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perception- What’s one thing you wish more people knew about you?

Your answer reflects personal insights that may highlight experiences, interests, or characteristics that aren't commonly known to others.

perception- What’s something that instantly makes you feel better when you’re having a rough day?

This can include activities, objects, or people that bring comfort or joy during tough times.

perception- If you could swap lives with anyone for a day, who would it be and why?

This response involves selecting an individual, whether a celebrity, historical figure, or someone close to you, and explaining the reasons behind your choice.

perception- How do you typically handle stress or pressure in your life?

Your methods may encompass relaxation techniques, time management strategies, or support systems that help you cope.

perception- What’s one of your guilty pleasures?

This could be an enjoyable activity or indulgence that you feel slightly embarrassed about but still enjoy.

perception- If you could be famous for one thing, what would it be?

Your answer might reveal aspirations, talents, or causes that you are passionate about.

perception- What’s one thing that you think people should try at least once in their life?

This could be an experience, hobby, or action that is often seen as valuable or enriching.

perception- How do you define success?

Your personal definition may blend elements like achievements, happiness, fulfillment, or impact on others.

perception- What was the last thing you did that made you feel proud of yourself?

Reflect on recent accomplishments or actions, big or small, that filled you with pride.

What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?

This focuses on impactful insights or guidance that has shaped your perspective or actions.

connection- When was the last time you truly felt loved and supported by someone?

Reflect on a specific moment or experience where you received emotional support and love, and how it impacted you.

connection- What’s one thing you’ve always wanted to ask me but haven’t?

This question invites open communication and encourages curiosity about the other person’s thoughts or experiences.

connection- If you could go on a road trip with anyone, dead or alive, who would it be and where would you go?

Choose a person whose company would be meaningful to you and a destination that holds significance or adventure.

connection- What’s one of the most emotional experiences you’ve had in the past few years?

Think about a poignant moment that had a significant emotional impact on you.

connection- If you had to move to a completely different country, what kind of place would you choose?

Consider a country that resonates with your aspirations, lifestyle, or interests.

connection- What do you feel is your greatest personal accomplishment in the last year?

Reflect on achievements, big or small, that brought you pride and satisfaction.

connection- What’s the hardest thing you’ve had to forgive yourself for?

This question delves into personal challenges and self-acceptance.

connection- Is there a dream or hope that you’ve had for a long time that you haven’t pursued? Why?

This invites introspection about aspirations and potential barriers to pursuing them.

connection- When you think about your future, what excites you the most?

Identify what aspects of your future inspire anticipation and enthusiasm.

connection- If you had to describe your life story in one sentence, what would it be?

This is a powerful exercise in summarizing your experiences and journey succinctly.

Reflection- How would you feel if you woke up tomorrow in a world where no one could remember your name?

Consider the emotions and thoughts that would arise from feeling unrecognized or disconnected from your identity.

Reflection- How do you know when someone is truly trustworthy to you?

Identify the qualities or actions that give you confidence in someone's reliability and integrity.

Reflection- If you could take one piece of advice from your future self, what would it be?

Think about insights or guidance that could help you navigate current challenges and decisions.

Reflection- What would you do if you knew you couldn’t fail?

Envision the actions you would take without the fear of failure influencing your choices.

Reflection- What do you think is the purpose of life?

Reflect on your beliefs and philosophies regarding existence and the meaning of life.

Reflection- What’s one thing you would want to leave behind for the people you love?

Consider legacies, memories, or values you wish to pass on to those important to you.

Reflection- What would you say is your greatest fear when it comes to relationships?

Identify fears that impact your connections with others and how they shape your interactions.

Reflection- If you could change one event in your life, what would it be and why?

Reflect on significant moments that have shaped you and consider the desire for a different outcome.

Reflection- What’s something you want to improve about yourself in the next year?

Think about personal growth areas you wish to address for self-improvement.

Reflection- What legacy do you want to leave in the world?

Consider the impact and memories you wish to create that endure beyond your lifetime.

perception- What was your first impression of me when we met?

This reflects your initial thoughts and feelings about someone based on their demeanor and behaviors during the first encounter.

perception- What did you think of me the first time you saw me?

