family and marriage (extra concepts)

Eros (lee's styles of loving, primary one)

• (Passionate / Romantic Love)

• strong physical and emotional chemistry, intense attraction, and often "love at first sight".

Ludus (Lee’'s style of loving, primary one)

• (Game-Playing / Casual Love)

• Views love as a fun game, puzzle, or sport rather than a serious commitment.

Storge (Lee’'s style of loving, primary one)

• (Friendship / Companionate Love)

• A slow-developing love that grows naturally out of a deep, solid friendship.

Mania (lee’s style of loving, secondary one)

• (Obsessive / Possessive Love) — Eros + Ludus

• An emotional rollercoaster marked by intense highs and extreme lows, severe jealousy, anxiety, and a constant need for reassurance

Pragma (lee’s style of loving, secondary one)

• (Practical / Logical Love) — Ludus + Storge

• Characteristics: A sensible, down-to-earth approach where people look for a partner who matches specific practical, social, or demographic criteria (like a "shopping list")

Agape (lee’s style of loving, secondary one)

• (Selfless / Unconditional Love) — Eros + Storge (or Eros + Ludus/Storge blends depending on model)

• Characteristics: Altruistic, patient, and all-giving; the lover puts the partner's needs far above their own without expecting anything in return

narcissists

people who have exaggerated feelings of power and self-importance (believe they are better)

jealousy

an unhealthy manifestation of insecurity, low self confidence and possessiveness and is a form of control over the other partner

stalking

include telephone harassment and cyberstalking

sexual script

specifiek the formal and informal norms for legitimate or unacceptable sexual activity, the eligibility of sexual partners and the boundaries or sexual behavior

surveys

systematically collect information or data though quesirnnares or interviews

clinical research

studies individuals / small group and often relies on case studies or in-depth interviews

field research

researchers collected data by observing them in their natural surroundings

secondary analysis

researchers review material that has been collected by others

experiment

very structured, artificial situation that allows the researcher to control certain variables

gender myths

tend to associate stereotypically female characteristics with weakness and male with strengt

nature side (nature/nurture)

differnces in women and men behavior reflect innate biological characteristics

nurture side (nature/nurture)

role of learning, socialization and culture are important in explaining human development

second shift

shift mostly women do after getting of work and doing a second shirt like household chores and taking care of the children

global gender gap index

measures well-being of women on global scale

sexual arousal

is a psychological state

sexual desire

physical state

biological theories (theories about love and loving)

maintain that love is ground in evolution, biology and chemistry)

sociological perspectives (theories about love and loving)

claim that culture plays the role of cupid

attachment theory

proposes that our primary motivation in life is to be connected with other people because this is the only true security we will have in life

three attachment styles

• secure style

• avoidant style

• anxious style

reiss’'s wheel theory of love

describes 4 stages of love:

• rapport

• self revelation

• mutual dependency

• personality need fulfillment

exchange theory of love

love as a social exchange process → romantic love and long term relationships involve social exchanges in the sense that they provide rewards and costs for each partner