Chapter 14 - Moral Development
Piaget interviewed children to examine their thinking about questions like; what counts as breaking a rule? what role does a person’s intentions play in morality? are certain punishments just? and how can goods be distrubuted fairly?
he presented these questions through stories, and as children heard them, they were asked which character was “naughtier” and why
Piaget came to the conclusion that there are 2 stages of development in children’s moral reasoning (with a transition period between them)
the outcome is more important than the intention
the intention is seen as a paramount
the 1st stage is referred to as heteronomous morality and is characteristics of children younger than 7 years of age who are in the preoperational stage
children in this stage regard rules and duties as law, and authorities’ punishments for noncompliance are always justified
Piaget suggests young children’s belief that rules are unchangeable are due to social and cognitive factors
social: parental control of children is unilateral, leading to children having unquestioning respect
cognitive: children’s cognitive immaturity leads them to beleive rules are “real” things like chairs, and not products of the human mind
After the first stage, children enter a transition period where interactions wtih peers lead them to be able to take one another’s perspective and to develop beliefs about fairness
at around 11-12 years of age, children enter the second stage which is called autonomous morality
in this stage, children no longer accept blind obedience to authority as the basis of moral decisions. They understand rules can be changed if the majority agrees to do so, they consider fairness and equality as the most important factors to consider when making rules, and that punishments should fit the crime and adults are not always fair in delivering punishment
children typically progress from heteronomous morality to autonomous moral reasoning, and difference in the rates are due to numerous factors including cognitive maturity, opportunities for interactions with peers, and how authoritarian and punitive their parents are
Piaget underestimated young children’s abilty to appreciate the role of intentionality in morality
even young children think of intentions when evaluating other’s behaviour
it is clear that young children to not believe some actions like hurting others are right even when adults say they are
Kohlberg proposed that the development of moral reasoning proceeds through a specific series of stages that are discontinuous and hierarchal and each stage reflects a more advanced way of thinking than the one before it
he assessed moral reasoning by presenting children with hypothetical moral dilemmas and questioning them about the issues involved, one being the Heinz dilemma
Kohlberg proposed there are 3 levels of moral reasoning - preconventional, conventional, and postconventional - and each has two stages within it
preconventional moral reasoning is self-centered, and the child focuses on getting rewards and avoiding punishment
stage 1: punishment and obedience orientation
a child’s moral actions are motivated by avoiding punishment
the child does not consider interests of others at all
stage 2: instrumental and exchange orientation
what is right is what is in the best interest of the child or invovles equal exchange (ex. you hurt me, so I hurt you)
conventional moral reasoning is centered on social relationships, and a child is focused on compliance with social duties and laws
stage 3: mutual interpersonal expectations, relationships, and interpersonal conformity orientation
good behaviour is what is expected by those close to the person
being good is important and entails having good motives, showing concern, and maintaining good relationships with others
stage 4: social system and conscience orientation
moral behaviour involves fulfilling one’s duties, upholding laws, and contributing to society or one’s group
the individual is motivated to keep the social system going and to avoid a breakdown in its functioning
this stage is centered on ideals and a child at this level focuses on moral principles
stage 5: social contract or individual rights orientation
moral behaviour invovles upholding rules that are the best for the group, are impartial, or were mutually agrreed upon by the group
at this stage, one might reason that if society agrees the law is not benefiting everyone, it should be changed
stage 6: universal ethical principles
moral reasoning at this stage asserts that principles must be upheld in any society regardless of majority opinion, and hwen laws violate them, the individual should act in accordance with these universal principles rather than the law
moral behaviour here is commitment to self-chosen ethical prinicples that reflect universal prinicples like basic human rights and liberty
people who have higher-level cognitive and perspective-taking skills exhibit higher-level moral reasoning
Kohlberg’s work has been useful in understanding how cognitive processes contribute to moral behaviour
however, they have been criticized
one criticism is that Kohlberg did not sufficiently differentiate between moral issues and issues of social convention
another is that cultural differences in values were not taken into account
another is related to Kohlberg’s argument that once an individual has attained a new stage, they rarely reason at a lower one, but research has shown that children and adults reason at different levels on different occasions
an issue raised is whether gender differences exist in moral reasoning. Kohlberg fails to recognize the differences in which males and females reason morally based on how they are socialized
according to the social domain theory, growth in moral reasoning occurs through gradual change based on social interactions (implicit and explicit) with peers, adults, and parents
it emphasizes the role of peers as a strong influence on children’s moral development
it argues that children need to understand the principles in three different domains of social knowledge - the moral domain, societal domain, and the personal domain - for children to successfuly negotiate their social worlds
moral domain - the moral domain is based on concepts of right & wrong, fairness, justice and individual rights. These concepts apply across concepts and surpass rules or authority
ex. parents play an important role by teaching children cooperation and various perspectives
societal domain - the societal domain consists of the rules and conventions societies maintain order through
ex. choices about clothing, manners, forms of greeting
personal domain - the personal domain pertains to actions where individual preferences are the main consideration with no right or wrongs