Consider the visual and non-verbal cues that influenced your opinion upon first seeing this person.

perception- How did you feel about me when we first started talking?

Reflect on the emotions and reactions that emerged during your initial conversations.

perception- What’s one thing that surprised you about me when we first met?

Identify unexpected traits or behaviors that challenged your assumptions during your initial meeting.

perception- When you think of me, what’s the first word that comes to mind?

This encapsulates your overall impression and is often telling of your perception of someone's identity.

perception- What did you think my personality was like when we first met?

Consider the traits or characteristics you attributed to me based on your initial interactions.

perception- Was there something about me that you didn’t expect based on how I look?

Reflect on any discrepancies between your expectations and reality related to appearance versus personality.

perception- How would you describe me to someone who has never met me?

Think about the attributes or stories you would choose to convey about someone you've just met.

perception- What’s something you assumed about me before we got to know each other?

Identify any preconceived notions or stereotypes you may have held prior to forming a deeper connection.

perception- What do you think our first conversation would have been like if you hadn’t gotten to know me better?

Speculate on how your conversation might have unfolded based on first impressions, without the context of familiarity.

Hypothetical/Aspiration - If money wasn’t a concern, what would you spend your time doing?

Consider activities or passions that you would pursue without financial limitations.

Hypothetical/Aspiration - What’s one goal you would pursue if you knew there was no risk of failure?

Think about an ambition or dream that you currently perceive as unattainable due to potential risks.

Hypothetical/Aspiration - If you could live a completely different life for one year, what would you do?

Envision a lifestyle or experiences you would immerse yourself in, away from your current reality.

Hypothetical/Aspiration - If you could instantly become an expert at something, what would it be?

Identify a skill or field of knowledge that you deeply aspire to master.

Hypothetical/Aspiration - What would you try if you weren’t afraid of judgment or criticism?

Reflect on endeavors or expressions you might hold back from due to concerns about others’ opinions.

Hypothetical/Aspiration - If you knew you had the support of everyone around you, what would you attempt?

Consider risks or ventures you would take if you felt completely supported by your community.

Hypothetical/Aspiration - If there were no limits to your abilities, what’s the first thing you would create or achieve?

Imagine a grand project or accomplishment that you feel passionate about but believe is currently beyond reach.

Hypothetical/Aspiration - What dream would you chase if you knew you had endless resources and time?

Envision the aspirations that might seem too distant or challenging given your current circumstances.

Hypothetical/Aspiration - If you could have any career without worrying about failure or success, what would it be?

Think about a profession that resonates with your passions and that you would pursue freely.

Hypothetical/Aspiration - If you could solve one global problem, what would it be and how would you go about it?

Identify a significant challenge facing humanity and formulate solutions you believe could effectively address it.

Curiosity & Intrigue-Based Questions - What’s something about me that you find particularly fascinating?

Encourage exploration of traits or stories that spark interest from your perspective.

Curiosity & Intrigue-Based Questions - Is there something about my personality that you didn’t expect or find intriguing?

This question invites reflection on unexpected qualities that add depth to your character.

Curiosity & Intrigue-Based Questions - What do you think is the most interesting thing about me that you’ve discovered so far?

Encourage sharing of perceptions that highlight unique aspects of your personality.

Curiosity & Intrigue-Based Questions - What’s a trait or quality of mine that you admire or find captivating?

This fosters appreciation of attributes that stand out and invoke admiration.

Curiosity & Intrigue-Based Questions - What’s one thing about me that you wish you understood better?

Promotes deeper insight into aspects of your character that remain unclear or complex.

Curiosity & Intrigue-Based Questions - What aspect of our relationship or connection intrigues you the most?

Encourages exploration of the dynamics that shape your interactions and bond.

Curiosity & Intrigue-Based Questions - Is there something about the way I see the world that stands out to you?

This invites reflection on your unique perspectives and how they differ from others.

Curiosity & Intrigue-Based Questions - What’s something you’ve noticed about me that most people don’t?

Highlights subtleties or nuances in your character that may not be immediately visible.

Curiosity & Intrigue-Based Questions - What do you think makes me unique compared to others you know?

