how individuals think, feel, and behave in social context
explores group memberships, social influences, attitudes, prejudice, persuasion, and interpersonal relationships
integrates scientific research, psychological theory, and empirical methods to understand how people are influenced by, and influence, the social world
Understanding human behaviour
how social factors (family, peers, culture) shape actions and beliefs
Applications in everyday life
improving communication, negotiation, and conflict resolution
designing effective health or public policy campaigns
crafting persuasive marketing messages
Broader impact
societal issues like prejudice, inequality, and group tensions
foster cooperation and prosocial behaviours in communities or workplaces
Understand why people do what they do in social contexts and to use that understanding to create positive changes at the individual, group, or social level
mental and emotional evaluations about objects or behaviours fundamentally shape how we perceive and respond to the world
if attitudes underlie behaviour, then by understanding attitudes, we might be able to predict future behaviour, change behaviour
Three interconnection components
often consistent
affect = excited about eco-friendly innovations
cognition = believes electric cars reduce emissions and save money long term
behaviour = more than likely to test drive or purchase an electric car
but can be inconsistent
affect = feel energised and proud when you run
cognition = know running helps reduce stress and improve health
behaviour = too tired to go for a run
understanding attitudes requires assessing each component
predicting behaviour - if beliefs and feelings are strongly positive, people are more likely to perform a behaviour consistent with those positive evaluations
behaviour chance — interventions need to target one or more components. for instance, a persuasive message might change beliefs, hoping it trickles down to feelings and behaviour
The emotional reactions or feelings we have toward an object, person, or idea
Feeling happy or excited when you watch a Bond film
Shapes Beliefs
the thoughts, beliefs, or knowledge we hold about the object, person, or issue
Believing that Bond films are entertaining because of their action and intrigue
Influences Behaviour, reinforces feelings
the predisposition to act or behave in a certain way toward the object or issue
choosing to buy tickets for a new Bond movie the moment it’s out
Reinforces Beliefs and Feelings
broad, abstract ideals or principles that individuals consider important in life (honesty, achievement, freedom)
general and enduring, guiding our sense of what is most important or worthy in a wide variety of situations
attitudes are directed at specific objects, people, or behaviours
value = i value equality
attitude = i strong support equal pay legislation
verbal or written expressions of our attitudes — what we say we believe or feel about a topic
attitude is an internal evaluation that can remain unspoken
sometimes opinions do not match the speaker’s true attitudes
opinion = i love classical music
attitude = internally, you find classical music relaxing and pleasing
schemas are cognitive frameworks that help us organised and interpret information — tell us what something typically is or does
descriptive knowledge or mental blueprints for how events or categories operate
attitudes, by definition, include an evaluation—positive, negative, or ambivalent
schema = knowing that beyonce is a signer, dancer, public figure
attitude = feeling positively about beyonce and wanting to buy tickets to her concert
LaPiere travelled across the US with a young chinese couple in the 1930s when anti-chinese sentiments were high. they visited 251 hotels and restaurants, then 6 months later wrote to the same establishments to ask if they would serve chinese guests. All but 1 served them, where as only 1 wrote but that they would serve them (out of 128 responses).
Wicker (1969) found overall weak correlations between attitudes and behaviours in many studies, suggesting “attitudes do not predict behaviour well” — but there are methodological flaws such as people are different and people measure different things
Social norms — even if you have a strong attitude about something, the desire to fit in or avoid punishment can override it
situational constraints — resources & opportunities and time & convenience
strength of the attitude — attitudes that are strongly held, personally relevant, or accessible in memory tend to predict behaviour more reliably
an attitude is more likely to predict behaviour if both are measured at the same level of specificity
if you want to predict whether someone will recycle plastic bottles at home for the next two weeks, measure their attitude specifically toward recycling plastic bottles at home for two weeks, not their general attitude/value towards saving the environment.
