TOPIC 23: WAYS OF SOCIALIZING (structures)

A drop in the ocean

I believe individual actions can still matter, although they may seem like a d___ __ ___ ___. When many people make small contributions, their collective impact can become significant, especially in areas such as environmental protection. (hạt muối bỏ biển)

A house on fire

My friend is incredibly efficient when she has a deadline. Once she starts working, she moves like _ ___ __ ___, yet she still manages to stay organised and avoid careless mistakes. (rất nhanh)

A kick in the teeth

Being treated unfairly can feel like a k___ __ ___ ___, especially after someone has made a genuine effort. However, I think people should respond calmly and communicate their concerns rather than immediately becoming confrontational. (đối xử tồi tệ và không công bằng)

A nail in the coffin

Poor communication can be a n___ __ __ ___ for a team project. Even when everyone is talented, misunderstandings and a lack of coordination can gradually undermine the entire group's performance. (điều gì đó gây ra thất bại hoặc sắp thất bại)

A shot in the dark

When I had to answer an unfamiliar question in class, I took a s___ __ ___ ____ because I had almost no knowledge of the topic. Surprisingly, my guess turned out to be partly correct. (cố gắng đoán điều gì khi không có kiến thức về nó)

Abstain from

People should sometimes a____ ___ making comments when they do not have enough information. Taking a moment to think before posting can prevent unnecessary arguments and make online communication much more respectful. (tránh, kiêng, nhịn)

An open and shut case

Some disagreements are an ____ and ____ ____ when there is clear evidence. However, many social issues are more complicated because different people may interpret the same situation from completely different perspectives. (trường hợp rõ ràng, dễ giải quyết)

Apologize to sb for st/doing st

I once a____ my friend ___ replying rather impatiently when I was stressed. I realised that my reaction was unfair, so I explained myself honestly and tried to communicate more thoughtfully afterwards. (xin lỗi ai về điều gì/vì đã làm gì)

Ask sb out

Before ___ing someone ___, people usually try to get to know them better. They may spend time together, have meaningful conversations and look for signs that the other person is comfortable with the idea. (mời ai đi hẹn hò)

At the expense of

Academic success should not come at ____ ____ __ mental well-being. Students may achieve impressive results, but if they constantly sacrifice sleep, friendships and personal time, their overall quality of life can suffer. (trả giá cho)

Be compatible with st/sb

People do not necessarily need identical personalities to be _____ ___ each other. Shared values, mutual respect and effective communication are probably more important than having exactly the same interests. (tương thích, hòa hợp với)

Bite the hand that feeds sb

People should not b___ ___ _____ ____ ____s them because relationships depend heavily on trust and gratitude. Even when disagreements occur, it is important to acknowledge the support someone has provided in the past. (ăn cháo đá bát)

Blurt st out

My friend once ____ed ___ some news before the person involved was ready to tell everyone. She immediately realised her mistake and apologised, but it taught us to be more careful with sensitive information. (tiết lộ, để lộ)

By virtue of

Some people become influential b_ ___ __ expertise or experience. Their knowledge gives them credibility, although influence should still be accompanied by responsibility and a willingness to listen to other perspectives. (bởi vì)

Clamp down on sth

Governments may need to c___ ____ on genuinely harmful online content, particularly scams and serious misinformation. However, such measures should be carefully designed so that legitimate discussion and freedom of expression are not unnecessarily restricted. (kiểm soát cái gì chặt chẽ hơn)

Conceive of = imagine

I find it difficult to c____ __ a world without instant communication. Technology has become so deeply integrated into daily life that imagining people completely disconnected from one another feels almost impossible. (tưởng tượng)

Confide in sb

I usually c____ __ a close friend when something is bothering me. I value people who listen without immediately judging or trying to solve everything, because sometimes being understood is enough. (thổ lộ, tâm sự với ai)

Contrary to

C____ __ popular belief, quiet people are not necessarily antisocial. Some may simply prefer deeper conversations or smaller social circles, while still being perfectly capable of building meaningful relationships. (trái với)

Deprive sb of sth

Excessive isolation can d____ children __ important opportunities to develop communication skills. Interacting with peers allows them to practise cooperation, resolve disagreements and gradually become more confident in social situations. (tước đoạt của ai cái gì)

Dine in

I generally prefer to d___ __ because eating at home is more comfortable and gives me time to talk with my family. It is also easier to control what I eat and avoid unnecessary spending. (ăn tối)

Drop in

I occasionally d___ __ on close friends, but only when I know they are comfortable with spontaneous visits. For most people, I think it is more considerate to send a quick message beforehand. (tạt đến, ghé thăm)

Pop in

I sometimes p___ __ to see a friend when I happen to be nearby. These visits are usually quite short, but they can still be a nice way to maintain a friendship without making elaborate plans. (ghé thăm, đến một lát)

Enable sb to do st

Social media e____s people ___ maintain relationships despite living far apart. However, convenience does not automatically create meaningful communication, so people still need genuine conversations and shared experiences to build strong connections. (làm cho ai có thể làm gì)

Get completely the wrong end of the stick

I once got ____ ___ ___ ___ __ ___ ____ when a friend sent me a very short message. I assumed she was annoyed with me, but she was actually just busy and had no negative intention at all. (hiểu lầm hoàn toàn, hiểu sai)

Get st across

My teacher is particularly good at ____ing her ideas ___. She explains complicated concepts in simple language and uses relevant examples, which makes even difficult topics much easier for students to understand. (trình bày cái gì)