it is centered around the development of autonomy and identity
ex. how children dress, spend their money, and choice of friends
children (and to a lesser degree adolescents) believe parents have authority unless the parent gives commands that violate moral/societal principles
regarding personal judgement, even preschoolers want autonomy and older children strongly believe they should have autonomy regarding themselves at home and at school
parents usually feel they should have some authority over children’s personal choices, which is why parents and teenagers often battle in this domain, and parents often lose these battles
all human societies maintain social order through norms
moral, societal, and personal judgements are found across cultures
children’s ability to distinguish among the domains also appears across many cultures
moral judgments are largely universal
what issues fall within the societal domain or personal domain differ across cultures
ex. children in India beleive they have a clear moral obligation to attend to the needs of their parents, friends, and strangers while children in America appear to consider it a matter of personal judgment or a combination of moral and personal judgments
religious beliefs may affect what is considered a moral judgment or societal judgement
ex. for religious youth, the crucial factor for societal judgements is God’s word in the Bible
socioeconomic class can also influence the way children make such designations
ex. children of lower-income families are somewhat less likely than middle-class children to be stricter about moral and societal actions and less likely to view personal judgments as a matter of choice as those of low socioeconomic status place a greater emphasis on submission to authority and allow children less autonomy
conscience pushes us to behave in appropriate ways and makes us feel guilty if we don’t
conscience is an internal regulatory mechanism that increases the individual’s abilty to conform to standards of conduct accepted in their culture
restrains antisocial behaviour and destructive impulses & promotes compliance with rules and standards
can also promote prosocial behaviour by utilizing guilt when acting in less than acceptable ways
conscience is tied to cultural standards
it is suggested that humans may have an innate drive to prefer helping actions than hindering ones
conscience develops slowly over time and children’s growing understanding of others’ emotions and goals as well as their increasing capacity for empathic concern are likely contributors to the development of conscience
children are more likely to take on parents’ moral values if their parents use disciplinary practices low in power and high in reasoning
adoption of parents’ values is also facilitated by a secure, positive parent-child relationship that inclines children to be open to and eager to internalize parent’s values
children with different temperaments may develop a conscience in different ways
ex. for infants that are prone to fear, gentle discipline with reasoning and nonmaterial incentives for compliance develops conscience
gentle discipline arouses fearful children just enough that they remember what thier mother tells them
gentle discipline seems to be unrelated to the development of conscience in fearless young children because it does not arouse attention
fearless children appear motivated more to please mother than by a fear of her
the effects of parenting on children’s conscience can vary with the child’s genes because genes affect children’s temperaments
ex. relation between maternal responsiveness & child’s genotype for the serotonin transporter gene SLC6A4
early development of conscience contributes to whether children come to accept the moral values of their parents and society
the nature of early parent-child disciplinary interactions sets the stage for children’s subsequent moral development
the origins of prosocial behaviour are rooted in the capacity to feel empathy and sympathy
empathy is identifying the emotions of others and understanding that another person is feeling an emotion or is in some kind of need
sympathy is a feeling of concern for another in response to the other’s emotional state or condition
in order for children to express empathy or sympathy, they must be able to take the perspective of others, and they can begin to do this as early as 14 months
14 months - children become diestressed when seeing others in distress
18-25 months - toddlers sometimes share a personal object with an adult they have seen being harmed to comfort
2 years - more likely to comfort someone who is upset than become upset themselves, showing that they know who is upset
2-4 years, some types of prosocial behaviours increase while others decrease
cooperatoin is another form of prosocial behaviour that may be driven by sympathy and a child’s sense of fairness
child as young as 14 months of age were able to cooperate with another person to reach a mutually beneficial goal
chimpanzee’s interactions are characterized by competition rather than cooperation, hinting that cooperative prosocial behaviour may have evolved especially in humans
many have proposed that humans are biologically predisposed to be prosocial as collaboration in foraging for food and repelling enemies ensured survival
genetic factors contribute to individual differences in empathy, sympathy, and prosocial behaviour
the role of genetics in the children’s prosocial concerns for others and prosocial behaviour increases with age
genetics also affect empathy, sympathy and prosocial behaviour through temperament
children who tend to experience emotion without getting overwhelmed by it are especially likely to experience sympathy and act prosocially
children who are not responsive to others’ emotions may be unlikely to act prosocially
the primary environmental influence on children’s development of prosocial behaviour is socialization in the family. Parents socialize prosocial behaviour in children…
by modeling and teaching prosocial behaviour
by arranging opportunities for children to engage in prosocial behaviour
by disciplining their children and eliciting prosocial behaviour from them
(parents also communicate and reinforce cultural beliefs about the value of prosocial behaviour)
Modeling and the communication of values
children tend to imitate other people’s helping and sharing behaviour
children are especially likely to imitate the prosocial behaviour of adults they have a positive relationship
this explains why parents and children tend to have similar levels of prosocial behaviour, although heredity may also contribute
the values parents convey to children may influence whetehr children are prosocial and toward whom they are prosocial