four components to align
action — the specific behaviour (to recycle)
target — the object or focus of the behaviour (plastic bottles)
context — where the behaviour occurs (your home)
time — when the behaviour occurs (over the next two weeks)
A persuasive message must clear multiple hurdles before it can change behaviour
Exposure = individual must notice/attend to the message
comprehension = they must understand what is being communicated
yielding = they must accept or agree with the message (attitude change)
retention = the changed attitude must be remembered over time
action = the individual must actually act in line with the new attitude
If any step fails, the behaviour wont change
Strongest predictor of behaviour is intention to behave
Intention = conscious plan or decision to/to not engage in a specific behaviour
Attitude influences behaviour indirectly by influencing intention
But also subjective norm influences intention
Attitude
overall positive or negative evaluation of performing the behaviour
determined by behavioural beliefs and outcome evaluations
Subjective Norm
perceived social pressure to/to not perform the behaviour
influenced by normative beliefs and motivation to comply
Extends the theory of reasoned action
adds perceived behavioural control
how much control (perceived and actual) a person thinks they have over performing a behaviour
if you believe you can do something, you’re more than likely to form a strong intention to do it
Ask them (self report)
willingness to accurately disclose = social desirability
ability to accurately disclose = lack of introspective insight
awareness = unconscious attitudes/beliefs
Watch what they do (behaviour)
willingness to accurately disclose — social desirability
difficult to monitor and interpret
Reaction-time based measure designed to detect implicit attitude — automatic or unconscious evaluations — that people might be unaware of or be unwilling to reveal in explicit self reports
Present stimuli and have participants categorise them as fast and accurately as possible
two stimuli, two levels each
Shortcomings
A strong implicit bias does not necessarily match a person’s stated beliefs or how they act
influenced by cultural norms, media exposure, or recent experiences
IAT scores can fluctuate over time (Test-Retest Reliability)
extent to which IAT results predict real-world behaviors is debated (Predictive Validity)
Example – gender/career IAT
Present 1 word at a time – the word could be a name or an object
The name could be male or female and the object could be something you would use at home or at work
If the word is male OR something you use at work – press the LEFT button as fast as possible
If the word is female OR something you use at home – press the LEFT button as fast as possible
Now reverse the pairings
If the word is female OR something you use at work – press the LEFT button as fast as possible
If the word is male OR something you use at home – press the LEFT button as fast as possible
Compare RTs with for the different pairings
Faster when things are ‘congruent’ – implicitly associated
Knowing the factors that are associated with prejudice would enable us to work out a way to reduce prejudice in our society
Perry and colleagues’ 2012 research shows (Perry, Pullen & Oser, 2012), people living with chronic stress from their experience of sexism and racism have been found to be more at risk of taking their own lives.
Beliefs, often about a group, and most commonly represented in the form of a stereotype
Stereotype = simplified idea of what a group of people are like, often a gross exaggeration of something
Hard to avoid stereotyping
In the context of grouping things into schemas to process information, our ability to stereotype people, based on the typical characteristics that are associated with different groups of people, can be very helpful when it comes to getting through our day
However, stereotyping becomes dysfunctional when our initial judgement about a group is negative––when our initial judgement about a group is based on something other than what is actually true in reality.
Negative feelings about another group, whether dislike, resentment, or disgust
Discrimination; people who are the target of prejudice are being denied opportunities
LeVine & Campbell (1972)
Suggests that at their heart, the stereotypes are somewhat true and based on reality
Theres a seed of truth, but the stereotype is a great exaggeration of that seed
Usually must be evidence based however
I’m sure you can think of somebody who you think is arrogant. If you decide that this person thinks they’re better than you, no matter what the actual behaviour of that person, you are likely to still perceive this person as arrogant. You start to see evidence for your assumption.
Sometimes people violate the stereotype, but that doesn’t remove them from the stereotype—they instead go into a subtype of it
Obviously, media influence can be explicit, but sometimes it influences stereotypes in subtle ways too.
The explicit ways media can influence stereotypes is how they choose to frame ambiguous behaviour.
Sometimes the media portrays stereotyping in really subtle ways. This is called “face-ism.”
Face-ism refers to the difference in the way men and women are portrayed in photographs.
In the media, photographs of women tend to focus on their body, whereas photographs of men tend to focus on their face (Archer, Iritani, Kimes, Barrios, 1983).
Photographs of men tend to be closely cropped to head and shoulder, signalling ambition, intelligence, and social prominence. Showing more of a woman’s body subtly indicates they’re valued more for the way they look than for their intelligence.
Gaertner & Dovidio in 1986, argued in their theory of aversive racism that most people are motivated to maintain a non-prejudiced self-image––they find racial prejudice aversive, and endorse fair treatment of all groups, and fear appearing prejudiced.
However, many of these people do subconsciously harbour negative feelings toward those from minority groups. And discrimination leaks out in situations where behaviour can be justified as non-prejudiced
One prevailing stereotype of the Black communities in Australia, the USA and Europe is that they are relatively aggressive and inclined to criminal behaviour. When people view others through the lens of the stereotype, neutral and unthreatening behaviour can be re-interpreted as sinister and aggressive.
One of the stereotypes of minorities is that they like to speak up about experiencing discrimination. The stereotype is that minorities who attribute failures due to discrimination are less likeable than those who “take it on the chin”.
Stereotype threat is when people feel that they are at risk of conforming to stereotypes about their social group.
If those belonging to negatively stereotyped groups are confronted with stereotypes associated with their group, it’s likely that they will become anxious about what they’re doing, which then may affect their ability to perform well in a task.
