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direct rewards
tangible benefits we receive from a person
eg: enjoyment, money, attractiveness
indirect rewards
subtle connections that make people feel familiar, even without direct interaction
eg: being from the same hometown
instrumentality
we are attracted to people who help us meet our goals
proximity
physical closeness to someone
being nearby increases the chance of interaction and attraction
familiarity
we like people we see more often, because repeated exposure brings comfort
comes as a result of proximity
convenience
being closer is easier and more rewarding than long-distance effort
how perceived similarity influences attraction
in early stage of relationship, perceived similarity matters more than actual simillarity
leads to kidner, more positive interactions
selection of potential partners
we pursue people who are likely to accept us
moderately attractive partner who shows interest is more appealing than a very attractive partner out of reach
matching
idea that people tend to pair up with partners who are similar to them in physical attractiveness and other traits
mate value
one’s overall attractiveness as a potential romantic/sexual partner, based on physical appearance, personality, resources, etc.
similarities in partners over time
personality shifts are minor
but, attitudes/beliefs become more alike over time due to shared experiences
stimulus-value role theory
as a relationship develops, we go through 3 stages
3 stages of stimulus-value role theory
stimulus info stage
value stage
role compatibility stage
stimulus info stage
initial attraction, often physical or superficial
value stage
learn about their attitudes, beliefs, starts superficial and then grows deeper
role compatibility stage
deciding one’s compatibility of beliefs and roles for a long-term relationship
fatal attractions
qualities that initially attract us to someone, but later become the reason for disattisfaction or breakup
complementarity
the idea that we are attrated to partners whose qualities/needs complement our own
eg: dominant person pairing with submisive