Erikson: the social question at each age

0–1 

Trust vs. mistrust

Can I rely on caregivers?

i.e. Responsive care.

1-3

Autonomy vs. shame

Can I do it myself?

i.e. Toddler choosing clothes.

3-6

Initiative vs. guilt

Can I start my own plan?

i.e. Preschooler starts a game.

6-12

Industry vs. inferiority

Can I develop skills?

i.e. Schoolchild proud of mastery.

12-20

Identity vs. role confusion

Who am I?

i.e. Teen explores values or future roles.

20-40

Intimacy vs. isolation

Can I form close bonds?

i.e. Young adult develops committed connection.

40-65

Generativity vs. stagnation

Can I contribute to others?

i.e. Adult mentors younger people.

65+

Integrity vs. despair

How do I view my life?

i.e. Older adult reflects with acceptance/regret.