Relational Dialectics theory

Relational Dialectics theory creators

Baxter and Montgomery

Relational Dialectics theory and tradition categories

Interpretive theory phenomenological tradition

Discourse

streams of talk that cohere around a given object of meaning

Dialogue

 a process in which unity and difference are at play, both with and against one another, which is embraced by Relational Dialectics Theory

Monologue

A mode talking that emphasizes one official discourse and silences all others, this is shunned by Relational Dialectics Theory

Utterance chain

Discourses spoken across a relationship, including prior conversations and those yet to come

The Three Discursive Struggles

Integration-Separation, Stability-Change, Expression-Non-expression

Integration-Separation

We want to be close to others yet at the same time we want distance and the ability for autonomy

Stability-Change

The tension between predictability and novelty. We want stable relationships yet we also want excitement

Expression-Non-expression

The tension between wanting to share and keeping things private

Internal Dialects

Discursive struggles played out within a relationship

External Dialect

Discursive struggles played out between a couple and their community

Buber’s Dialogue Ethics

I-It Vs I-thou