So, depending on what people think the outcome is going to be, they create a reality through their performance.
Self-fulfilling prophecies refer to times when our expectations of a person changes the way we interact with them, which then changes their behaviour in line with our expectations.
Any behaviour intended to harm another individual — physical and psychological aggression
Direct/physical (violence assault)
Verbal (threats, insults)
Relational/indirect (gossip, exclusion, cyberbullying)
Multifaceted causes
Biological factors (genetics, brain chemistry)
Psychological factors (personality, exposure to violence)
Environmental factors (alcohol, group dynamics)
Twin studies — identical twins often show more similarity in aggression levels than fraternal twins, implying a genetic component
Testosterone — often associated with aggression but complex-testosterone can amplify existing social motivations rather than directly ‘cause’ aggression in isolation
Serotonin—low levels linked with impulsive aggression-reduced capacity for emotional regulation and impulse control
Amygdala — over activation or hyper-responsiveness can contribute to heightened aggression
Prefrontal cortex — reduced activity or damage can impair decision making, self-control, and emotional regulation
Certain mental health issues or personality disorders might amplify the effects of genetic or brain chemistry vulnerabilities
While biology can prime someone for more intense reactions, environmental and social triggers like exposure to violence or a lack of prosocial role models often determine how (or whether) these biological predisposition manifest
Real-world aggression typically reflects both biological predispositions and environmental influences (stressful family life, media violence, social rejection)
Trait hostility/Irritability — higher baseline of anger or irritability — interpret ambiguous cues as hostile
Impulsivity and poor self-control — act on anger before considering consequences — reactive (heat-of-the-moment) aggression
Narcissism and fragile self-esteem — react if inflated self-image is threatened — ‘narcissistic rage’
Psychopathy — less empathy and remorse — planned, instrumental aggression
Early childhood violence — children who witness or experience violence at home (harsh physical discipline, domestic violence) can learn that aggression is appropriate conflict-solving methid
Violent media — may increase aggression through desensitisation, normative beliefs, imitation
Community and Cultural — living in a high-violence neighbourhood or participating in groups that glorify aggression can reinforce ideas that aggression is an effective means of resolving conflict
Personality traits like high hostility, impulsivity, or low empathy can incline someone toward aggression but do not make aggression inevitable
Exposure to violence through family, peers, or media can reinforce or normalise aggressive behaviour, especially when pro-social alternatives are not modeled
A person’s environment and personal thought processes (hostile attribution bias) often interact with inherited or stable traits to shape how aggression manifests
Steele & Joseph (1990) — study on influence of alcohol
Capacity to think about longer-term or abstract consequences while focusing on immediate cues
Alcohol condition and a sober/control condition — measured attentional focus, impulsivity, and decision-making
Scenarios or tasks designed to induce a conflict between an immediate urger (aggression, sexual arousal, or risk-tasking) and long-term considerations (moral constraints, social norms, personal values)
People under the influence of alcohol showed greater sensitivity to cues that were immediately in front of them—like insults or provocations—while discounting the future repercussions or social risks
Often resulted in increased impulsive or aggression behaviour because participants were less likely to inhibit a strong initial impulse
Alcohol-induced aggression not simply from drunken ‘loss of control’
Cognitive narrowing that fails to integrate important inhibitory cues
Amplifies immediate motivations (anger, lust, risk-taking)
Shove aside the bigger-picture thoughts (consequences, moral judgments)
In a crowd, personal identity can become submerged under a collective identity, often loosening moral judgment
Emotions and behaviours spread more easily in groups as we look to others for cues on how to act in ambiguous or tense situations
Each individual feels less personally accountable
The presence of a charismatic leader or strong group identity can amplify
Behaviours that harm another person’s mental or emotional well-being rather than inflicting physical injury
Verbal abuse — insults, put-down, threats, name-calling
Relational (indirect) aggression — spreading rumours, gossiping, silent treatment, turning peers or coworkers against someone
Cyberbullying — using digital platforms (social media, messaging apps) to harass, threaten or humiliate
Individuals or groups purposely ignore or exclude someone from social interactions
Humans evolved to be highly sensitive to social rejection — negative experiences can be suprisingly high, even if its from strangers or brief encounters
Anxiety, reduced mood, frustration, depression, loneliness, retaliatory aggression
Developing empathy — perspective-taking, emotional literacy, modelling behaviour
Improving communication skills — active listening, conflict resolution, anger management
Environments that reduce aggression triggers — physical space, design, rules and norms, positive social climate, lower alcohol use
Voluntary action intended to benefit or help another person or group
sharing resources
offering emotional support
volunteering
stepping in to assist someone in distress
Prosocial behaviour is any voluntary act performed to benefit another, influenced by multiple factors—evolutionary, psychological, cultural.
