Human Attraction - Cognitive approach

The cognitive explanation for human attraction.

Matching Hypothesis

Suggests that people choose individuals with similar physical attractiveness as themselves. Rather than the most attractive partner available.

Reciprocity

People are attracted to those who like them in return.

Self - Esteem

Perceived self-worth derives which individuals we approach, engage with, and accept as romantic partners.

Familiarity

Mere - Exposure Effect - Repeated exposure to an individual results in increased attraction or liking, even without a conscious interaction.

Uncertainty & Trust - Reduces uncertainty & increases predictability, resulting in a feeling of safety and trust.

Internal Working Model

Experiences to caregivers as a child influences an individuals schema determining the need in romantic relationships in the future.

Social Penetration Theory

Describes how interpersonal relationships develop

Orientation - Simple information, name, birthday, nationality without recalling vulnerability

Exploration - Revealing feelings and opinions on “safe” topics.

Affective - Initial sharing of a private or personal nature

Stable - Feeling completely honest and open with the individual.