FAMILY DYNAMICS

ACCORDING TO _____, FAMILY IS A PEOPLE FACTOR

VIRGINIA SATIR

THE DESIRED OUTCOME OR PRODUCT OF THE PEOPLE FACTORY IS A?

HEALTHY HUMAN BEING

ESSENTIAL PART OF A FAMILY WHEREIN THEY ARE VERY LUCRATIVE

PARENTS

DEFINITION OF FAMILY IS EVOLVING/CHANGING

CHILDRENS

THE MALE AND FAMILY ADULTS GET TOGETHER SEXUALLY TO?

START A FAMILY

ALL ARE PHYSICAL SOURCE IN THE FAMILY EXCEPT:

A. AIR

B. EDUCATION

C. WATER

D. FOOD

E. SHELTER

B

ALL ARE INTELLECTUAL SOURCE IN THE FAMILY EXCEPT:

A. EDUCATION

B. EXPOSURE

C. AIR

D. EXPERIENCE

C

HOW DO WE DEAL WITH ENVIRONMENTAL CHANGE IN A HEALTHIER WAY?

OPEN AND FLEXIBLE ATTITUDE

THE FAMILY IS A?

PEOPLE FACTORY

ADULTS AND PARENTS ARE THE?

PEOPLE MAKERS

WHAT STAGE OF MARRIAGE IS 0-2 YEARS?

HONEYMOON PERIOD

COMMITMENT TO MARRIAGE

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

A

DIFFERENTIATION FROM FAMILY OF ORIGIN

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

A

MAKING ROOM FOR SPOUSE WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

A

ADJUSTING CAREER DEMANDS

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

A

WHAT STAGE OF MARRIAGE IS 2-10 YEARS?

EARLY MARRIAGE

MATURING OF RELATIONSHIP

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

B

KEEPING ROMANCE IN THE MARRIAGE

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

B

BALANCING SEPARATENESS AND TOGETHERNESS

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

B

RENEWING MARRIAGE COMMITMENT

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

B AND C

WHAT STAGE OF MARRIAGE IS 10-25 YEARS

MIDDLE MARRIAGE

POST-CAREER PLANNING

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

C

ADJUSTING TO MID-LIFE CHANGES

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

C

RENEGOTIATING RELATIONSHIP

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

C

WHAT STAGE OF MARRIAGE IS 25+ YEARS

LONG-TERM MARRIAGE

REVIEW AND FAREWELL

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

D

MAINTAINING COUPLE FUNCTIONING

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

D

CLOSING OR ADAPTING FAMILY HOME

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

D

COPING WITH DEATH OF SPOUSE

A. HONEYMOON STAGE

B. EARLY MARRIAGE

C. MIDDLE MARRIAGE

D. LONG TERM MARRIAGE

D

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE IS ACCEPTING PARENT-OFFSPRING SEPARATION

UNATTACHED ADULT

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES DIFFERENTIATION FROM THE FAMILY OF ORIGIN HAPPENS?

UNATTACHED ADULT

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES DEVELOPMENT OF PEER RELATIONSHIPS HAPPEN?

UNATTACHED ADULT

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES INITIATION OF CAREER HAPPEN?

UNATTACHED ADULT

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE IS COMMITMENT TO THE MARRIAGE

NEWLY-MARRIED

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES FORMATION OF MARITAL SYSTEM HAPPEN?

NEWLY-MARRIED

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES MAKING ROOM FOR SPOUSE WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS HAPPEN?

NEWLY-MARRIED

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES ADJUSTING CAREER AND DEMANDS

NEWLY-MARRIED

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE ACCEPS NEW MEMBERS IN THE SYSTEM

CHILDBEARING

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES ADJUSTING THE MARRIAGE TO MAKE ROOM FOR THE CHILD

CHILDBEARING

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES TAKING ON PARENTAL ROLES

CHILDBEARING

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES MAKING ROOM FOR GRANDPARENTS HAPPEN?

CHILDBEARING

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE ACCEPTS THE NEW PERSONALITY

PARENT OF PRESCHOOL AGE CHILD

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES ADJUSTING THE FAMILY TO THE NEEDS OF SPECIFIC CHILD/CHILDREN

PARENT OF PRESCHOOL AGE CHILD

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES COPING WITH THE ENERGY AND LACK OF PRIVACY

PARENT OF PRESCHOOL AGE CHILD

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES TAKING TIME OUT TO BE A COUPLE HAPPENS?