Motivations range from self-serving (social exchange, mood management) to other-oriented (empathy-altruism).
Situational influences (time pressure, presence of others, clarity) and personal factors (empathy, mood, personality) critically determine whether someone steps in to help.
Fostering helping behaviours involves education, modelling, clear norms, and supportive environments that make acting prosocially easier and more rewarding.
Evolution — help relatives because of shared genes and kin selection
Reciprocal Altruism — non-relatives might return the favour in the future
Person rewards — feeling good, social approval, reduced guilt
Empathy-Altruism hypothesis — feel empathy we may help purely out of genuine concern
Negative-State relief model — alleviate own unpleasant emotional states (guilt, sadness) triggered by seeing someone in need
Time pressures — shows that people in a hurry are significantly less likely to help, even if they otherwise consider themselves compassionate
Clarity of the situation — people are more likely to help if they clearly recognise a situation as urgent or an actual emergency
Attraction, similarity, and relationship — we are more inclined to help people whom we perceive as similar to us, or those we like. Strong personal relationships (friends, family) typically elicit more helping
Failure of prosocial behaviour due to groups
Diffusion of Responsibility — in a crowd, each person assumes someone else will (or should) act, leading everyone to do nothing
Pluralistic ignorance — if no one else seems alarmed, individuals may conclude that ‘this might not be a real emergency’, suppressing their own inclination to help
Evaluation Apprehension — fear of acting inappropriately or being judged if it turns out the situation isn’t truly serious
Knowing about this makes you less likely to do it
Modeling and Observation
People, especially children, who observe others helping are more than likely to help
Public recognition of altruistic acts can reinforce norms that helping is valued
Social norms campaigns
reminding people of strong social norms or highlighting real examples of community kindness can galvanise prosocial behaviour
Education and Awareness
Teaching empathy, emotional regulation, and conflict resolution skills can foster a sense of responsibility to help others
Workships and training (first aid, bystander intervention programs) improve confidence and clarify how to help effectively
Reducing Ambiguity
Clear signage (’if you see harassment, speak up’) or structured volunteer opportunities can lower the uncertainty barrier and encourage action
Impressions are important, they help people navigate social settings & evaluate people who communicate with or to them
Anderson (1965) main proponent
Impressions were formed on the basis of the mechanical combination of information that we know about a person
Three ways information could be combined:
summative model → impression formed by adding up reactions or likability ratings
averaging model → impression formed by averaging likability ratings, sum of ratings divided by number of ratings
weighted averaging model → each attribute a person possesses is weighted on how important, then average it all
Weighted averaging way of forming impressions was found to be the best match, but it doesn’t necessarily tell us about the process they use to arrive at those impressions
Based on Gestalt principles = the idea that the whole isgreater than just the sum of the parts
people combine information they receive about someone into an overall impression that is quite different from the simple sum of reactions to individual items of information
Giving meaning to the other traits that are presented — peripheral traits
Impressions were based on an emergent pattern that depends on the total context of the information you have access to
Schemas are cognitive structures that represent our knowledge about a concept or type of stimulus, formed on the basis of past experience and theories for why things are the way they are
Social categories used to form impressions depending on the target
A stereotype is just a schema associated with a social category
Schemas represent what we believe to be characteristics that go together to form a certain type of personality
Self schemas tend to be more complex and include information about what we would like to become in the future
Social judgements are made by people to the judgements that you would expect from a rational model of inference
A rational model of inference would predict that we systematically combine the information that we have access to when arriving at social judgement
Availability Heuristic
People judge an event’s frequency by the ease with which they can bring examples of the event to mind
Estimate the likelihood of an event’s occurrence based on how easily we can think of examples of that event
Representative Heuristic
People often try to categorise each other into social groups to help us make sense of the social world
Representative Heuristic helps us estimate the likelihood that somebody belongs to a group by comparing the features of that person to the prototype for that group
We use it to represent what people from the category is like
The way we perceive the social world is motivated by the ability to predict and control the social environment
Attribution is inferring the cause of the behaviour
A person attribution is when we attribute the cause of the behaviour to the person performing the behaviour — we would make this when there is information about a low level of consensus in performing the behaviour
According to Heider, people try to attribute a behaviour to a cause that is either external or internal to the actor
An external cause could be a stimuli that was in the environment, or situational causes according to Heider. We learn the sorts of behaviours that most people perform in different situations
An internal attribution is when a behaviour is different from what is expected in a scheme, or dispositional factors according to Heider.
