry abt your own similarity
co brooding
negative outcomes
spural
obsess and brood
co reflection
oisitive
what can we do
how to adddress info
barriers to closeness in male friendhsips
comp
homophobia
emotional inexpressoveness