discernment
the act of distinguishing one thing from the other, or separating one thing from the other; distinguishing what leads us closer to God & fulfilling His will for us
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how many Ignatian Rules for Discernment are there?
false spirit
the “inner pull” away from God’s plan & away from faith, hope, & love; aka the “evil spirit” or “the enemy of our human nature”
true spirit
the “inner pull” toward God’s plan & toward faith, hope, & love; aka the “good spirit”
desolation
the state of being under the influence of the false spirit
consolation
the state of being under the influence of the true spirit & in profound inner peace & joy
when in desolation
empty of faith, hope, & love
empty of the sense of God’s closeness
full of restlessness (disquietude) & agitation
full of boredom & apathy (tepidity)
full of fear & worry
full of secrecy
examen
a quick daily reflection on the spirits that have stirred my thoughts, emotions, & actions this day
confusion
the subcategory of desolation
false consolation
an advanced form of desolation
when in consolation
i have:
faith, hope & love
a sense of God’s closeness
peace & tranquility
great desires
transparency
true perspective
a subcategory of consolation
support network
mentors, companions, & the Church
spiritual direction
the process of meeting regularly with a person trained to help me with my relationship with God
companion
a friend to whom i can entrust the more personal aspects of my life
St. Ignatius’ 3 Causes of Desolation
I have fallen into sin & God has allowed desolation to come as a natural consequence
God allows desolation to come in order to “test me” so that my faith will grow stronger.
God allows desolation to come in order to give me the great gift of humility, a core Ignatian virtue, so I do not become spiritual prideful.
agere contra
literally, to “act against”, the choice to do the opposite of what i am tempted to do in desolation
8 Ways to Deal with Desolation
name it
make no unnecessary changes
rely on your support network
consider logistical or moral causes
be aware of the false angel of light
be firm with the false spirit
be gentle with yourself
have faith that God is at work in your desolation
6 Ways to Build Fortifications while in Consolation
Name the weak spots in me during prayer.
Bring my weak spots to my support network.
If appropriate, tell others about this vulnerability.
Commit myself to prayer during times I feel especially vulnerable.
Ask the Lord to help me move slowly & delibrately thorugh the tense moments.
Choose to be proactive rather than reactive.
4 Ways to Prepare for Desolation
observe the course of thoughts
look out for false consolation
attend to vulnerabilities
seek God in your painful past
first principle & foundation
the statement that answers the big questions about the purpoes of my life & the purpose of this decision during discernment
Ignatian indifference
the grace-filled state of desiring to do God’s will & to praise, revere, & serve God more than desiring anything else; the state of graceful availability