self-concept: the overall set of beliefs people have about themselves and their attributes
affect: emotions and feelings
behaviors: knowledge of actions
cognitions: beliefs about the self
→ EXPERIMENTS:
gallup and anderson: put red dots on animals heads and placed a mirror in front of them, chimpanzees and apes looked and touched the dot on their heads, while other animals did not, showing that they have some self awareness and self concept to recognize this
the rogue test: placed a red dot on children’s heads and placed a mirror in front of them, until 18 months they were unable to tell the dot was on themselves and not on a different person
development of self concepts:
human self-concept develops at 18-24 months
primates, dolphins, and elephants also have self concept
2 year olds begin to focus on easily observable characteristics
in adolescence to adulthood, people focus on physiological states, and how others perceive us
cultural differences in defining the self:
western cultures:
emphasize agency and personal success
defines self in independent view
independent view of self: a way of defining oneself in terms of ones own internal thoughts, feelings, and actions, and not in the terms of the thoughts, feelings, or actions of others
eastern/asian cultures:
emphasize group cohesion, interpersonal harmony, and the importance of others
defines self in the interdependent view
interdependent view of self: a way of defining oneself in terms of ones relationship to other people, recognizing that one’s behavior is often determined by the thoughts, feelings, and actions of others
introspection: the process whereby people look inward and examine their own thoughts, feelings, and motives
people are bad at it, often wrong
reasons for feelings/behaviors are often outside of conscious awareness
it can be difficult to judge why we feel the way we do
→ EXPERIMENT:
nisbett and wilson 1977: participants watched a boring documentary, group 1 just watched normally, group 2 the video was blurry, and group 3 there was a powersaw outside the room. everyone was asked how much they enjoyed the film, then groups 2 and 3 would be asked if the distractions interfered with their enjoyment.
all groups liked the documentary to the same extent, however, when groups 2 and 3 were asked about how the distraction affected their enjoyment, they said that the distraction made the film less enjoyable.
overall, people came to incorrect conclusions regarding their true feelings using introspection
casual theories: theories about the causes of ones own feelings and behaviors, often we learn such theories from our culture
often wrong
ex. bad sleep will put you in a bad mood
EXPERIMENT: college students recorded their moods everyday for 5 weeks, they kept track of what they thought might predict their moods, such as weather, workload, sleep.
at the end, the students estimates how much their mood were predicted by these variables, and the data analysis showed that in many cases the estimates were wrong.
people are good at figuring out what mood they are in but not why
reason-generated attitude change: attitude change resulted from thinking of the reasons for ones own attitude
you have a reason to like X, when someone asks you to generate different (easily verbalized) reasons, a decision may be based on the reasons you just generated, and not real reasons
self-awareness theory: the idea that when people focus their attention on themselves, they evaluate and compare their behavior to their internal standards and values
can be good if it helps shine spotlight on positive behaviors or accomplishments
can act as a moral compass
self-perception theory: the theory that when our attitudes and feelings are uncertain or ambiguous, we infer thee states by observing our behavior and the situation in which it occurs
people judge whether their behavior really reflects how they feel or if the situation made them act that way
attitudes:
EXPERIMENT: wells and petty 1980: participants listened to opinion statements about stuff they didnt have a strong opinion on while either shaking their head the entire time, or nodding their head the entire time, and were told they were testing out the strength of new headphones
then they were asked who agrees with the opinion statement more, with the nodder agreeing with the statement more frequently than the head shakers
people subconsciously inferred their own attitudes form their physical behavior
motivation:
intrinsic motivation: the desire to engage in an activity because we enjoy it or find it interesting, not because of external rewards or pressures
extrinsic motivation: the desire to engage in an activity because of external rewards or pressures, not because we enjoy the task or find it interesting
self-perception theory says that rewards that increase external motivation to do something will eventually decrease internal motivation to do something
overjustification effect: the tendency for people to view their behavior as caused by compelling extrinsic reasons, making them underestimate the extent to which it was caused by intrinsic reasons
EXPERIMENT: children showed interest in a math game, but once they were given rewards for time spent on the game the time played increased significantly, but once the rewards went away the interest in the game dropped significantly, even lower than the original interest
rewards undermine interest only if initial interest was high, and the type of reward matters
task contingent rewards: rewards that are given for preforming a task, regardless of how well the task is done
almost always decrease intrinsic motivation as no matter how you do you will always be rewarded
preformance contingent rewards: rewards that are based on how well we preform a task
less damaging to intrinsic motivation as it conveys message that you are good at something and boost self-esteem and motivation
emotions:
we can infer why we have the emotions we have by observing our behavior
two-factor theory of emotion: the idea that emotional experience is the result of a two-step self-perception process in which people first experience physiological arousal and then seek an appropriate explanation for it
physiological arousal: activation of the nervous system, with sweating, increased heart rate etv
facial feedback hypothesis: changes in facial expression can lead to corresponding changes in emotion
even if subconsciously smiling, the body will process that, and attribute it to being a good mood
misattribution of arousal: the process whereby people make mistaken inferences about what is causing them to feel the way they do
EXPERIMENT: dutton and aron 1974: study where an attractive woman approaches men to ask them to fill out a stufy and can call her later, half were approached on a moving suspension bridge, and the other half were approached on a small bridge over a stream, leading to arousal due to fear, to see if that arousal would be translated to be occuring because of seeing an attractive woman leading to an increase of the men calling her.
