FMST 314: Attraction

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direct rewards

tangible benefits we receive from a person

  • eg: enjoyment, money, attractiveness

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indirect rewards

subtle connections that make people feel familiar, even without direct interaction

  • eg: being from the same hometown

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instrumentality

we are attracted to people who help us meet our goals

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proximity

  • physical closeness to someone

  • being nearby increases the chance of interaction and attraction

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familiarity

  • we like people we see more often, because repeated exposure brings comfort

  • comes as a result of proximity

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convenience

being closer is easier and more rewarding than long-distance effort

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how perceived similarity influences attraction

  • in early stage of relationship, perceived similarity matters more than actual simillarity

  • leads to kidner, more positive interactions

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selection of potential partners

  • we pursue people who are likely to accept us

  • moderately attractive partner who shows interest is more appealing than a very attractive partner out of reach

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matching

idea that people tend to pair up with partners who are similar to them in physical attractiveness and other traits

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mate value

one’s overall attractiveness as a potential romantic/sexual partner, based on physical appearance, personality, resources, etc.

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similarities in partners over time

  • personality shifts are minor

  • but, attitudes/beliefs become more alike over time due to shared experiences

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stimulus-value role theory

as a relationship develops, we go through 3 stages

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3 stages of stimulus-value role theory

  1. stimulus info stage

  2. value stage

  3. role compatibility stage

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stimulus info stage

initial attraction, often physical or superficial

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value stage

learn about their attitudes, beliefs, starts superficial and then grows deeper

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role compatibility stage

deciding one’s compatibility of beliefs and roles for a long-term relationship

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fatal attractions

qualities that initially attract us to someone, but later become the reason for disattisfaction or breakup

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complementarity

the idea that we are attrated to partners whose qualities/needs complement our own

  • eg: dominant person pairing with submisive