6-INTERSUBJECTIVITY

Intersubjectivity

The condition of man, a subject, among other men, who are also subjects; refers to shared awareness and understanding among persons.

Martin Buber

An Austrian-born Israeli Jewish philosopher best known for his philosophy of dialogue, emphasizing that the world, while not comprehensible, is embraceable through relationships.

Social vs. Interhuman

Social refers to a group life bound by common experiences, while interhuman refers to interpersonal life characterized by dialogue.

Dialogue

A deep and genuine relationship between persons that occurs when they truly acknowledge each other as equals.

Ich~Es (I~It) relationship

A relationship where individuals treat others as objects to be used rather than engaging in genuine dialogue.

Ich~Du (I~Thou) relationship

A relationship that involves concrete encounters and dialogue between persons without objectification.

Seeming

Approaching others based on desired impressions, often involving manipulation of one's true self.

Being

Approaching others from one's true self, accepting oneself and others as they are.

Speechifying

Talking past another person without listening to what they say, leading to ineffective communication.

Imposition

Holding one's own opinions and values above those of another, disregarding their perspective.

Unfolding

Recognizing the unique individuality of others and allowing them to actualize themselves.

Essential Characteristics of Love

Love is historical, total, eternal, and sacred, recognizing the intrinsic value of individuals.

Loneliness

A basic human experience stemming from self-awareness and the desire for connection.

Ways to Address Loneliness

Methods like escapism, conformity with groups, and creative productivity to cope with feelings of loneliness.

The Art of Loving

Fromm's perspective that people often prioritize being loved over loving, leading to confusion about love's nature.

Dr. Manuel Dy, Jr.

Noted that the experience of love begins from the experience of loneliness.

interhuman

Refers to interpersonal relationships, emphasizing dialogue and connection between individuals.

social

Refers to group life bound by experiences and reactions.

personal making present

Fully opening oneself to others.

martin bubers philosophy of love

• "Love is the responsibility of an I for a Thou."

• Love transcends objectification and centers on the relationship between individual

loneliness

• Fundamental aspect of human experience tied to self-awareness.

historical

Love is tied to individual histories.

total

love involves indivisibility of persons.

enternal

Love extends beyond temporal limitations.

sacred

Valuing persons for their inherent worth