Covariation principle = we attribute a behaviour to the cause with which it co-varies over time
Consensus information = whether other people perform the same behaviour or not
Distinctiveness information = whether the behaviour is only performed towards this particular target or person, or whether its performed towards other targets as well
Consistency Information = whether the behaviour is performed all the time or not
Situational Attribution = behaviour is enacted towards this target but not other targets. made when that behaviour is due to something in the context or situation when there’s low consistency in performing the behaviour
Systematic biases
Fundamental attribution errors (Ross 1977) = tendency to attribute another person’s behaviour to his or her own dispositional qualities, rather than to the situation that the behaviour is performed in
Also known as correspondence bias (Gilbert & Malone, 1995; Jones, 1976) = Not very fundamental, related to the culture we grow up in as there is some evidence that it is more prominent in individualistic compared to collectivist cultures
Actor-observer bias = describes the difference in how we think about our own behaviours compared to the behaviour of others
Jones and Nisbett (1971) hypothesised that we tend to attribute our own behaviours to external factors and others’ behaviours to internal causes
Different from the fundamental bias as it is about what people see as the cause of their own versus others’ behaviour (whereas fundamental explains how people infer dispositional attributions from the behaviour of others)
Self-serving bias = tendency to attribute success to stable, internal factors and failures to temporary, external factors. serves two purposes
self-presentation effect = self-serving attributions to make us look better to other people. biases are present when people make their attributions in private and so can’t be trying to impress anyone else
The process of influencing people’s attitudes, beliefs, or behaviours through communication
Used in various contexts — advertising, politics, personal relationships, social movements
Can be intentional (adverts) or unintentional (peer pressure)
Revolves around ‘how can you get people to do things?’
Compliance — changing behaviour in response to a request, without necessarily changing attitudes
Understanding persuasion empowers individuals to be more effective communications and more discerning consumers of information
Defensive capability — recognise and resist unwanted or manipulative attempts, crucial for navigating a world full of advertising, propaganda, and social pressures.
Positive uses — encouraging healthy behaviour, promoting social change, enhancing education and training, strengthen relationships and resolve conflicts, ability to persuade effectively is a valuable skill in professional and personal contexts
Persuasion | Compliance | Obedience | |
---|---|---|---|
Definition | Changing attitudes or beliefs in response to a message | Changing behavior in response to a request | Changing behavior in response to a command |
Source of Influence | Communicator (e.g., advertiser, speaker, media) | Peer or someone without formal power | Authority figure with perceived power |
Voluntariness | Voluntary and internally motivated | Voluntary, but influenced by social pressure | Perceived as obligatory or required |
Involves Attitude Change? | Yes – attitude or belief change is central | Not necessarily – behavior may change without beliefs | Rarely – behavior change often without agreement |
Typical Techniques | Logical arguments, emotional appeals, credibility | Reciprocity, liking, social proof, scarcity (Cialdini) | Commands, orders, direct instruction (Milgram) |
Example | You buy a product after seeing a compelling ad | You donate after a friend asks you | You follow a boss’s or police officer’s command |
Psychological Focus | Communication, attitude change, motivation | Social norms, heuristics, interpersonal pressure | Power, authority, hierarchy, obedience to rules |
What must happen for persuasion to work
What does a message delivery need to look like — process model
For a message to change someone’s behaviour, it has to pass through a series of stages
Presentation → attention → comprehension → yielding → retention → behaviour
Useful for designing public campaigns, educational materials
Step by step blueprint allowing strategic message planning and systematic troubleshooting — practical
What you think about the message matters most
Instead of focusing on message delivery, look at what’s happening inside the mind of the person receiving the message
When we hear a persuasive message, we generate cognitive responses (supportive or counter-arguments)
These thoughts determine whether persuasion succeeds or fails
It’s not just what’s said—it’s what we think about what’s said
Useful for understanding resistance, designing persuasive techniques
Two routes—deep vs superficial
Beyond just considering internal thoughts, look at the depth of thinking or processing of the messages
2 main routes — dual process
central routes — deep thinking, logic, evidence
peripheral route — surface cues like attractiveness, repetition, or slogans
Useful for marketing, health campaigns, attitude change
Robert Cialdini (2007)
If people’s livelihoods depended on getting others to say ‘yes’, then the techniques they used must be highly refined and effective
Natural selection of influence
some professions operate under competitive pressure
only most effective persuasion strategies survive over time
observing to identify the psychological rules that make people comply
three years working undercover as salespeple, fundraisers, markerters, etc
Explaining how people are persuaded to comply without any deep processing
Grounded in real-life compliance tactics
automatic, fast, low-effort influences on behaviour
Focus on social norms, heuristics, and automatic triggers of compliance
Shifts ‘how to change attitudes’ to ‘how to nudge people to say yes’
Behaviour change can occur without attitude change
we feel obligation to return favours
powerful social norm
most foundational of the 6 in terms of our social and evolutionary psychology
deeply ingrained, culturally universal, and governs much of our interpersonal, economic, and political behaviour
builds trust, cooperation, and social stability
encourages mutual aid without needing simultaneous exchange
violation leads to shame, guilt, or social punishment
Regan (1971) showed that even small, unsolicited favours can dramatically increase compliance. Participants were more likely to buy raffle tickets from someone who had earlier given them a soft drink, even if they didn’t like that person
Berry and Kanouse (1987) mailed physicians a long questionnaire with either $20 cheque as an upfront gift or a $20 cheque on completion. gift - 78%, completion - 66%
Free samples, free trials, and small gifts are designed to trigger a feeling of obligation
Can’t give a gift, give a concession — door in the face technique, ask for something crazy then fallback to something much more reasonable
Fake concession — “let me check with my manager… okay, just for you..”
