abnormal outside of what would be considered as normal; unusual
acting-out when an internal and ambiguous wish or unavailable fear is managed by converting it into an external action
anxiety an excess of being nervous, or jumpy, or frightened
change blindness or perceptual occlusion the difficulty associated with learning to see (objects, experiences, ideas, concepts)
compassionate curiosity a psychological attitude that invites us to swallow others’ truths rather than make meaning ourselves; to notice what is in our bowl so that we make room for the gifts of others
compulsions what one must do in order to quiet obsessive thoughts
confirmation bias the tendency to take in information from the world in a way that supports our existing ideas about it; to deflect or distort or deny information from the world that threatens our existing ideas of it
correlational fallacy making the assumption that because two things happen together, that one is causing the other
description a theory function where we start to speak our experience in psychological terms
determinism refers to a cause that we can seek to know, observe, and describe with scientific compassionate curiosity
explanation a theory function that involves making careful inferences or guesses about causes
five functions of theory observe, describe, explain, predict, intervene
“hmmm… It’s complicated” a doorway into a room where new, kind, clear psychological description is starting to happen
imagine taking the time to form a mental image of something
intervention a theory function that uses descriptions, explanation, and predictions in the interest of understanding suffering so that we may be more careful and kind
lookism a confirmation bias and perceptual occlusion in which we privilege appearance over being; make judgments based on appearance
normal 1) what we see when we watch and count 2) Does not have anything to do with what is normal for you, but rather normal for us
observation a theory function that sensitizes and disciplines us to a careful, compassionately curious noticing of what might matter through seeing, touching, smelling, hearing, feeling, and even imagining our experience
obsessions persistent and unwelcome thoughts
prediction a theory function that allows us to involve ourselves with problems before they become problems
prophylaxis to prevent what might happen if we were not to predict and try to prevent it from occurring
science (scientific) a system of watching our experience in new, kind, clear, and careful ways
structure & mechanism a psychological bridge between what is observable (structure) and what can be seen or imagined (mechanism); A part to psychological explanation
theory a set of provisional, humble, testable, best guesses about how the world works