Prompts expressions of individuality and the qualities that set you apart.

Curiosity & Intrigue-Based Questions - Is there a particular moment or conversation we've had that sticks with you?

Encourages sharing memories that reflect significant moments in your relationship.

What do you think people most appreciate about me when they first meet me?

Consider the qualities or characteristics that create positive first impressions in new encounters.

What’s a compliment you think I would get from others based on my personality?

Reflect on traits that are likely to be praised based on interpersonal interactions.

If people had to describe me in one sentence, what do you think they’d say?

Summarize insights about your persona in a concise and impactful manner.

perception- What do you think is the first thing that stands out about me to others?

Identify prominent traits or characteristics that capture immediate attention during introductions.

What’s one quality of mine that you think others often recognize or admire?

Explore attributes that seem to be consistently acknowledged or valued by others.

What compliment do you think I might be surprised to hear from others?

Consider unexpected praise that could reveal others' perceptions you might overlook.

What do you think people are most drawn to about me when they get to know me?

Explore the deeper aspects of your character that resonate with people over time.

What’s something people might notice about me that I don’t often realize myself?

Encourage awareness of subtle qualities that others perceive while you may not be conscious of.

Based on what you know about me, what would you say is my most noticeable trait?

Summarize the single characteristic that seems to define your presence in social contexts.

What do you think is the best compliment I could receive about my character?

Identify an ideal expression of appreciation that aligns with your values and character strengths.

What’s one thing about yourself that you think others might not notice right away?

Identify subtle traits or aspects of your identity that may not be immediately apparent to others.

If you could change one thing about how others perceive you, what would it be?

Reflect on the desired adjustments in your public image or reputation that could lead to a deeper understanding of your character or intentions.

Share a memory from your childhood that still makes you smile today.

Recall a joyful or significant event from your early years that brings happiness upon reflection.

What’s one thing you’ve learned from your closest friends that you carry with you?

Identify valuable lessons or insights gained from trusted friendships that influence your perspective or behavior.

If you had to give a speech in front of 100 people about something important to you, what would it be about?

Consider topics or causes that resonate deeply with you and convey your passions to a larger audience.

What’s a fear you’ve been holding onto but haven’t shared with others?

Reflect on a personal fear that you may have kept to yourself, exploring its origins and impact.

What’s one thing you wish more people knew about you?

Your answer reflects personal insights that may highlight experiences, interests, or characteristics that aren't commonly known to others.

Think of something you strongly dislike that most people love. On the count of 3 say it loud!

What’s a decision you made that you were unsure about but did anyway?

Reflect on a significant choice where uncertainty was present but you still moved forward, and consider the outcomes of that action.

Admit something you’re secretly proud of but haven’t shared with anyone.

Identify a personal achievement or trait that brings you a sense of pride but remains undisclosed to others, allowing for self-acknowledgment.

What’s a belief or opinion you’ve had for a while but are starting to question?

Reflect on a long-held belief or opinion that you are beginning to reconsider, exploring the reasons for this shift in perspective.

What do you think your younger self would say about where you are now in life?

Consider how your past self would perceive your current circumstances, achievements, and life choices, reflecting on any aspirations or dreams you may have had.

What do you think I should know about myself that perhaps I'm unaware of?

Consider exploring aspects of your personality, preferences, or skills that you may have overlooked but could significantly contribute to your self-awareness and personal growth.

What picture from my Instagram posts describes me the best?

The picture that best describes you is likely one that reflects your personality, interests, and significant moments in your life.

Who do you think I’d get along best with from your group of friends?

Based on shared interests, personality traits, and values, I would suggest someone from my group who has similar hobbies or perspectives that align with yours.

If you came with a warning label, what would the label say?

It might say something like 'Caution: prone to spontaneous ideas and overly honest opinions.'

What kinds of people do you enjoy most being around?

People who are kind-hearted, open-minded, and share a sense of humor.

What type of social situation makes you feel the most awkward?

Any situation requiring small talk with strangers, especially in larger groups.

If you were to buy me a present, knowing nothing about me other than what I look like, what would it be?

Something that complements their style, like a trendy accessory or clothing.

What was your first impression of me online vs IRL?