sympathizing teaches children prosocial values
Opportunities for prosocial activities
providing children with opportunities to engage in helpful activities can increase their willingness to take on prosocial tasks at a later time
participation in prosocial activities may also give children and adolescents opportunities to take others’ perspectives, increase confidence that they are competent enough to assist others, and to experience emotional rewards for helping
forcing older adolescents into service activities can sometimes backfire and undermine their motivation to help
Discipline and parenting style
high levels of prosocial behaviour and sympathy in children tend to be associated with constructive and supportive parenting, including authoritative parenting
prosocial sympathetic children may also elicit more support from parents
a parenting style that involves physical punishment, threats, and an authoritarian approach tends to be associated with a lack of sympathy and prosocial behaviour in children and adolescents
the way parents try to elicit prosocial behaviour from children is also important
ex. if children are regulary punished for failing to engage in prosocial behaviour, they may start to believe the reason for helping others is only to avoid punishment
discipline that includes reasoning is particularly likely to foster children’s voluntary prosocial behaviour
this is because reasoning points out the consequences of the child’s behaviour for others, encourages perspective taking, and sympathy for others while providing guidelines children can refer to in future situations
the combination of parental warmth and certain parenting practices seems to be especially effective in fostering prosocial tendencies in children and adolescents
Peer influences
relationships with other children are key to the way children learn and practice moral principles like fairness, justice, reciprocity, conflict resolution, and not hurting or taking advantage of others
a study found that pairs that had the highest levels of moral reasoning were almost the most successful at resolving conflicts
Interventions
some school interventions have been effective at promoting prosocial behaviour in children, so environmental factors must contribute to prosocial development
school-based interventions are divided into 3 levels: primary prevention, secondary prevention, and tertiary intervention
primary prevention targets all individuals in a particular setting to prevent the occurence of a problematic behaviour or condition
secondary prevention helps individuals at risk for developing a problem or condition with the goal of preventing the problem or condition
tertiary intervention is a program designed to help individuals who already exhibit a problem or condition
this is in a pyramid structure, with primary prevention at the bottom (taking up most the space) and secondary, follow tertiary
antisocial behaviour is any behaviour described as disruptive, hostile, or aggressive that violates social norms and harms others
aggression is defined as any behaviour aimed at physically or emotionally harming others
Aggression emerges as early as before 12 months of age, and physical aggression starts at around 18 months and increases in frequency until about age 2 or 3
with the growth of language skills, physical aggression decreases in frequency, and verbal aggression increases
instrumental aggression is aggression motivated by the desire to obtain a concrete goal
ex. conflict over possessoins
preschool children sometimes use relational aggression, which is aggression intended to harm others by damaging peer relationships
ex. excluding peers from activities or social groups
whereas aggression in young children is usually instrumental, aggression is elementary school is often hostile due to the desire to hurt the other person or is motivated by defense of self-esteem
children who engage in physical aggressoin also tend to engage in relational aggression
the frequency of physical aggression decreases for most teenagers
there is an overall developmental trend towards less physical aggression, but serious acts of violence increase in mid-adolescence along with property offenses, and status offenses
male adolescents engage in much more violent behaviour than females
there is considerable consistency in individual differences in both girls’ and boys’ aggression across childhood and adolescence
many children who are aggressive from early lief have neurological deficits that underlie problems like hyperactivity and difficulty paying attention
these deficits can result in troubled relation that fuel the child’s aggressive, antisocial pattern of behaviour
those who have low impulse control and poor regulation of aggression continue to engage in troublesome behaviours and have some problems with their mental health and substance dependence until their mid 20s
biological factors contribute to individual differences in aggression, but their precise role is not very clear
twin studies suggest antisocial behaviour runs in families and is partially due to genetics
heredity appears to play a stronger role in aggression in early childhood and adulthood than in adolescence where environmental factors are a major contributor
heredity contributes to proactive and reactive aggression, but the influence of heredity is greater for proactive aggression
one genetically influenced contributor to aggression is difficult temperament
children who have problems with aggression and antisocial behaviour tend to exhibit a difficult temperament along with a lack of self-regulatory skills
they are also inclined toward aggression and criminal behaviour in late adolescence and violent crime in adulthood
some aggressive children tend to have callous personality traits without guilt, empathy, or sympathy for others
they after often charming but insincere and this combination is especially likely to predict antisocial behaviour, aggression, and criminal behaviour in adolescence
children’s aggressive behaviours are often in reaction to how they interpret social situations
they are more likely than nonaggressive children to assume hostile motives when the motive of the subject is unclear
ex. assuming a person spilling a drink on them is intentional, rather than accidental, and think they need to “get back” at them
they are also more likely to be hostile in social situations and try to intimidate or get back at a peer
most are more likely to describe their own aggressive behaviour as a natural reaction to the behaviour of others, but when it comes to their helping behaviours they don’t do this
ex. “he crashed his sled into me” when justifying their aggressive behaviour.
