1/11
First quiz of the semester
Cultural Standard
Society’s structures, appropriate behaviors
Folkways, mores, laws, and institutions control behaviors
Folkways - the normal, habitual ways of doing things; often, matter of good manners (saying pls, thank you, yes ma’am, etc.)
Mores (more-ayes) - behaviors or customs that must be followed to prevent the destruction of the common culture of society
Statistical Standard
Quite simple and makes numbers the deciding criteria
If more than 50% of the population practices a particular sexual behavior, it is then considered ‘normal’
EX: the divorce rate among couples married for more than 10 years in the US is slightly more than 50%; the argument would follow that divorce is a regular part of the institution of marriage
Religious Standard
For many people, this is the most important standard
This has evolved into something that has proscriptions against appropriate sexual acts
Many people of religious belief will judge sex acts and their appropriateness by this standard
Subjective Standard
Perhaps the most important in any person’s life
This standard legitimizes behavior in the same fashion as the other 3 standards, but at a personal level
EX: Driving over the speed limit on an interstate; chances are many were passing you along the way - even though you were violating the speed limit, others were doing the same thing; this may have allowed you to rationalize you lawbreaking
Normal Sexual Behavior
The social definition of sexual behavior would rely on the social demands and the necessity of the functional relationship between the social values and the actions by predators as well as other, normal people.
Fantasy
Some are simple, some are complex, some can be aggressive, and some can be sadistic
It is impossible to be sexual without some form of this
Not all of these are sexual; some form of revenge, love lost, hatred, or what have you
History and Sexuality
Analyze the certain family types that have expanded over time
The Hebrew Family, The Greek Family, The Roman Family, The Christian Family
Incest
Any use of a minor child to meet the sexual or sexual/emotional needs of one or more persons whose authority is derived through ongoing emotional bonding with that child
Physical types:
Kissing, fondling, touching of the genitals, rape, and others
Non-physical types:
saying things that arouse the interest of the child, exhibitionism, voyeurism, and patterns of sex play where the child is a viewer of the sex acts
The Hebrew Family
Had 4 distinguishing characteristics:
Patriarchal, patrilineal, patrilocal, polygynous
Males (adult and child) were granted a higher status because of gender
Males were seen as the ones that could provide for the family as well as capable of doing heavy lifting and acting as warriors in battle
Wealth and prosperity was passed down from the father to the eldest legitimate son if there was one
As in all patrilocal cultures, the eldest son lived close to the fathers home
Divorce was NOT granted to women; only men were granted divorce and permitted to have multiple wives
Sex in this family was primarily reserved for procreation and for the pleasure of the male
The Greek Family
Sex was seen as a means to procreate and for marital enrichment
One of the unique factors of sex stemmed from the strong public and communal encouragement of homosexuality
The highest form of a love affair was considered to be that between 2 males, one an adult and the other a young boy before puberty
Homosexuality and pedophilias were institutionalized in this society and were part of their common culture
Women were of low status; had 2 roles - mother and wife
Education was restricted for women and were seldom seen in public with their husbands
* Educated women were called hetaera; they were prostitutes who were educated not only academically but also in ways to please their male customers
Males could obtain a divorce, but it was extremely difficult, if not impossible, to do so
Homosexuality, lesbianism, hedonism, polytheism, warlike, and monogamous family structure
The Roman Family
Patriarchal, patrilineal, patrilocal, and monogamous
Very important in the sexual history of the family because they were the first type that allowed equality for males and females
Belief in equality of the sexes led to the concept of bi-humanity was good for one gender was good for the other
Males were still the desired children; would carry on the family name and inherit the family wealth
Men were seen as warriors, they could serve as elected officials in government
Could sue for divorce; many of the rituals found in wedding ceremonies today come from this family
Sex was not only for procreation but also recreational
Worshipped the Gods of emotion and pleasure
The Christian Family arose from all the special traits of this family
The Christian Family
After years of persecution, this family gain power and recognition in Rome through an edict issued by Emperor Constantine in 313 AD
Believed that it was better to remain single, but if you could not contain yourself, it was better to marry than burn in hell
Insisted on monogamy; did NOT allow for divorce
Sex was considered utilitarian, it was NOT to be used for recreation, only procreation
Because of Eve, women were considered to be the source of evil; they were considered nothing but phlegm and bad blood
Women wanted daughters because they stood a better chance at remaining virgins
Sex is something that should be done with someone with whom one has a positive emotional relationship