Give sb the low-down (on sth)

When I need the _____ on something, I usually ask someone who has experienced it personally. I prefer first-hand information because it tends to be more practical and less influenced by rumours. (nói cho ai sự thật)

Hear st straight from the horse's mouth

I would rather ____ something ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ than rely on rumours. Checking information directly can prevent misunderstandings, especially when the issue involves someone’s reputation or personal relationships. (nghe từ nguồn tin trực tiếp, đáng tin cậy)

Hear st through the grapevine

At school, people sometimes hear ___ ___ ___ _____ before there is any official announcement. This can be entertaining, but rumours are not always accurate, so I try not to take them too seriously. (nghe nói, nghe đồn)

Hide away

Some people h___ ____ when they feel overwhelmed or insecure. Although having some personal space can be healthy, completely avoiding others for long periods may make it harder to maintain supportive relationships. (giấu giếm, tránh né)

In recognition of

Public recognition can encourage people to continue contributing to their communities. Awards are often given i_ ___ __ achievements, but simple appreciation from friends, teachers or colleagues can be equally meaningful. (công nhận)

In the event of st

I_ ___ ___ __ an emergency, people should know who to contact and where to seek help. Clear communication is especially important because panic can easily cause confusion and delay an effective response. (nếu điều gì đó xảy ra)

In view of

I_ ____ __ the rapid development of technology, people may need to reconsider how they communicate. Digital platforms are convenient, but face-to-face interaction still plays an important role in developing trust and emotional understanding. (xét về)

Keep it under one's hat = keep it in the dark about

My friend once asked me to k___ it ___ my ___ until she was ready to tell everyone about an important decision. I respected her privacy because she trusted me with something quite personal. (giữ bí mật)

Keep sb in the loop

In group projects, everyone should k___ each other __ ___ ____ Regular updates prevent misunderstandings and make it easier for members to coordinate their responsibilities without constantly having to ask for information. (thông báo cho ai về tất cả mọi thứ liên quan đến chủ đề nào đó)

Lock, stock and barrel

When my family moved house, we had to transfer almost everything l___, ___ ___ ___. It was exhausting, but the experience also taught me how much planning is needed when making a major change. (gồm tất cả mọi thứ)

On the understanding that

I think compromises work best o_ ___ ____ ____ both sides are willing to respect each other. If only one person continually gives in, the relationship can eventually become unbalanced and frustrating. (với điều kiện là)

Peg away

My friend is the type of person who will p__ ____ at a difficult task until she understands it. She may struggle at first, but she rarely gives up simply because something takes longer than expected. (kiên trì)

Persuade sb to do st

I once p____ed my friend __ join an activity I initially felt uncomfortable about. I eventually agreed, and it turned out to be a valuable experience because I met several interesting people. (thuyết phục ai làm gì)

Put st in the picture

Team members should regularly p__ each other __ ___ ____ when plans change. Sharing updated information ensures that everyone understands the situation and can make decisions based on the same set of facts. (cung cấp những thông tin mới nhất)

Regardless of = irrespective of

People should be treated respectfully r____ of their background or opinions. We do not have to agree with everyone, but maintaining basic respect makes social interaction healthier and more productive. (bất chấp)

Set st down

If I need to remember something important, I usually s__ it ____ in my notes. Writing information down helps me organise my thoughts and reduces the chance of forgetting details later. (viết cái gì)

Show off = boast about = blow one's own trumpet

Some people s___ ___ because they want recognition or reassurance from others. However, constantly b___ing a____ achievements can have the opposite effect and may make social interactions feel competitive rather than genuine. (khoe khoang, khoác lác)

Shy away [from]

I used to s__ ____ from speaking in front of groups because I was worried about making mistakes. Gradually, I became more comfortable by practising regularly and accepting that making occasional mistakes is normal. (tránh né làm gì vì thiếu tự tin)

Step aside

Sometimes the best way to support others is to s___ _____ and let them take responsibility. I think this is particularly important in group work because everyone deserves an opportunity to contribute and develop. (tránh sang một bên)

Step back

When a disagreement becomes emotional, it can help to s___ _______ before responding. Taking some time to calm down allows people to consider the situation more objectively instead of saying something they may later regret. (lùi lại)

Step forward

Young people can s___ ____ by gradually putting themselves in unfamiliar social situations. Joining clubs, volunteering and speaking to new people can help them become more confident and develop stronger communication skills. (tiến lên, tiến về phía trước)

Take offence (at st)

People may t___ ____ at comments that were never intended to be insulting. Differences in personality, culture and communication style can affect how words are interpreted, so clarification is often necessary. (bất bình, giận về việc gì)

Talk sb round = convince sb

I once managed to t___ my friend ______ when we disagreed about how to organise a project. Instead of arguing, I explained my reasoning calmly and listened to her concerns before suggesting a compromise. (thuyết phục ai)

Talk the hind leg off a donkey

One of my friends can talk ____ donkey when she gets excited about a topic. Although she talks endlessly, her stories are usually interesting, so people rarely get bored listening to her. (nói chuyện không dứt)

Two peas in a pod

My two closest friends are like t__ ____ __ _ ___. They have similar personalities, share many interests and often reach the same conclusions, although they can still disagree about small things. (giống nhau như hai giọt nước)

With regard to

W___ ___ __ effective communication, listening is just as important as speaking. People need to understand what others actually mean rather than simply preparing their own response while the other person is talking. (xem xét, liên quan đến)