Dr. John Gottman Relationship Questionnaire Flashcards

A set of 55 question-and-answer flashcards covering questions and metadata from Dr. John Gottman's relationship questionnaire transcript.

Who holds the copyright for the quiz items featured in the document?

Dr. John Gottman, with licensing distributed by The Gottman Institute, Inc.

Which copyright years are specified on page 1 of the Gottman document?

2000, 2001, 2004, and 2006.

What prompt is used to ask about your partner's closest friends?

"Name your partner's two closest friends."

What prompt is used to ask about your partner's hobbies?

"What are your partner's hobbies?"

What prompt is used to ask about your partner's birthplace?

"Where was your partner born?"

What prompt is used to ask about your partner's favorite musical group, composer, or instrument?

"What is your partner's favorite musical group, composer or instrument?"

What prompt is used to inquire about immediate stresses facing your partner?

"What stresses are facing your partner in the immediate future?"

What prompt asks about your partner's attire when you first met?

"What was your partner wearing when you first met?"

What prompt asks you to describe your partner's recent day?

"Describe in detail your partner's day. either today or yesterday."

What prompt asks about the day your partner was born?

"When is your partner's birthday?"

What prompt asks about your partner's preferred flower?

"What is your partner's favorite flower?"

What prompt asks about your anniversary date?

"What is the date of your anniversary?"

What prompt asks about your partner's worst disaster scenarios?

"What is one of your partner's greatest disaster scenarios?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite family member?

"Who is your partner's favorite relative?"

What prompt asks about your partner's preferred time for intimacy?

"What is your partner's favorite time for making love?"

What prompt asks about your partner's unfulfilled dream?

"What is your partner's fondest dream, as yet unachieved?"

What prompt asks about what makes your partner feel most competent?

"What makes your partner feel most competent?"

What prompt asks about what sexually turns your partner on?

"What turns your partner on sexually?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite food?

"What is your partner's favorite food?"

What prompt asks about life improvements your partner wants to make?

"What personal improvements does your partner want to make in his or her life?"

What prompt asks about the best present for your partner?

"What kind of present would your partner like best?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite way to spend an evening?

"What is your partner's favorite way to spend an evening?"

What prompt asks about one of your partner's best childhood memories?

"What was one of your partner's best childhood experiences?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite color?

"What is your partner's favorite color?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite vacation?

"What was your partner's favorite vacation?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite ways of being soothed?

"What is one of your partner's favorite ways of being soothed?"

What prompt asks about what your partner likes to do with time off?

"What does your partner like to do with time off?"

What prompt asks about your partner's greatest source of support outside of you?

"Who is your partner's greatest source of support (other than you)?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite weekend activities?

"What is one of your partner's favorite weekend activities?"

What prompt asks about external interpersonal conflicts facing your partner?

"Outside your relationship, who does your partner have a conflict with?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite getaway place?

"What is your partner's favorite getaway place?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite sport?

"What is your partner's favorite sport?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite movie?

"What is your partner's favorite movie?"

What prompt asks about upcoming important events and your partner's feelings about them?

"What are some of the important events coming up in your partner's life and how does he or she feel about them?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite magazine?

"What is one of your partner's favorite magazines?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite ways to work out?

"What are some of your partner's favorite ways to work out?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite cologne or perfume?

"What is your partner's favorite cologne or perfume?"

What prompt asks about your partner's childhood best friend?

"Who was your partner's best friend in childhood?"

What prompt asks you to name one of your partner's major rivals or 'enemies'?

"Name one of your partner's major rivals or \"enemies.\""

What prompt asks about an ideal job for your partner?

"What would be an ideal job for your partner?"

What prompt asks about your partner's major fear?

"What is your partner's major fear?"

What prompt asks about your partner's least favorite relative?

"Who is your partner's least favorite relative?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite poet?

"Who is your partner's favorite poet?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite holiday?

"What is your partner's favorite holiday?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite side of the bed?

"What is your partner's favorite side of the bed?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite kind of reading?

"What is your partner's favorite kind of reading?"

What prompt asks about what your partner is currently most sad about?

"What is your partner currently most sad about?"

What prompt asks about your partner's favorite TV show?

"What is your partner's favorite TV show?"

What prompt asks about one of your partner's concerns or worries?

"What is one of your partner's concerns or worries?"

What prompt asks about medical problems your partner worries about?

"What medical problems does your partner worry about?"

What prompt asks about your partner's least favorite mutual acquaintance?

"Who is your partner's least favorite person you both know?"

What prompt asks about your partner's most embarrassing moment?

"What was your partner's most embarrassing moment?"

What prompt asks about one of your partner's favorite desserts?

"What is one of your partner's favorite desserts?"

What prompt asks about your partner's worst childhood experience?

"What is your partner's worst childhood experience?"

What prompt asks about your partner's Social Security number?

"What is your partner's social security number?"