ex. when asked why a friend gave their friend a jacket, they say “he was cold without a jacket”, putting the focus on what their friend needed, but aggressive children do not do this
aggressive children are inclined to evaluate aggressive responses more favourably and prosocial responses less favourably than others
this is because aggressive children feel more confident of their ability to be aggressive physically and verbally and they expect their aggressive behaviour to result in favourable outcomes as well as reducing negative treatment
aggresive children are predisposed to aggressive behavioural choices, which in turn appears to increase their tendency to view aggressive behaviours positively, which increaes the level of future antisocial conduct
reactive aggresion is emotionally driven, antagonistic aggression sparked by one’s perception that other people’s motives are hostile
proactive aggression is unemotional aggression aimed at fulfilling a need or desire
children who experience harsh or low-quality parenting are at a greater risk of becoming aggressive or antisocial than others
Parental punitiveness
many children whose parents use harsh but non-abusive physical punishment are prone to problem behaviours in early years, aggression in childhood, and criminality in adolescence and adulthood
this is especially true when parents are cold and punitive in general and the child does not have an early secure attachment & difficult temperament and is chronically angry and unregulated
some researchers have argued that the relation between physical punishment and children’s antisocial behaviour varies across racial, ethnic and cultural groups
harsh or abusive punishment is associated with the development of antisocial tendencies.
very harsh physical discipline leads to social cognition associated with aggression
parents who use abusive punishment provide models of aggressive behaviour for children to imitate
children’s behvaiour and parent’s punitive discipline has a reciprocal relation
children who are high in antisocial behaviour and exhibit psychopathic traits tend to elicit harsh parenting which increases problem behaviour and so the cycle continues
some recent research suggests harsh physical punishment has a stronger effect on children’s behaviour problems than vice versa
ineffective discipline is often evident in the pattern of a troubled family interaction
ex. the aggression of children may be reinforced by parents who give into the demands/fit of temper, which results in parents and children behaving harshly with one another
the relation between punitive parenting and children’s aggression can have a genetic component
parents whose genes predispose them to aggressive or punitive parenting will pass those genes to their children which means this parenting can be linked to antisocial and aggressive behaviour in children through genes and a conflictual home environment (passive gene-environment correlation)
Poor parental monitoring
parental monitoring may be important as it reduces the likelihood that older children and adolescents will associate with deviant, antisocial peers
once adolescents begin engaging in unfavourable behaviours, they become harder to monitor, and parents of aggressive youth find that monitoring can lead to high conflict with children and are forced to back off
Parental conflict
children who are frequently exposed to verbal and physical violence between their parents tend to be more antisocial and aggressive than other children
one reason is that parents model aggressive behaviour for children and another is that children whos mothers are physically abused tend to believe violence is an acceptable and even natural part of family interactions
embattled spouses also tend to be less skilled and responsive as well as more hostile and controlling in their parenting, which can increase their children’s aggressive tendencies (cycle)
this happens even with an adopted child, so this cannot be solely because of genes
Socioeconomic status and children’s antisocial behaviour
children from low-income families tend to be more antisocial and aggressive than children from high or middle-income homes
this could be because of the greater number of stressors experienced by children in poor families, like family stress and neighbourhood violence
because of the stress they face, parents in poverty are more likely to be rejecting and low in warmth, use harsh discipline, and be lax in supervision/monitoring
children in low-income families tend to live in low-income neighbourhoods which have more violence and crime, and they also attend low-income schools which do not have the proper resources and also have high violence
these neighbourhoods lack appropriate mentors, job opportunities, and constructive activities that engage children and youth and lead them away from antisocial behaviour
aggressive children tend to socialize with other aggressive children and become more deliquent if their close friends are aggressive
members of the larger peer group with whom older children socialize with may influence aggression even more than close friends
it appears children’s susceptibility to peer pressure to become involved in antisocial behaviour increases in the elementary school yeras, peaks at about 8th to 9th grade, and declines after
peer approval of relational aggression increases in middle school, and students in peer groups that are supportive of relational aggression become increasingly aggressive
exception ex. mexican american immigrant youth who are more tied ot traditional values are less susceptible to peer pressure toward antisocial behaviour than those who are less traditional
it is often a combination of genetic and environmental factors that predict children’s antisocial, aggressive behaviour and that some children are more sensitive to the quality of parenting than others
children with certain gene variants related to serotonin or dopamine appear to be more responsive to their environment than children with different variants
gene variants can be related to higher risk for aggression in adverse situations like maltreatment and divorce but are not related to aggression in the absence of the adverse conditions
children with these problem behaviours can be treated with individual psychotherapy or a combination of psychotherapy and drug therapy
it is useful and even necessary to involve parents as interventions that teach parents how to manage their own behaviour when interacting with children can reduce their aggression and antisocial behaviour
community-based programs that aim to reduce antisocial behaviour by increasing positive behaviour exist, and they do this through an approach called positive youth development
schools can also be settings for this interventions
The Fast Track program is designed to promote understanding and communication of emotions, positive social behaviour, self-control, and social problem solving, and children with the most serious problems participated in an intensive intervention
positive youth development is an approach to youth intervention that focuses on developing and nurturing strengths and assets rather than on correcting weaknesses and deficits
it emphasizes competence, confidence, connection, character, caring, and compassion.
it utilizes service learning which is a strategy that integrates school-based instruction with community involvement in order to promote civic responsibility and enhance learning
participation in service learning can increase student’s empathy, awareness of larger social issues, ability to participate in a cooperative activity, and capacity for making responsible decisions.
