Rules

talk about details BEFORE going out

where im going, who im with, time, drinking

discuss drinking at bars/clubs

call to discuss drinking asap, if can’t call send text

send snap video

as soon as i get into the place

send update snaps

at least every hour

text when

leaving a place and getting to a new place

if going to a new place not previously mentioned

update immediately

if staying somewhere longer than anticipated

update immediately

no conversations for too long

with guys who may seem interested

try really hard to

touch me or grab me when i’m out

if someone’s walking behind me

turn away and add hands as barrier

no complimenting other guys

especially with christo around cause they can take it as flirting

no greek dancing

with other guys

keep phone

in hand not in purse

if putting phone away

tell christo and wait for a response

no sharing drinks

even sips of any kind

if christo asks for a quick photo of anything

just send it

if overwhelmed when out

let christo know i need a second

no photos or interactions

with celebrity guys because they are just guys

no reposting or liking

stuff about other guys

keep giving him things for boyfriend privilege

don’t make it about myself, do more things for him

whenever doing work in between or after class

do it with him, if doing it with someone else, just let him know

let him take care of me

without a lot of pushback

no borrowing other tops or bottoms when out with christo

shoes are fine, wear whatever when not out with him

call him

when i’m walking and it’s dark out

let him see my clothes

before donating any

don’t make certain comments about him around sophia or destiny

it may seem like i’m putting him down

if christo wants to talk and i’m on my phone

either say one second and explain why or if it’s not important just put my phone down and listen

if he says he is excited about something

try harder to put it down and listen

if christo is upset

don’t just say that he looks upset, ask him how he is and consider his feelings

save things to do for the first time together with him

cruise, southern italy, bahamas, new places, harry potter

if i set a time estimate and its coming close to that time

send an update text with new time estimate

when going out

be extra attentive if he says to let him know about something

be 100% transparent with my emotions

tell him how i feel and don’t try to cover it up

don’t sweep his feelings under the rug

listen to them and acknowledge them

if i do or choose to do something

try hard to have a reason for it or try to think of one before saying idk

if i’m gonna say no to him

say no to my friends too

if he asks a question i don’t know the answer to

just give my best guess

respond to every necessary text

even if it’s just a reaction or ok

make him feel like he’s a part of things during the day

by sending update snaps and texts

when responding to a text

acknowledge it, give time frame, give extra details when communicating

tell him your schedule so he can plan his

tell him what i’m doing and how long it’ll take

if he asks what i’m thinking about

be more open and actually respond

if he asks about how things are/went

don’t give one word answers

don’t say sorry too much but make sure to apologize for things actually needing an apology

don’t make the apologies about yourself, actually be attentive to his feelings

if i ever don’t feel like talking or doing work together

communicate it, don’t just go silent or ignore him

don’t over promise things i can’t fulfill, don’t set expectations i can’t fulfill

dont go silent and actually respond, at least update the expectation if i can’t fulfill it

to show you’re paying attention

make eye contact with him on facetime and actually seem engaged

don’t always prioritize other things

make sacrifices for him and actually put in effort

trust his word and his judgement

he makes the most logical choices that are thought out

step out of your comfort zone with him too

don’t do risky things only without him, comply with him when he says to do stuff too

if we need a quick decision that may be rushed

just trust him and go with his decision because it is probably more thought out