Resistance to boundaries

External resistance sources are:

Guilt-judge your freedom-righteousness

Anger-don't give into a temper tantrum

Consequences-counter moves-more of a threat

Physical-resistance: find a shelter, call police

Pain of others-afraid of hurting people's feelings employer/friendships

Blame-afraid of blame: resistance of boundary

Real needs-Omni's: you can't help everybody; delegate

Forgiveness-Cancel all debt; what they've done to you.

Internal resistance sources are:

My need-support system

Grief and loss; seek healing

Fear/angry; need healing, developing thicker skin

Fear of the unknown; having a relationship with God.

Unforgiveness-be able to forgive

External focus-happiness comes from how healthy you are inside

Resolve guilt inside so they can't make it stick to you and won't have that power.

Abandonment fears; healing