You are who you are because you are compensating for physical deficiencies, do something to build up weak part, strengthen another part
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Aggression Drive (1908)
Motivated to compensate for physical deficiencies because we hate them, aggression is dominant but all drives work together
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Masculine Protest (1910)
Capitalizing on widely held gender stereotype of the time (ONLY ABOUT ACTIVITY)- females are passive, males are active, important shift to psychological events
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Superiority striving
Biological predisposition for aiming for superiority
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Perfection striving
A sense of being as close to perfect as you can get
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Fictional final goal
A person's ultimate ambition, subjective and personally meaningful, created by individual to deal with life
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Style of life
Patterns of person's day-to-day life, molded by individual's sense of inferiority and superiority
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Gemeinschaft
Social interest, involvement with and concern for other people
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Social interest
An innate need of all humans to live in harmony and friendship with others and to aspire toward the development of a perfect society
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Mistaken Lifestyle: Ruling-Dominant
Someone who attempts to dominate or rule others
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Mistaken Lifestyle: Getting-leaning
Expects everything from others and gets everything he or she can from them
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Mistaken Lifestyle: Avoiding type
Succeeds in life by avoiding problems
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Mistaken Lifestyle: Socially useful type
Confronts problems and attempts to solve them in a socially useful way, only type that can live a rich, purposeful life
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Gemeinschaft Tasks: Occupational
Motivation one has to do job
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Gemeinschaft Tasks: Societal
What you do in your free time and how it benefits others
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Gemeinschaft Tasks: Love
Not exclusively romantic love
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Birth Order
Diagnostic indicator, your ordinal position in birth order tells us how much gemeinschaft one has, perceived family role
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First born
More likely to be rule followers, understand value of prestige, undivided attention for a while, difficult for child's ego when siblings are born, competition with other siblings
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Middle born
Healthiest position, has "pacemaker" and no severe "dethronment"
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Last born
Most problems, overpampered "baby" of the family, independence issues
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Only Child
Most tenuous position, never had to give up anything, never had to fight for anything, most overpampered of all, based of role in family
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Safeguarding strategies
Self-deception used by neurotics, unconscious
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Safeguarding strategies: Excuses
Excuses for what you did or didn't do
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Safeguarding strategies: Aggression- Depreciation
Depreciation to put people down
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Safeguarding strategies: Aggression- Idealization
To put someone on a pedestal
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Safeguarding strategies: Solicitude
Suggests you are going to do everything for someone else