9.4 Types of love relationships

Types of relationships

Arranged vs autonomous marriages

polygamy

Consensual nonmonogamy and polyamory

Arranged vs autonomous marriages - divorce

autonomous (love) marriages end in divorce BUT restrictions to ending arranged marriages

Consensual nonmonogamy and polyamory

consent to have extra-dyadic relationship/sexual partners

What is an autonomous love relationship?

A freely chosen marriage between two people characterized by sexual and emotional monogamy.

What were historically the most common types of marriages?

Arranged marriages, where parents and relatives chose potential marriage partners.

How have the rights of young women in marriage choices changed over time?

Historically, young women had less ability to refuse marriage partners compared to young men.

What purposes did arranged marriages serve historically?

Business transactions, expanding networks, sharing resources, or creating peace between groups.

What is polygamy?

Marriage between more than two people.

What is polygyny?

A form of polygamy where one husband has multiple wives.

What is polyandry?

A form of polygamy where one wife has multiple husbands, which is rarely practiced.

What social conditions are often associated with polygyny?

Strict social hierarchies, unequal wealth distribution, higher ratios of women to men, and high infectious disease levels.

What is consensual non-monogamy?

An agreement between partners to have extradyadic relationships or sexual partners.

How does polyamory differ from consensual non-monogamy?

Polyamory involves having multiple romantic partners, while consensual non-monogamy can include various relationship styles.

What is a triad in polyamory?

A relationship involving three people who all have romantic and sexual relationships with each other.

What challenges do same-gender relationships face compared to heterosexual relationships?

Discrimination, stigma, and minority stress.

How do same-gender relationships differ - gender norms

can't fall back on traditional gender norms

How do gender roles differ in same-gender relationships?

There is often a more egalitarian division of household labor due to the absence of traditional gender norms.

What is a significant factor affecting commitment in gay and lesbian relationships?

The lower rates of marriage and the intentionality required for having children.

Why might gay and lesbian couples find it easier to end relationships compared to heterosexual couples?

Can't get married so they don't need to divorce

They often do not have children, which makes it easier to walk away when problems arise.

What psychological outcomes are observed for children raised in same-gender households?

Children are just as psychologically well-adjusted as those raised in heterosexual households.

What is the impact of discrimination on the relationship dynamics of gay and lesbian couples?

It can lead to less commitment due to barriers like marriage not being accessible.

What is the role of assisted reproductive technology in gay and lesbian parenting?

It is often necessary for gay and lesbian couples to have children, making the process more intentional.