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8 Things to Never Share With Anyone - New/Acquaintances/Regular Ppl

  • Ways you’re getting your current shit together - Do not tell people the current realizations you’re going through or getting your shit together

    • “I’m taking a break from my ex.”

    • “I’m taking my time to recover from my depression.”

  • Never tell people your financial situation

  • My past - if you don’t trust the person you’re telling this to, then the information isn’t relevant

    • This can be with new people - they don’t have to know past struggles or strifes

  • Future endeavors - unless it’s come to the point in which you can’t hide what you’re planning, don’t share.

    • Like a business plan - you don’t even have the blueprints yet, and you’re not even sure it’s gonna happen

  • Good deeds - there’s a level of inauthenticity when you go about talking of your good deeds. Good people just do them, not show them off.

  • Failures - we tend to maximize our own failures, and it creates a bad image. We don’t look confident or withstanding

  • Don’t tell people how others have done you wrong (regular day-to-day ppl) - don’t drag someone’s name in the mud just to feel better about yourself. You can still succeed without them, and not mentioning them is taking them away from your life.

  • Don’t tell people what you’re looking for (like in dating) - That way, people don’t mask themselves to fit that ideal

    • “I know what I want when I see it.”