nstp | topic 2: citizenship training

citizenship training

to provide the knowledge and skills necessary to create an ongoing stream of new citizens participating and engaging with the creation of a progressing and dynamic society

paradigm

the way you see something, your point of view, frame of reference or belief

1. paradigm of self

2. paradigm of others

3. paradigm of life

3 kinds of paradigm

paradigm of self

Understanding about self-concept helps us assess our ________

positive self-paradigms

brings out the best in us

negative self-paradigm

puts limitations on us

self-concept

our conscious and unconscious perceptions and feelings about ourselves with regard to our worth as persons

mirror

self-concept serves as a _____ because it reflects to us a picture of ourselves, which in turn affects us either positively or negatively

filters

self-concept ____ our experiences so that we interpret them according to our existing perceptions of ourselves

1. self-image

2. self-confidence

3. self-esteem

3 dimensions of self-concept

self-image

our perceptions and feelings about our worth with regard to our physical and

social appearance

physical

genetic inheritance such as sex and race, and physical attributes such as height,

build, weight and others

social appearance

names, roles, status, titles

self-confidence

our perceptions and feelings about our worth with regard to our capabilities.

This involves our ability to do things, to achieve, and to develop more competencies

self-esteem

our perceptions and feelings about our worth with regard to our lovability. This relates to our basic ability to love and be loved

johari’s windows

paradigm of others

Seeing things from a different point of view can help us understand why other people act the way they do

principle-centered life

________ is the real thing. People have to recognize and live in harmony with such basic principles as fairness, equity, justice, integrity, honesty, and trust

the seven habits

these constitute a principle-centered paradigm

principles

are guidelines for human conduct that are proven to have enduring, permanent value -- they are fundamental

habit

a recurrent, often unconscious pattern of behavior that is acquired through frequent repetition. It is an established disposition of the mind or character

good habit

the intersection of knowledge, skill and desire

change

cycle of being and seeing

knowledge

a theoretical paradigm - “what to do and why”

skill

“how to do it”

desire

motivation, “want to do it”

dependence

"private victories" required for character growth. Private victories precede public victories

independence

Habits 4, 5 and 6 are the more personality-oriented "public victories" of Teamwork, Cooperation and Communication.

interdependence

Habit 7 is the habit of Renewal, creating an upward spiral of growth.

be proactive

“principle of personal vision”

habit 1

begin with the end in mind

“principle of personal leadership”

habit 2

put first things first

“principle of personal management”

habit 3

think win-win

habit 4

seek first to understand, then to be understood

habit 5

synergize

(the “high” way)

habit 6

sharpen the saw

(it’s me time)

habit 7

Reactive people, Proactive people

____ make choices based on impulse while ____ make choices based on values

be proactive

“principle of personal vision”

you are the driver of your life

self-awareness

i can stand apart from myself and observe my thoughts and actions

conscience

I can listen to my inner voice to know right from wrong

imagination

I can envision new possibilities

willpower

i have the power to choose

begin with the end in mind

“principle of personal leadership”

Developing a clear picture of where you want to go with your life and deciding which values are helpful in goal-setting

begin with the end in mind

“principle of personal leadership”

based on imagination. It is the ability to envision, see the potential, and create with our minds what we cannot at present see with our eyes and conscience

put first things first

“principle of personal management”

all about learning to prioritize and managing your time so that your first things come first, not last

important

most significant things, your first things, activities that contribute to your mission and your goals

urgent

pressing things, in-your-face things, activities that demand immediate attention

discipline

putting first things first takes _____

think win-win

foundation for getting along well with other people.

It begins with the belief that we are all equal, that no one is inferior or superior to anyone else, and no one really needs to be.

seek first to understand, then to be understood

the key to communication, and to having the power to influence other people

empathic listening

highest form of listening with the intent to understand. It is the ability to project oneself into the personality of another person in order to better understand that person's emotions or feelings

synergy

achieved when two or more people work together to create a better solution than either could do alone

sharpen the saw

(it’s me time)

all about keeping your personal self sharp so that you can better deal with life

responsibility/initiative

what is the principle embodied in this habit?

1: be proactive

vision/values

what is the principle embodied in this habit?

2: begin with the end in mind

integrity/execution

what is the principle embodied in this habit?

3: put first things first

mutual respect’s benefit

what is the principle embodied in this habit?

4: think win-win

mutual understanding

what is the principle embodied in this habit?

5: seek first to understand, then to be understood

creative cooperation

what is the principle embodied in this habit?

6: synergize

renewal

what is the principle embodied in this habit?

7: sharpen the saw

self-awareness

which main component of emotional intelligence is developed through the following habit/s?

1: be proactive

personal motivation

which main component of emotional intelligence is developed through the following habit/s?

2: begin with the end in mind

self-regulation

which main component of emotional intelligence is developed through the following habit/s?

3: put first things first

7: sharpen the saw

empathy

which main component of emotional intelligence is developed through the following habit/s?

5: seek first to understand, then to be understood

social skills

which main component of emotional intelligence is developed through the following habit/s?

4: think win-win

5: seek first to understand, then to be understood

6: synergize

greatness

The call and need for new era is ____

Find Your Voice and Inspire Others to Find Theirs

habit 8

voice

unique personal significance that is revealed as we face our greatest challenges and which makes us equal to them

talent

natural gifts and strengths

passion

those things that naturally energize, excite, motivate and inspire you

need

including what the world needs enough to pay you for

conscience

that still, small voice within that assures you of what is right and that prompts you to actually do it

win-lose

Using other people, emotionally or physically, for your own selfish purposes

lose-win

• the doormat

• It’s easy to get stepped on. It’s easy to be the nice guy. It’s easy to give in, all in the name of being a peacemaker

lose-lose

• downward spiral

• war, revenge

win-win

You care about other people and you want them to succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to succeed as well.

procrastinator

thrives under pressure

prioritizer

quadrant of excellence

yes-man

trying to please people

slacker

category of waste and excess

negative labels

ugly forms of prejudice

it’s all over syndrome

When you’ve made a mistake and feel so bad about what you’ve done

wrong wall

You worked really hard to get something you wanted only to find out that when you got it, you feel empty inside