Piaget interviewed children to examine their thinking about questions like; what counts as breaking a rule? what role does a person’s intentions play in morality? are certain punishments just? and how can goods be distrubuted fairly?
he presented these questions through stories, and as children heard them, they were asked which character was “naughtier” and why
Piaget came to the conclusion that there are 2 stages of development in children’s moral reasoning (with a transition period between them)
the outcome is more important than the intention
the intention is seen as a paramount
the 1st stage is referred to as heteronomous morality and is characteristics of children younger than 7 years of age who are in the preoperational stage
children in this stage regard rules and duties as law, and authorities’ punishments for noncompliance are always justified
Piaget suggests young children’s belief that rules are unchangeable are due to social and cognitive factors
social: parental control of children is unilateral, leading to children having unquestioning respect
cognitive: children’s cognitive immaturity leads them to beleive rules are “real” things like chairs, and not products of the human mind
After the first stage, children enter a transition period where interactions wtih peers lead them to be able to take one another’s perspective and to develop beliefs about fairness
at around 11-12 years of age, children enter the second stage which is called autonomous morality
in this stage, children no longer accept blind obedience to authority as the basis of moral decisions. They understand rules can be changed if the majority agrees to do so, they consider fairness and equality as the most important factors to consider when making rules, and that punishments should fit the crime and adults are not always fair in delivering punishment
children typically progress from heteronomous morality to autonomous moral reasoning, and difference in the rates are due to numerous factors including cognitive maturity, opportunities for interactions with peers, and how authoritarian and punitive their parents are
Piaget underestimated young children’s abilty to appreciate the role of intentionality in morality
even young children think of intentions when evaluating other’s behaviour
it is clear that young children to not believe some actions like hurting others are right even when adults say they are
Kohlberg proposed that the development of moral reasoning proceeds through a specific series of stages that are discontinuous and hierarchal and each stage reflects a more advanced way of thinking than the one before it
he assessed moral reasoning by presenting children with hypothetical moral dilemmas and questioning them about the issues involved, one being the Heinz dilemma
Kohlberg proposed there are 3 levels of moral reasoning - preconventional, conventional, and postconventional - and each has two stages within it
preconventional moral reasoning is self-centered, and the child focuses on getting rewards and avoiding punishment
stage 1: punishment and obedience orientation
a child’s moral actions are motivated by avoiding punishment
the child does not consider interests of others at all
stage 2: instrumental and exchange orientation
what is right is what is in the best interest of the child or invovles equal exchange (ex. you hurt me, so I hurt you)
conventional moral reasoning is centered on social relationships, and a child is focused on compliance with social duties and laws
stage 3: mutual interpersonal expectations, relationships, and interpersonal conformity orientation
good behaviour is what is expected by those close to the person
being good is important and entails having good motives, showing concern, and maintaining good relationships with others
stage 4: social system and conscience orientation
moral behaviour involves fulfilling one’s duties, upholding laws, and contributing to society or one’s group
the individual is motivated to keep the social system going and to avoid a breakdown in its functioning
this stage is centered on ideals and a child at this level focuses on moral principles
stage 5: social contract or individual rights orientation
moral behaviour invovles upholding rules that are the best for the group, are impartial, or were mutually agrreed upon by the group
at this stage, one might reason that if society agrees the law is not benefiting everyone, it should be changed
stage 6: universal ethical principles
moral reasoning at this stage asserts that principles must be upheld in any society regardless of majority opinion, and hwen laws violate them, the individual should act in accordance with these universal principles rather than the law
moral behaviour here is commitment to self-chosen ethical prinicples that reflect universal prinicples like basic human rights and liberty
people who have higher-level cognitive and perspective-taking skills exhibit higher-level moral reasoning
Kohlberg’s work has been useful in understanding how cognitive processes contribute to moral behaviour
however, they have been criticized
one criticism is that Kohlberg did not sufficiently differentiate between moral issues and issues of social convention
another is that cultural differences in values were not taken into account
another is related to Kohlberg’s argument that once an individual has attained a new stage, they rarely reason at a lower one, but research has shown that children and adults reason at different levels on different occasions
an issue raised is whether gender differences exist in moral reasoning. Kohlberg fails to recognize the differences in which males and females reason morally based on how they are socialized
according to the social domain theory, growth in moral reasoning occurs through gradual change based on social interactions (implicit and explicit) with peers, adults, and parents
it emphasizes the role of peers as a strong influence on children’s moral development
it argues that children need to understand the principles in three different domains of social knowledge - the moral domain, societal domain, and the personal domain - for children to successfuly negotiate their social worlds
moral domain - the moral domain is based on concepts of right & wrong, fairness, justice and individual rights. These concepts apply across concepts and surpass rules or authority
ex. parents play an important role by teaching children cooperation and various perspectives
societal domain - the societal domain consists of the rules and conventions societies maintain order through
ex. choices about clothing, manners, forms of greeting
personal domain - the personal domain pertains to actions where individual preferences are the main consideration with no right or wrongs
