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Helping
any behavior intended to benefit another person
Latane and Darley
students believed they were hearing students in another room have a medical emergency. The number of other people they thought were also hearing it varied from one student to another
Bystander effect
the more people who witness an emergency, the less likely any one of them is to help
Pluralistic ignorance
when each person in a group is privately unsure, but everyone assumes from everyone else’s calm that nothing is wrong
Diffusion of responsibility
the more people who are present, the less responsible each one feels
Altruism
voluntary self-sacrificing behavior intended to benefit another person whith no expectation of external reward
Egoism
the view that self-interest is the actual motive of all conscious action
Empathy
an emotional response to others as it we ourselves were in the other person’s situation, feeling pleasure at their pleasure and pain at their pain
Empathy-altruism hypothesis
empathic concern for a person in need produces helping that is truly altruistic
Public good
something that everybody in a group benefits from, whether or not they helped pay for it
Free rider problem
when people can benefit from public good without contributing, each person is tempted to let everybody else do the work
Conditional cooperator
someone who contributes as long as they believe other people are contributing
Braggart’s dilemma
Bragging about good deeds in particular backfires because it leads people to question the motive behind the giving
Altruistic punishment
paying a cost to yourself to punish somebody who isn’t contributing
Norm of reciprocity
we should help those who have helped us
Generalized exchange
I help you, you help somebody else, and somewhere down the line somebody helps me
Social responsibility norm
A widely accepted social norm stating that individuals should help people who are dependent on them
Crowding out
When paying people for something they were doing for social reasons leads them to do less of it (Crowding out is when offering a reward (like money) makes someone lose their natural desire to do a good deed)
Ego depletion
the idea that self-control draws on a limited supply that gets used up
Loneliness
feeling isolated from others. It is only weakly related to how much time a person actually spends alone
Habituation
as we are frequently exposed to something our physiological and emotional responses diminish
Love
deep affection that sustains over time
John Watson
founder of love, all emotions are learned reflexes (He was WRONG)
Well being is…
based largely in how people cope with the struggles they will inveitably experience
Love is a feeling of pleasure but also
protection
4 things to make sure of before intervening in a situation
notice something, decide its an emergency, decide its your responsibility, decide to act
End of history illusion
people at all ages tend to believe that they have undergone considerable change and growth to become who they currently are, and also that they will not substantially grow and change in the future
meta-emotions
our feelings about our feelings
The widower effect
people become more likely to die in the period immediately after their spouses die
The opposite of love
indifference
Aggression
behavior intended to harm another person who wants to avoid it
Three facts about violence
It rises and falls fast, it is hard to do, it is concentrated in small neworks
Confrontational tension
the tension and fear that build when people face off, which usually keeps a confrontation from turning violent
Forward panic
tension that builds during a confrontation and then suddenly releases at all once, in a rush of attack, once the other side suddenly looks weak
Frustration-aggression hypothesis
When something blocks you from reaching a goal, you feel frustrated, and that frustration makes you more likely to act aggressively
Who gets helped?
people we think deserve it, people we see as one of “us”
About how much do we as humans underestimate each other?
about half
How groups get people to help
reputations, rules, relations
Groups reward individual sacrifice
People who give to the group earn respect; getting respect leads people to give more, and getting respect leads people to value the group more
Character contest
a confrontation in which each person tries to save face at the other’s expense
Violence as social control
using force to punish what the person doing it sees as a wrong (they are righting wrongs")
Interpersonal attraction
a postive attitude held by one person toward another person
Proximity
physical closeness. The people we happen to be near are the people we’re most likely to like
Mere exposure effect
repeated exposure to the same stimulus produces a more positive attitude towards it
What is beautiful is good
the tendency to assume that physically attractive people also have other good qualities
Foci
The places and activities that bring the same people together again and again
Homophily
The tendency for people to form ties with people who are similar to themselves
Jonathan Haidt (reasoning)
intuitions came first, strategic reasoning second
Moral dumbfounding
Holding firmly to a moral judgement while being unable to give reasons for it