families are becoming more symmetrical
more common among younger couples who are geo + socially isolated
result of - change in womens position, geo mobility, new tech, increased living standards
reject the march or progress view
Ann Oakley (1974) - Y + W found that most husbands helped out once a week, but this could include making breakfast once or taking kids on a walk - not enough.
Oakley - 15% of husbands had high levels of participation in housework, and 25% childcare. - take part in the most pleasurable parts of parenting eg. play
Kevin Hetherington (1993) - women 30X likely to be the last person to do laundry, and men 4x for working on the car
newer -
2012 survey - housework → men = 8h, women = 13h. caring for family members → men = 10h, women = 23h. - 60% of women felt this was unjust
Graham Allan - women take on less intrinsically satisfying or obvious tasks
surveys only focus on share of time and tasks, not responsibility
Boulton (1983) - mothers take resp for kids security + wellbeing
Ferri + Smith (1996) fathers take resp for child care in >4% of fams
Braun, Vincent + Ball (2011) - studied 70 fams, only 1/3 of fathers were the main carers
responsibility for quality time:
Dale Southerton (2011) this usually falls to mothers
however - more difficult now as people’s time has become ‘de-routinised’ , and quality time is rarer due to demands of work etc.
men experience ‘blocks’ of leisure time, but women’s is often punctuated by childcare - dual burden (multi - tasking)