it is centered around the development of autonomy and identity
ex. how children dress, spend their money, and choice of friends
children (and to a lesser degree adolescents) believe parents have authority unless the parent gives commands that violate moral/societal principles
regarding personal judgement, even preschoolers want autonomy and older children strongly believe they should have autonomy regarding themselves at home and at school
parents usually feel they should have some authority over children’s personal choices, which is why parents and teenagers often battle in this domain, and parents often lose these battles
all human societies maintain social order through norms
moral, societal, and personal judgements are found across cultures
children’s ability to distinguish among the domains also appears across many cultures
moral judgments are largely universal
what issues fall within the societal domain or personal domain differ across cultures
ex. children in India beleive they have a clear moral obligation to attend to the needs of their parents, friends, and strangers while children in America appear to consider it a matter of personal judgment or a combination of moral and personal judgments
religious beliefs may affect what is considered a moral judgment or societal judgement
ex. for religious youth, the crucial factor for societal judgements is God’s word in the Bible
socioeconomic class can also influence the way children make such designations
ex. children of lower-income families are somewhat less likely than middle-class children to be stricter about moral and societal actions and less likely to view personal judgments as a matter of choice as those of low socioeconomic status place a greater emphasis on submission to authority and allow children less autonomy
conscience pushes us to behave in appropriate ways and makes us feel guilty if we don’t
conscience is an internal regulatory mechanism that increases the individual’s abilty to conform to standards of conduct accepted in their culture
restrains antisocial behaviour and destructive impulses & promotes compliance with rules and standards
can also promote prosocial behaviour by utilizing guilt when acting in less than acceptable ways
conscience is tied to cultural standards
it is suggested that humans may have an innate drive to prefer helping actions than hindering ones
conscience develops slowly over time and children’s growing understanding of others’ emotions and goals as well as their increasing capacity for empathic concern are likely contributors to the development of conscience
children are more likely to take on parents’ moral values if their parents use disciplinary practices low in power and high in reasoning
adoption of parents’ values is also facilitated by a secure, positive parent-child relationship that inclines children to be open to and eager to internalize parent’s values
children with different temperaments may develop a conscience in different ways
ex. for infants that are prone to fear, gentle discipline with reasoning and nonmaterial incentives for compliance develops conscience
gentle discipline arouses fearful children just enough that they remember what thier mother tells them
gentle discipline seems to be unrelated to the development of conscience in fearless young children because it does not arouse attention
fearless children appear motivated more to please mother than by a fear of her
the effects of parenting on children’s conscience can vary with the child’s genes because genes affect children’s temperaments
ex. relation between maternal responsiveness & child’s genotype for the serotonin transporter gene SLC6A4
early development of conscience contributes to whether children come to accept the moral values of their parents and society
the nature of early parent-child disciplinary interactions sets the stage for children’s subsequent moral development
the origins of prosocial behaviour are rooted in the capacity to feel empathy and sympathy
empathy is identifying the emotions of others and understanding that another person is feeling an emotion or is in some kind of need
sympathy is a feeling of concern for another in response to the other’s emotional state or condition
in order for children to express empathy or sympathy, they must be able to take the perspective of others, and they can begin to do this as early as 14 months
14 months - children become diestressed when seeing others in distress
18-25 months - toddlers sometimes share a personal object with an adult they have seen being harmed to comfort
2 years - more likely to comfort someone who is upset than become upset themselves, showing that they know who is upset
2-4 years, some types of prosocial behaviours increase while others decrease
cooperatoin is another form of prosocial behaviour that may be driven by sympathy and a child’s sense of fairness
child as young as 14 months of age were able to cooperate with another person to reach a mutually beneficial goal
chimpanzee’s interactions are characterized by competition rather than cooperation, hinting that cooperative prosocial behaviour may have evolved especially in humans
many have proposed that humans are biologically predisposed to be prosocial as collaboration in foraging for food and repelling enemies ensured survival
genetic factors contribute to individual differences in empathy, sympathy, and prosocial behaviour
the role of genetics in the children’s prosocial concerns for others and prosocial behaviour increases with age
genetics also affect empathy, sympathy and prosocial behaviour through temperament
children who tend to experience emotion without getting overwhelmed by it are especially likely to experience sympathy and act prosocially
children who are not responsive to others’ emotions may be unlikely to act prosocially
the primary environmental influence on children’s development of prosocial behaviour is socialization in the family. Parents socialize prosocial behaviour in children…
by modeling and teaching prosocial behaviour
by arranging opportunities for children to engage in prosocial behaviour
by disciplining their children and eliciting prosocial behaviour from them
(parents also communicate and reinforce cultural beliefs about the value of prosocial behaviour)
Modeling and the communication of values
children tend to imitate other people’s helping and sharing behaviour
children are especially likely to imitate the prosocial behaviour of adults they have a positive relationship
this explains why parents and children tend to have similar levels of prosocial behaviour, although heredity may also contribute
the values parents convey to children may influence whetehr children are prosocial and toward whom they are prosocial
