Role of self disclosure as factor affecting attraction in romantic relationships.

1) Definition

Self-disclosure is revealing personal info (feelings, experiences, thoughts) to a partner — builds trust, intimacy, and attraction.

2)Social Penetration Theory

Altman & Taylor — relationships develop through gradual self-disclosure. More personal info = deeper intimacy.

3)Breadth and Depth

Early disclosure = broad but shallow. As trust builds, disclosure becomes deeper and more meaningful — increases closeness

4)Reciprocity

Disclosure must be mutual. Partners respond with understanding and share in return — this strengthens emotional connection.(Reid and Shaver)

5) Timing

Too much disclosure too early may reduce attraction. Effective disclosure happens gradually at the right stage.

6) Emotional > Factual

Emotional disclosures (fears, dreams) increase closeness more than factual ones — shows trust and vulnerability.

✅ Sprecher et al.

Found that reciprocal disclosure increased liking — supports the theory that mutual sharing boosts attraction.

✅Real-life application

Used in couple’s therapy to improve communication and satisfaction — shows practical benefit of self-disclosure.

❌Cultural bias

Disclosure norms vary — Western cultures value openness more than collectivist ones. Limits generalisability.

❌Not always positive

Disclosure doesn’t always boost attraction — if info is too personal or negative, it can reduce liking. Context matters.