PARENT OF PRESCHOOL AGE CHILD

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES ALLOWING THE CHILD TO ESTABLISH RELATIONSHIP OUTSIDE THE FAMILY

PARENT OF SCHOOL CHILD

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES EXTENDING FAMILY SOCIETY INTERACTIONS SUCH AS ATTENTING PTA MEETINGS FOR EXAMPLE

PARENT OF SCHOOL CHILD

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES ENCOURAGING THE CHILD’S EDUCATIONAL PROGRESS

PARENT OF SCHOOL CHILD

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES DEALING WITH INCREASED ACTIVITIES AND TIME DEMANDS

PARENT OF SCHOOL CHILD

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES INCREASED FLEXIBILITY OF FAMILY BOUNDARIES TO ALLOW INDEPENDENCE

PARENT OF TEENAGE CHILD

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES SHIFTING OF BALANCE OF PARENT-CHILD RELATIONSHIP HAPPENS?

PARENT OF TEENAGE CHILD

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES REFOCUSING ON MID-LIFE CAREER AND MARITAL ISSUES HAPPEN?

PARENT OF TEENAGE CHILD

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES DEALING WITH INCREASING CONCERNS FOR OLDER GENERATION

PARENT OF TEENAGE CHILD

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES ACCEPTING EXITS FROM & ENTRIES INTO THE FAMILY

LAUNCHING CENTER

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES RELEASING ADULT CHILDREN INTO WORK

LAUNCHING CENTER

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES MAINTAINING SUPPORTIVE HOME BASE HAPPEN?

LAUNCHING CENTER

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES ACCEPTING OCCASIONAL RETURNS

LAUNCHING CENTER

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES LETTING GO OF CHILDREN AND FACING EACH OTHER

MIDDLE-AGED ADULT

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES REBUILDING THE MARRIAGE HAPPENS?

MIDDLE-AGED ADULT

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES WELCOMING CHILDREN’S SPOUSES, GRANDCHILDRENS INTO THE FAMILY

MIDDLE AGED ADULT

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES DEALING WITH AGING OF ONE’S OWN PARENT HAPPEN?

MIDDLE AGED ADULT

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES ACCEPTANCE OF RETIREMENT AND OLD AGE HAPPEN?

RETIREMENT

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES MAINTAINING INDIVIDUAL AND COUPLE FUNCTIONING HAPPEN?

RETIREMENT

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES SUPPORTING MIDDLE GENERATION HAPPEN?

RETIREMENT

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES COPING WITH DEATHS OF PARENTS AND SPOUSE HAPPEN?

RETIREMENT

WHAT STAGE OF FAMILY LIFE CYCLE DOES CLOSING OR ADAPTING FAMILY HOME HAPPEN?

RETIREMENT

CHILD THAT IS OFTEN MORE HIGHLY VALUED THAN SUBSEQUENT CHILDREN, ESPECIALLY IF MALE

ELDEST CHILD

CHILD THAT HAS A HIGHER IQ THAN YOUNGER CHILDREN

ELDEST CHILD

MORE ACHIEVEMENT ORIENTED; CONSERVATIVE AND CONFORMIST

ELDEST CHILD

PARENTS NOW HAVE MORE EXPERIENCE (MORE RELAXED); LEARN FROM OLDER SIBLING

MIDDLE CHILD

STRONGER PEER RELATIONSHIPS; WHEN THIS CHILD GROWS UP HE/SHE IS SUPPOSED TO BE ABLE TO NAVIGATE THE SOCIAL WORLD BETTER BECAUSE HE HAS BEEN AS HE GROWS UP HE DEALS WITH THE FIRST BORN

MIDDLE CHILD

MAY RECEIVE TOO MUCH ATTENTION AND BE SPOILED

YOUNGEST CHILD

MORE INDEPENDENT AND REBELLIOUS (GIVEN MORE LEEWAY)

YOUNGEST CHILD

____ WILL LEAD TO NEW UNDERSTANDING AND SMOOTHER RELATIONSHIPS

SHARING IDEAS AND COMMUNICATION

THIS IS A THING OTHER PEOPLE DO TO YOU THAT WOULD MAKE YOU FEEL MOST LOVED. AND THE WAY YOU ALSO EXPRESS YOUR LOVE TO OTHER PEOPLE

LOVE LANGUAGE

HIGHEST LEVEL OF APOLOGY IS?