sympathizing teaches children prosocial values
Opportunities for prosocial activities
providing children with opportunities to engage in helpful activities can increase their willingness to take on prosocial tasks at a later time
participation in prosocial activities may also give children and adolescents opportunities to take others’ perspectives, increase confidence that they are competent enough to assist others, and to experience emotional rewards for helping
forcing older adolescents into service activities can sometimes backfire and undermine their motivation to help
Discipline and parenting style
high levels of prosocial behaviour and sympathy in children tend to be associated with constructive and supportive parenting, including authoritative parenting
prosocial sympathetic children may also elicit more support from parents
a parenting style that involves physical punishment, threats, and an authoritarian approach tends to be associated with a lack of sympathy and prosocial behaviour in children and adolescents
the way parents try to elicit prosocial behaviour from children is also important
ex. if children are regulary punished for failing to engage in prosocial behaviour, they may start to believe the reason for helping others is only to avoid punishment
discipline that includes reasoning is particularly likely to foster children’s voluntary prosocial behaviour
this is because reasoning points out the consequences of the child’s behaviour for others, encourages perspective taking, and sympathy for others while providing guidelines children can refer to in future situations
the combination of parental warmth and certain parenting practices seems to be especially effective in fostering prosocial tendencies in children and adolescents
Peer influences
relationships with other children are key to the way children learn and practice moral principles like fairness, justice, reciprocity, conflict resolution, and not hurting or taking advantage of others
a study found that pairs that had the highest levels of moral reasoning were almost the most successful at resolving conflicts
Interventions
some school interventions have been effective at promoting prosocial behaviour in children, so environmental factors must contribute to prosocial development
school-based interventions are divided into 3 levels: primary prevention, secondary prevention, and tertiary intervention
primary prevention targets all individuals in a particular setting to prevent the occurence of a problematic behaviour or condition
secondary prevention helps individuals at risk for developing a problem or condition with the goal of preventing the problem or condition
tertiary intervention is a program designed to help individuals who already exhibit a problem or condition
this is in a pyramid structure, with primary prevention at the bottom (taking up most the space) and secondary, follow tertiary
antisocial behaviour is any behaviour described as disruptive, hostile, or aggressive that violates social norms and harms others
aggression is defined as any behaviour aimed at physically or emotionally harming others
Aggression emerges as early as before 12 months of age, and physical aggression starts at around 18 months and increases in frequency until about age 2 or 3
with the growth of language skills, physical aggression decreases in frequency, and verbal aggression increases
instrumental aggression is aggression motivated by the desire to obtain a concrete goal
ex. conflict over possessoins
preschool children sometimes use relational aggression, which is aggression intended to harm others by damaging peer relationships
ex. excluding peers from activities or social groups
whereas aggression in young children is usually instrumental, aggression is elementary school is often hostile due to the desire to hurt the other person or is motivated by defense of self-esteem
children who engage in physical aggressoin also tend to engage in relational aggression
the frequency of physical aggression decreases for most teenagers
there is an overall developmental trend towards less physical aggression, but serious acts of violence increase in mid-adolescence along with property offenses, and status offenses
male adolescents engage in much more violent behaviour than females
there is considerable consistency in individual differences in both girls’ and boys’ aggression across childhood and adolescence
many children who are aggressive from early lief have neurological deficits that underlie problems like hyperactivity and difficulty paying attention
these deficits can result in troubled relation that fuel the child’s aggressive, antisocial pattern of behaviour
those who have low impulse control and poor regulation of aggression continue to engage in troublesome behaviours and have some problems with their mental health and substance dependence until their mid 20s
biological factors contribute to individual differences in aggression, but their precise role is not very clear
twin studies suggest antisocial behaviour runs in families and is partially due to genetics
heredity appears to play a stronger role in aggression in early childhood and adulthood than in adolescence where environmental factors are a major contributor
heredity contributes to proactive and reactive aggression, but the influence of heredity is greater for proactive aggression
one genetically influenced contributor to aggression is difficult temperament
children who have problems with aggression and antisocial behaviour tend to exhibit a difficult temperament along with a lack of self-regulatory skills
they are also inclined toward aggression and criminal behaviour in late adolescence and violent crime in adulthood
some aggressive children tend to have callous personality traits without guilt, empathy, or sympathy for others
they after often charming but insincere and this combination is especially likely to predict antisocial behaviour, aggression, and criminal behaviour in adolescence
children’s aggressive behaviours are often in reaction to how they interpret social situations
they are more likely than nonaggressive children to assume hostile motives when the motive of the subject is unclear
ex. assuming a person spilling a drink on them is intentional, rather than accidental, and think they need to “get back” at them
they are also more likely to be hostile in social situations and try to intimidate or get back at a peer
most are more likely to describe their own aggressive behaviour as a natural reaction to the behaviour of others, but when it comes to their helping behaviours they don’t do this
ex. “he crashed his sled into me” when justifying their aggressive behaviour.
