Interpersonal Relationships: TEST 2

unique

Complementarianism (biblical)

- Created with _______ differences that strengthen, benefit and complement each other

equally

Complementarianism (biblical)

- God attaches ________ high value and dignity to the roles of both men and women

value; roles

Complementarianism (biblical)

- Equal in _______ but different ________

sacrifically

Complementarianism (biblical)

- embraces the view of the husband gently and ________ leading the home

leadership

The Husband's leadership in the home

- what is NOT strictly a male characteristic?

submission

The Husband's leadership in the home

- what is NOT strictly a female characteristic?

Bible

The Husband's leadership in the home

what kind of principles must be applied to appropriate contexts?

Biblical Leadership

taking the iniative to meet the needs of others with a servant's heart

sacrificial service

What kind of service is Biblical Leadership?

submission

placing yourself under the watch care and leadership of another

voluntary

Submission

- you cannot force someone to submit

Authority, Peer and Subordinates

Three types of Relationships

Authority

ordained and delegated

Peer

friendships

1. Friendship of convenience

2. Friendship of mutual activity

3. Third-Party Friendship

4. Milestone Friendships

5. Friendzoning

5 types of friendships

1. Reciprocal Acceptance

2. Reciprocal Disclosure

3. Reciprocal Encouragement

4. Reciprocal Sacrifice

5. Reciprocal Commitment

5 Building Blocks of a Successful Friendship

communication

your key to the doorway of success

sending

the basic elements of communication

sending

getting the correct message out

principle

the effectiveness of sending is measured by what is heard not by what is said

1. What We Say

2. How We Say It

sending communication

70%

how much percentage of communication is digital

10%

how much percentage is words

35%

how much percentage is the tone of vocie

55%

how much percentage is the body language

receiving

refers to the ways a person is following the convo physically

1. Adopt a posture that indicates involvement

2. Adopt what it is open to posture

3. Lean in

4. Eye Contact

5. Relax

Receiving

three parts of attending (physical)

attending

physical

listening

mental

- most individuals can hear about 600 words per minute; however, even fast talkers can speak only 100-150 words per minute

1. Distracted Listening

2. Filtered Listening

3. Rehearsing

4. Insincerity

5 types of Listening

appeal

Communication is the art of ___________

wrong

The Potential of the Appeal

- When you are asked to do ___________

authority

The Potential of the Appeal

- When __________ is doing or is about to do wrong

disagree

The Potential of the Appeal

- When you _______ with authority

1. Right Standing

2. Right Timing

3. Right Attitude

4. Right Wording

4 Things for the Prerequisites to the Appeal

Standing

The Prerequisites to the Appeal

- Right S____________

appeal

Esther obtain her _________

Timing

The Prerequisites to the Appeal

- Right T__________

Attitude

The Prerequisites to the Appeal

- Right A_________

Wording

The Prerequisites to the Appeal

- Right W__________

1. Plan Ahead

2. Prepare Your Heart

3. Present Your Request

4. Proceed Based on the Answer

The Procedure of the Appeal

• what do you need to do?

the love relationship

which relationship?

- communication intimate communication

improve

Goal of intimate communication

- to ________ communication and bring it to a point that will enable relationships to grow to deeper levels

1. Cliche

2. Facts

3. Opinion

4. Feelings

5. Needs

Five Levels of Communication

feelings

________ helps us identify needs

1. Vulnerability

2. Trust

3. Love

feelings helps us identify needs

- it shows these three things

True

All five levels communication exist but you have to have feelings and needs

- T or F

love

choosing to discover and understand the needs of another and expend whatever resources necessary to meet those needs

• understanding and meeting the needs of others

real

feelings are ________, but not reliable

1. endures

2. stays together

3. kind

4. longsuffering

5.

6. truth

characteristics of love

vulnerability

love considers the ____________ and doesn't violate them

selfishness

love gives instead of takes

- major problem?

knowledge and judgement

Love is expressed within the boundaries of __________ and __________ (Philippians 1:9 KJV)

I Corinthians 13:4-7

which reference?

- love