REQUESTING FORGIVENESS

THESE ARE CASUAL INTERACTIONS THAT REVEAL LITTLE ABOUT YOU; USUALLY AT START OF BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS

CLICHES

MUNDANE, SELF-EVIDENT, SAFE; SHARING YOUR FEELINGS

FACTS

TAKING MORE RISKS IN THE INTERACTION BECAUSE YOU TEND TO DIFFER AND CAN LEAD TO CONTOVERSY; USUALLY OCCUR WHEN THERE IS INTIMACY ALREADY

OPINIONS

REVEAL THE HIDDEN SELF AND DEEPEST DESIRES; LEVEL OF INTIMACY IS THE DEEPEST

HOPES AND DREAMS

COMING FACE TO FACE WITH THE FEAR OF REJECTION; IT’S BETTER TO ADMIT FEELINGS WITHOUT EXPECTING SUCCESSFUL OUTCOMES

FEELING

EXPOSE OURSELVES; EMOTIONAL EQUIVALENCE OF NAKEDNESS; CAN SHOW THE NOT-SO-NICE THINGS ABOUT YOURSELF; TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT

FAULTS, FEARS, AND FAILURES

QUEST TO KNOW AND BE KNOWN BY THE OTHER; PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, INTELLECTUAL, SPIRITUAL; HIGHEST LEVEL OF INTIMACY

LEGITIMATE NEEDS

ONLY 2 PEOPLE CAN COMMUNICATE AT ONE TIME, AND SOMEONE IN THE TRIANGLE IS ALWAYS LEFT OUT

TRIANGULATION

THIS CAN CAUSE TROUBLE ESPECIALLY WHEN THERE IS AT LEAST 1 INDIVIDUAL BEING LEFT OUT

TRIANGULATION

TRUE OR FALSE. IT IS DIFFICULT TO ACHIEVE THE IDEAL CONDITIONS TO PRODUCE THE PERFECT, FLAWLESS, AND HEALTHY HUMAN BEING

TRUE

TRUE OR FALSE. FAMILIES FALL IN A CONTINUUM FROM VERY TROUBLED TO VERY NURTURING

TRUE

PATTERNS OF RESPONSE PEOPLE USE TO GET AROUND THE THREAT OF REJECTION

PLACATE, BLAME, COMPUTE, DISTRACT

PATHOLOGICAL RESPONSES THAT BLOCK EFFECTIVE COMMUNICATION

SUPERREASONABLE, IRRELEVANT, LEVELING, PLACATING, BLAMING

THIS CAN SIGNIFICANTLY INCREASE THE EMOTIONAL STRESS THAT A PERSON MUST COPE WITH

PATHOLOGICAL FAMILY BEHAVIOR

CHILDREN RECEIVE CONFLICTING MESSAGES FROM EACH PARENT REGARDING THEIR BEHAVIOR, ATTITUDES, AND FEELINGS. CHILDREN THEN WITHDRAW TO ESCAPE THE CONFUSION

DOUBLE BIND

A ___ RELATIONSHIP WITH ONE PARENT INVOLVES A POWER STRUGGLE BETWEEN THE PARENTS, AND THE RESULTING DOMINANCE OF ONE PARENT

SKEWED

THERE IS A PROMINENT ____ BETWEEN THE PARENTS, AND ONE PARENT GETS REALLY CLOSE TO A CHILD OF THE OPPOSITE SEX

SCHISM

THE SHARED DREAD & AVOIDANCE OF INTRA-FAMILIAL CONFLICT THAT GENERATES A FACADE OF HARMONY; HATES CONFRONTATION

PSEUDO-MUTUALITY

THE FEAR OF INTIMACY & CLOSENESS THAT LEADS TO PERSISTENT BICKERING WITHOUT GENUINE SEPARATION

PSEUDO-HOSTILITY