Relationships — “they were there for me — i’ll be there for them”
Con artists — small favours to gain trust and leverage
we want to act in ways that are consistent with our past behaviour or commitments
desire to be consistent with our past behaviours and commitments
drive to behave in ways that are aligned with our prior beliefs, values, or actions
self-perception — we want to be seen (and see ourselves) as reliable, rational, and principled; stable
Consistency is a shortcut for decision-making — it reduces uncertainity and conserves mental effort
Once we’ve made a decision, we’re more likely to stick with it, even if new reasons arise not to
Freedman and Fraser (1966) contacted participants by phone — “would you be willing to answer a short phone, survey about household products?” Small request — 2 mins, mininal effort, low cost — nearly everybody said yes. Few days later “would you allow a team of researchers to come to your home and inspect your cleaning products, detergent, and soap cabinets for a 2-hour interview?” Big request. Compliance with the big request more than double when preceded by the small request
Foot in the door technique — get a small non-committal agreement - “join a mailing list” then more likely to agree to a bigger ask later (buy the product, sign up for a subscription)
Low-balling — you agree to deal based on attractive terms. Later, the terms change (hidden fees appear), but you still go ahead because you’ve already committed
Bait and switch — you’re lured in with a great deal, but it’s unavailable when you arrive. You’re offered a worse alternative, but you take it to stay consistent with your intention to buy.
we look to what others are doing when unsure
see persuasion 2
we are more likely to say yes to people we like
see persuasion 2
We value things more when they seem limited or rare
see persuasion 2
we tend to obey those we see as knowledgable or in charge
see persuasion 2
People prefer to use objective cues to make evaluations of themselves, but in cases where that is impossible, they rely on a social comparison instead by looking at what those similar to them are thinking and doing.
Third of six influence principles
More willing to comply with a request for behaviour if it is consistent with what others are thinking or doing
Asks for a request only after a target person has been shown a list of others who have already agreed to the same request
Pressures of conformity — tend to go along with what other people are doing either because we are not sure what the appropriate behaviour is or because we don’t want to stand out from the group
Happens when people give in to real or imagined social pressure
Asch’s 1995 study — 7-9 people and only one was unaware of the task (not a confederate) and the confederates gave the wrong answer for 12 out of 18 matches in earshot of the real participant, and they went along with the group
Informational influence; thought themselves to be wrong so they went along with the group.
Done to avoid being wrong, ridiculed, or socially sanctioned
Normative influence
Pressure of conformity influences some cultures more than others
North American and Western European participants in a study conformed less than those from Eastern cultures
Friendships and interpersonal liking can be a strong influence on how much one can be persuaded
People are more willing to comply with requests of friends or other well liked individuals
Physical attractiveness creates liking — people generally see attractive people as more talented, kind, honest, and intelligent. They are also more persuasive at changing attitudes and getting agreement.
Similarity between oneself and others creates liking — people like those who are similar to them
Scarcity of something, or how available it is, influences how much someone wants it
Can influence preferences or persuade someone because they can make one think that others value a particular product and that it is in high demand
Opportunities seem more valuable to use when they are less available
things that are difficult to get are typically better than things that are easier to get
psychological reactance — as things become less available, people lose freedoms, and people don’t like this, causing them to react against the interference by trying to possess the thing even more
People are more likely to follow the commands of people in more power and even in uniforms/suits
Following authority isn’t a bad thing, but it is when someone follows the commands of an authority figure without thinking, and one might behave inappropriately or hurt someone else with no meaning to
Stanley Milligram (1963)
Obedience — the study centered around two people in a lab where one was a learner (confederate) and the other was the teacher. When the learner got something wrong, the teacher had to give them an electric shock (15-415 volts). The shocks weren’t real, but the teacher didn’t know that, and most went to the extreme volts, some even all the way
Milligram observed how most, if not all, the participants when giving the shocks became upset and distressed. They felt guilt, but they were polite and found it hard to say no to an authority figure in the white lab coat.
