Getting to Know You More

A comprehensive list of 77 unique deep and personal questions for getting to know someone better.

Friendship values

What do you value most in your friendships?

Parental transparency

Do you feel like you can tell your parents anything?

Unlimited travel

If you could travel anywhere without limitations, where would you go and why?

Money philosophy

What’s your philosophy on money?

Alone vs. Wrong Person

What’s scarier: being alone or settling for the wrong person?

Overcome fear

What’s a fear you’ve overcome?

Personal tradition

What’s a personal tradition you have?

Spending time alone

Do you enjoy spending time alone?

Smart vs. Kind

Do you think it’s more important to be smart or to be kind?

911 emergency contact

Who’s your 911 when everything is falling apart?

Perfect day

Describe your idea of a perfect day

Next month outlook

What’s one thing you’re looking forward to in the next month?

Law change

If you could change one law, what would it be and why?

Language learning

If you could learn any language, what would it be?

Passionate cause

What’s a cause you’re passionate about?

Date preferences

Do you prefer movie dates or restaurant dates?

Past connections

Is there anyone you don't talk to anymore that you wish you still did?

Infidelity dilemma

Be cheated on and never know, or cheat and they never find out?

Hidden facts

What's something that not many people know about you?

Future glimpse

If you could take a glimpse into your future, would you peek?

Favorite food

What is your all-time favorite food?

Self-surprise

When was the last time you surprised yourself?

Shaping experience

What's an experience that has shaped who you are today?

Childhood consistency

What remains unchanged about you since your childhood?

Second chances

Do you believe in second chances?

Birthday preference

Do you like to keep your birthday simple, or do you like to throw a party?

Happiest memory

What's been your happiest memory of this past year?

Constant activity

What's one thing in the world you'll never get tired of doing?

Fanciest place

Where is the fanciest place you've ever been?

Red flags

What's your biggest red flag in a person?

Advice to younger self

What's a piece of advice you'd give to your younger self?

Courageous act

What's the most courageous thing you've ever done?

Ideal weekend

What does your ideal weekend look like?

Excitement vs. Stability

What's more important in life: excitement or stability?

Desired questions

What's a question you wish people would ask you more often?

Meaningful gift

What's the most meaningful gift you've ever received?

Life priorities

What are your top 3 priorities in life?

Recent smile

What’s the last random thing that made you smile?

Unusual travel

What’s the most unusual place you’ve visited?

Love vs. Loss dilemma

Which would you choose, true love with a guarantee of a broken heart, or never loved at all?

Meaningful project

What’s the most meaningful project you’ve ever worked on?

Destiny

Do you think destiny is real?

Revisited memory

Which memory do you revisit the most?

Perspective challenge

What’s something that challenges your perspective?

Childhood hero

Who is your childhood hero and why?

Create vs. Destroy

Are humans better at creating or destroying?

Childhood belief

What’s a belief you had as a child that you still hold on to?

Life satisfaction

How satisfied are you with your life right now?

Kindness observation

What’s the kindest thing you’ve seen somebody do?

Life-changing book

What’s a book that changed your life?

Tough times strategy

What’s your strategy for dealing with tough times?

Surprising traits

What’s something about you that surprises people?

Love order preference

Be your partner's first love or their last?

Year-end achievement

What’s something you want to achieve before the year ends?

Relationship conflict

How do you handle conflict in relationships?

Adventurous act

What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?

Unlimited supply

If you could have an unlimited supply of one thing for life, what would you choose?

Childhood favorite toy

As a child, did you have a favorite toy? If yes, what was it?

Parental lesson

What’s the best lesson you learned from your parents?

Bottomless cup

If you could have a bottomless cup of anything, what would you fill it with?

Phone app usage

Which phone app do you use the most?

Life mystery

What’s the biggest mystery for you in life?

Charity cause

If you could start a charity, what cause would it support?

Counter-productive desire

What do you want right now that you know won’t make you happy?

Music genre

What is your favorite genre of music?

Skill improvement

What’s something you wish you were better at?

Success definition

How do you define success?

Learning goal

What’s a skill you’d like to learn this year?

Forever in love

Does the idea of 'forever' in love scare you or comfort you?

Aging parents

How does it feel to see your parents getting old?

Personal trust

Do you tend to trust people easily?

Small joys

What’s a small thing that makes you happy?

Historical event

If you could witness any event in history, what would it be and why?

Ridiculous fact

What’s the most ridiculous fact you know?

Life restart

If you could restart your life, would you and why?

Best compliment

What’s the best compliment you’ve ever received?

Decision-making method

What’s your go-to method for making decisions?