ex. when asked why a friend gave their friend a jacket, they say “he was cold without a jacket”, putting the focus on what their friend needed, but aggressive children do not do this
aggressive children are inclined to evaluate aggressive responses more favourably and prosocial responses less favourably than others
this is because aggressive children feel more confident of their ability to be aggressive physically and verbally and they expect their aggressive behaviour to result in favourable outcomes as well as reducing negative treatment
aggresive children are predisposed to aggressive behavioural choices, which in turn appears to increase their tendency to view aggressive behaviours positively, which increaes the level of future antisocial conduct
reactive aggresion is emotionally driven, antagonistic aggression sparked by one’s perception that other people’s motives are hostile
proactive aggression is unemotional aggression aimed at fulfilling a need or desire
children who experience harsh or low-quality parenting are at a greater risk of becoming aggressive or antisocial than others
Parental punitiveness
many children whose parents use harsh but non-abusive physical punishment are prone to problem behaviours in early years, aggression in childhood, and criminality in adolescence and adulthood
this is especially true when parents are cold and punitive in general and the child does not have an early secure attachment & difficult temperament and is chronically angry and unregulated
some researchers have argued that the relation between physical punishment and children’s antisocial behaviour varies across racial, ethnic and cultural groups
harsh or abusive punishment is associated with the development of antisocial tendencies.
very harsh physical discipline leads to social cognition associated with aggression
parents who use abusive punishment provide models of aggressive behaviour for children to imitate
children’s behvaiour and parent’s punitive discipline has a reciprocal relation
children who are high in antisocial behaviour and exhibit psychopathic traits tend to elicit harsh parenting which increases problem behaviour and so the cycle continues
some recent research suggests harsh physical punishment has a stronger effect on children’s behaviour problems than vice versa
ineffective discipline is often evident in the pattern of a troubled family interaction
ex. the aggression of children may be reinforced by parents who give into the demands/fit of temper, which results in parents and children behaving harshly with one another
the relation between punitive parenting and children’s aggression can have a genetic component
parents whose genes predispose them to aggressive or punitive parenting will pass those genes to their children which means this parenting can be linked to antisocial and aggressive behaviour in children through genes and a conflictual home environment (passive gene-environment correlation)
Poor parental monitoring
parental monitoring may be important as it reduces the likelihood that older children and adolescents will associate with deviant, antisocial peers
once adolescents begin engaging in unfavourable behaviours, they become harder to monitor, and parents of aggressive youth find that monitoring can lead to high conflict with children and are forced to back off
Parental conflict
children who are frequently exposed to verbal and physical violence between their parents tend to be more antisocial and aggressive than other children
one reason is that parents model aggressive behaviour for children and another is that children whos mothers are physically abused tend to believe violence is an acceptable and even natural part of family interactions
embattled spouses also tend to be less skilled and responsive as well as more hostile and controlling in their parenting, which can increase their children’s aggressive tendencies (cycle)
this happens even with an adopted child, so this cannot be solely because of genes
Socioeconomic status and children’s antisocial behaviour
children from low-income families tend to be more antisocial and aggressive than children from high or middle-income homes
this could be because of the greater number of stressors experienced by children in poor families, like family stress and neighbourhood violence
because of the stress they face, parents in poverty are more likely to be rejecting and low in warmth, use harsh discipline, and be lax in supervision/monitoring
children in low-income families tend to live in low-income neighbourhoods which have more violence and crime, and they also attend low-income schools which do not have the proper resources and also have high violence
these neighbourhoods lack appropriate mentors, job opportunities, and constructive activities that engage children and youth and lead them away from antisocial behaviour
aggressive children tend to socialize with other aggressive children and become more deliquent if their close friends are aggressive
members of the larger peer group with whom older children socialize with may influence aggression even more than close friends
it appears children’s susceptibility to peer pressure to become involved in antisocial behaviour increases in the elementary school yeras, peaks at about 8th to 9th grade, and declines after
peer approval of relational aggression increases in middle school, and students in peer groups that are supportive of relational aggression become increasingly aggressive
exception ex. mexican american immigrant youth who are more tied ot traditional values are less susceptible to peer pressure toward antisocial behaviour than those who are less traditional
it is often a combination of genetic and environmental factors that predict children’s antisocial, aggressive behaviour and that some children are more sensitive to the quality of parenting than others
children with certain gene variants related to serotonin or dopamine appear to be more responsive to their environment than children with different variants
gene variants can be related to higher risk for aggression in adverse situations like maltreatment and divorce but are not related to aggression in the absence of the adverse conditions
children with these problem behaviours can be treated with individual psychotherapy or a combination of psychotherapy and drug therapy
it is useful and even necessary to involve parents as interventions that teach parents how to manage their own behaviour when interacting with children can reduce their aggression and antisocial behaviour
community-based programs that aim to reduce antisocial behaviour by increasing positive behaviour exist, and they do this through an approach called positive youth development
schools can also be settings for this interventions
The Fast Track program is designed to promote understanding and communication of emotions, positive social behaviour, self-control, and social problem solving, and children with the most serious problems participated in an intensive intervention
positive youth development is an approach to youth intervention that focuses on developing and nurturing strengths and assets rather than on correcting weaknesses and deficits
it emphasizes competence, confidence, connection, character, caring, and compassion.
it utilizes service learning which is a strategy that integrates school-based instruction with community involvement in order to promote civic responsibility and enhance learning
participation in service learning can increase student’s empathy, awareness of larger social issues, ability to participate in a cooperative activity, and capacity for making responsible decisions.