The power of commitment — humans find it hard to draw the line when they are committed to something, especially if is not ‘their something’. The belief that the authority figure would take responsibility for actions is a large factor in this. ‘It’s not up to me, it’s not up to my morals, I’m just following orders’.
If the consequences of your actions are in your face and you can see the pain, you’re less likely to follow orders.
Any form of communication that doe not use words
Body language — gestures, posture, facial expressions
Vocal cues — tone, pitch, volume
Interaction — touch, eye contact, interpersonal distance
Dress — clothing, general-look
Intentional and unintentional, conveying messages regardless of the sender’s intent
Enhances and complicates our verbal messages
conveys emotions or intentions powerfully and convincingly
can reveal unspoken emotions (joy, boredom, anger)
can reveal unspoken intentions (competition, flirtation, or fear)
plays a significant role in miscommunication as interpretations can be highly subjective
93% of communication is nonverbal (Mehrabian, 1972)
very artificial set up
Trimboli & walker (1987) — when participants didn’t know an experiement was about nonverbal signals - much lower
Argyle (1988), have put the estimate at around 80%
Burgoon, Guerrero, and Floyd (2016) suggest 60-66% might be more realistic
60—66% of communication is nonverbal
context matters - the amount we rely on nonverbal cues varies by situation
sometimes the words are everything
sometimes we barely hear the words and it’s all nonverbal
informational or task-focused contexts — more about the words
lecture — exact content is what matters
nonverbals — hand waving, speech variation — keep engagement and highlight the verbal content
high emotional or relational context — more about the nonverbals
is my teenager mad at me?
facial expression, stance, tone of voice, eye contact tell me everything
Very young children rely heavily on the literal meaning of words
still developing the ability to interpret tone, facial cues, or sarcasm
as grow become more skilled at catching nonverbal ‘undercurrents’
10-year-old might already detect sarcasm or sense parental frustration even if the parent says ‘i’m not mad’
Some cultures prioritise modesty and politeness in public, encouraging people to minimise negative expressions like anger or disgust in group settings
Others are more comfortable with visible emotion, allowing raised voices or expressive gestures as a normal part of conversation
When cultures with differing norms mix, each side may over-or-under-interpret the other’s signals if they don’t realise how contextually driven those gestures and expressions are
Hand and arm movements that convey messages (sometimes head)
Among the most noticeable elements of nonverbal communication
Powerful way to enhance communication, express emotions, regulate interactions, substitute speech
Emblems, illustrators, regulators, adaptors
Cultural variations
Context — why and when a gesture is used can determine whether it’s received as friendly, neutral, or hostile
Single gesture can be ambiguous — look for clusters of signals
Public speaking — watch for unintended gestures and plan purposeful ones
Have a direct verbal translation (in a particular culture) and can be used independently of speech
Waving ‘hello’ and ‘goodbye’ in many western cultures
thumbs-up to indicate approval
the ok circle with thumb and index finger
closet gestures to words — clear and standardised meaning
Accompany speech to illustrate or emphasise what is being said
Don’t have an independent meaning if you mute the sound
help us visualise or feel the emotional content
hand movements to show the size or shape of an object (it was this big)
The finger stab or pointed finger to convey emphasis or aggression
the hand purse (fingers pinched, palm up) to highlight an important point
Frick-horbury & guttentag (1988) — how gestures facilitate speech production and fluency
Participants were typically asked to describe or recall certain items or narratives
In one condition, allowed to gesture freely while speaking
In the other, gestures were restricted
Participants with unrestricted hand gestures retrieved and subsequently recalled significantly more words than participants whose hands were restricted
Subtle gestures that help guide the flow of conversations — like a nonverbal traffic signal
Raising a hand slightly to indicate you want to speak in a group discussion
Giving a small head nod to show you’re listening and encourage the speaker to continue
Putting a hand up (palm out) to indicate hold on or a desire for the other person to pause
maintain conversational turn-taking and smooth out social interactions
Unconscious or semi-conscious gestures that serve a personal need or help manage emotions
Fidgeting with a pen, hair-twisting, tapping a foot
self soothing gestures
unintentional — reflect internal states like nervousness, boredom, or impatience — broadcasts how we really feel
Darwin (1872) — facial expressions of emotions are biologically innate and evolutionarily adaptive
facial expressions are often the first thing we notice when we look at someone
human face can shift expressions in fractions of a second, allowing us to rapidly communicate (and perceive) emotions
emotional billboard — face frequently broadcasts our internal states: joy, anger, sadness, surprise
Ekman identified six basic emotions with distinct facial expressions: happiness, sadness, surprise, fear, disgust and anger
