Review for the Midterm Exam

What does I Cor. 13:1-8 emphasis about love?

Love is patient, kind, does not envy or boast, and is everlasting.

Who are you as a Christian?

A child of God, a new creation in Christ.

How did God create humanity and why?

God created us in His own image as stated in Gen 1:27.

What is the Post-Modern view on gender?

Not a fixed attribute, fluid, non-binary, subjective personal choice.

What does the Biblical view on gender state?

Determined at conception, binary, biological factors determine identity.

What is sexuality?

The capacity for sexual feelings and determines thoughts, attractions, and behaviors toward others.

How does our culture view sexual relationships?

Physical without emotional attraction.

How does the Bible view sexual relationships?

Designed to form a covenantal union creating spiritual and emotional oneness.

What is our primary identity as Christians?

Children of God.

What is our secondary identity?

Male or Female.

What is love from a Biblical perspective?

A wholehearted and unwavering decision.

What are the results of Godly love?

Emotional attachment, passion, unselfish giving, acceptance of the other person.

What are the characteristics of mature love?

Committed, willing to compromise, focused on the other person.

What should never be compromised in Christian dating?

Never date an unbeliever or someone not committed to God.

What are essential considerations for Christian dating?

Alignment with God's purposes, closer relationship with God, shared faith.

What are warning signs of unhealthy dating?

Lying, avoiding topics, not taking responsibility, lack of physical boundaries.

What should you consider during engagement?

Expectations, relationship with God, love languages, financial planning.

What is marriage?

An unbreakable covenantal union creating spiritual, emotional, and physical oneness.

What are the main characteristics of a Godly marriage?

Intimate relationship, exclusive, mutual support and care.

Why did God design marriage?

To demonstrate His love for the church, companionship, procreation, teach unconditional love.

What are the contrasting views of marriage?

God-centered focuses on serving God and each other; self-centered focuses on personal happiness and rights.

What are the three crucial elements of a healthy marriage?

Communication, compromise, commitment.

What role does a family play in society?

Provides support and love, forms views of faith and shapes habits.

Why did God design gender uniqueness?

To benefit marriage through mutual support and reliance on each other.

What does divorce do from a Biblical perspective?

Breaks the covenant, the union designed by God, causing family suffering.

What should be our primary priorities in life?

God, spouse, children, work/ministry/school.

What helps to maintain a thriving relationship?

Be diligent, pray together, rekindle love, work as a team.

What is communication vs. effective communication?

Exchanging information vs. ensuring understanding.

What is essential for all types of communication?

Listening, observing, and empathizing.

What are the 7 Cs of effective communication?

Clarity, conciseness, concreteness, correctness, consideration, courtesy, completeness.

How can one communicate effectively?

Consider audience, plan approach, know purpose, timing matters.

What are common hindrances to effective communication?

Talking too much, not listening, or misunderstanding terms.

Why is listening essential to effective communication?

Enhances understanding, builds trust, and connects better.

What is the difference between ordinary and genuine listening?

Ordinary focuses on self, while genuine focuses on the other person.

What is conflict?

Disagreement, opposing interests, or differing views.

What is the primary purpose of conflict?

To refine, produce endurance, humble and grow us.

What are the results of unresolved conflict?

Resentment, stress, division, and eroded trust.

How can conflicts be resolved?

Actively listen, define the issue, focus on resolution, ask for and grant forgiveness.

What is the Biblical view on children?

Children are a heritage from the Lord.

What are the primary responsibilities of Godly parents?

Teach them about God, be a role model, love unconditionally.

What is Biblical discipline?

Wise and consistent correction for development and healthy growth.

What should characterize Biblical discipline?

Does not undermine love, age-appropriate, restores intimacy.