more men from the tall bridge called the woman back as they misattributed the arousal from the fear of the bridge to arousal by how attractive the woman is
did the study again with everyone on the same bridge, half were approached on the bridge and half approached ten minutes after resting from the bridge, the men that were approached on the bridge reached out more than those that were given a break
mindset:
fixed mindset: the idea that we have a set amount of an ability that cannot change
growth mindset: the idea that we learn about our abilities and attitudes by comparing ourselves to other people
social comparison theory: learning about our abilities and attitudes by comparing ourselves to other people
people are motivates to accurately evaluate their own opinions and abilities
in the absence of an objective base of comparisons, people use a social base
to gain accurate information, people compare themselves to similar others
upward social comparison: comparing ourselves to people who are better at a particular trait or ability
ex. me comparing my basketball skills to jayson tatum
ex. comparing my singing abilities to taylor swift
downnwards social comparison: comparing ourselves to people who are worse at a particular trait or ability
ex. me comparing my basketball skills to a 5 year old
→ why do we engage in upward vs downward social comparison
motivated to be accurate = social comparison to similar others
motivated to feel good about self = downward social comparison
motivated to achieve a future advanced goal = upward social comparison
activity:
1= below avg 2= avg 3= above avg
how would you rate your intelligence: 2
what kind of student are you: 2
how attractive are you: 2?
how likeable are you: 2
self esteem: evaluations of our self-worth; the affective component of the self
→ high self esteem: viewing ourselves as good, competent, and decent
motivational function
protective function
implementation intentions- peoples specific plans about where, when, and how they will fulfill a goal and avoid temptations
how do you want to come off to others? what do you want them to think of you?
impression management: attempt by people to get others to see them as they want to be seen
its all about self-presentation! some strategies:
conform
intimidation
self-promotion
modesty
two other strategies:
ingratiation- using flattery or praise to make ourselves likeable to another person
→ usually used toward somebody of a higher status
self-handicapping: creating obstacles and excuses for ourselves so if we do poorly on a task, we can avoid blaming ourselves
self handicapping:
→ why do we self handicap?
-failing at something doesnt feel good
-protects self esteem if we do fail
→problems with self-handicapping
-self-fulfilling prophesy
-other people do not form positive impression of self handicappers
behavioral self handicapping: behaving in a way that reduces the likelihood that we will succeed
example: pulling an all-nighter
reported self-handicapping: coming up with excuses
example: complaining about not feeling well when you take a test
→gender differences:
men more behaviroal
women more reported
culture and impression management:
culturally universal desire to manage image we present
→cultural differences:
kinds of images we present (eg. saving face is important in asian culture)
self control: making choices about the present and plans for the future
executive function of the self
stanford marshmallow experiment:
-delayed gratification
-1 small reward now, or 2 later
wait longer (ie. more self control) = better life outcomes
self regulatory resource model:
→ views self control as a limited resource
ego depletion (impaired self-control)
like a muscle that gets tired with frequent use
→ ego depletion study
taste perception study, dont eat 3 hrs before, set up in a room with radishes and freshly bakes cookies
iv: one condition is eat radishes only (high self control) second is only eat cookies (low self control) and control is no food at all
dv: persistence on a frustrating unrelated task
results: cookies and no food persisted for around 20 min, and radishes persisted for less than 10. radish condition were depleted and has less regulator resources to persist on the problem solving task
take-away: exerting self control in one scenario depletes cognitive resources available for exerting control in a second scenario
to increase self control:
practice exerting control
set behavioral intentions
avoid depleting situations