basic emotions are generally recognised across cultures
hardwired but cultural norms modulate display — when, where, and how strongly to show them
experiment — participants from japan were as likely as americans to display disgust or anger when alone, but suppressed these emotions in the presence of an experimenter
Key cues = upturned mouth (smile), crinkling around the eyes
Possible functions = social bonding, signalling friendliness, and positive intent
Masking & Fakery = people often fake smiles to appear polite, genuine smiles involved both the mouth and the eye region more intensely
Key cues = drooping eyelids, inner corners of the eyebrows raised, slight downturn of the lips
Why it’s subtle = adults rarely display downturned mouths; sadness is often read more from the eyes and brow
Evolutionary angle = signalling a need for social support; helps garner empathy or assistance from others
Key cues = raised eyebrows, mouth open in an ‘o’ shape, eyes wide
Duration = often a very quick expression that morphs into something else (like relief or fear)
Overlap with fear = the immediate wide-eyes are similar; context often clarifies which emotion is being shown
Key cues = wide eyes, raised brows, mouth partly open — similar to surprise but usually with more tension in the mouth around the eyes
Evolutionary function = readiness for fight-or-flight, more visual input, quick intake of breath
Common confusions = mix up fear and surprise, thought fear typically appears tenser
Key cues = wrinkling of the nose, raising of the upper lip, sometimes a gag-like movement
Why it exist = possibly evolved to protect us from ingesting toxins or harmful substances (we physically recoil)
Social dimensions = can also convey moral revulsion, not just physical
Key cues = narrowed or hard eyes (lowered brow), flared nostrils, tightened jaw or lips
Function - in evolutionary terms, signals threat or readiness to confront
Cultural considerations = some cultures accept open anger expression; others strongly discourage public outbursts, leading to more ‘tight-lipped’ anger displays
Brief, involuntary facial expressions
Ekman — 1/25 and 1/5 of a second and potentially reveal hidden feelings
Training programs suggest learning to spot micro-expressions aids in detecting deception or unspoken emotions — everyday accuracy debated
Very difficult to spot without specialised training or video replay
Everyday life — rely on the overall pattern of facial cues, tone of voice, and context
Eye contact — studies show liars sometimes increase eye contact to compensate for this stereotype
Fidgeting or restlessness — may move less, not more
Speech disturbances — sometimes liars exhibit more speech hesitations or ‘um’s/’ah’s, especially if the lie is complex. In other cases, liars may speak smoothly and quickly, showing fewer disturbances
Emotional approach — Ekman found lying triggers emotions, physiological arousal, and these can leak through nonverbal behaviours: tremors in the voice, micro-expressions, etc
Cognitive Approach — Burgoon found lying is cognitively complex - slower speech, longer pauses, fewer gestures
Self-presentation approach — liars try to control expressions and body language-rigid or inhibited behaviour-and appear unnaturally still or too controlled
Meta-analyses by Bond & DePaulo show that without specialized training, most people detect lies at only about chance level
Police officers and others who regularly deal with deception often believe they’re highly skilled
Research (e.g., Kraut & Poe, 1980) indicates they’re usually no better than the general public
Certain specialized groups (e.g., Secret Service agents) with intense, relevant training may do better than average
High stakes - easier to spot due to high emotional load
Complexity - slip up when forced to maintain complex narratives over time
Prior Knowledge – knowing the person well gives you a baseline to compare to
Bias - strong desire to believe or disbelieve can lead you to see cues where there are none or miss clear cues
One school of thought people create their own self, that it is by the choices you make
Existentialism emphasised that you are defined by the decisions and actions that you do, while others just say you’re born that way, with certain predispositions and tendencies that dictate the path you will take.
Sociology says that you are a product of your times and your circumstances, that your society creates you.
You are you due to what society made possible for you and what you chose among those choices, and how you reacted within that framework
Humans make choices and incorporate all sorts of abstract principles such as moral rules and responsibilities, religious prescriptions, financial calculations, and so on, and all of these go into their behavioural choices
Actively self-serving creatures, in our thoughts, feelings, and deeds, while also being self-sacrificial
Privileged access — the idea that you know yourself better than anyone else. Tenuous and relative idea as we know a lot about ourselves, but we may also be biased
This is a challenge for psychology as when asking questions about oneself, only you know what is correct or incorrect. Thats why psychologist tend to ask questions that can be measured directly or corroborated
People think they are better than they actually are; they generally overestimate the positivity of their lives
People with depression tend to be more accurate with describing themselves.
First illusion — rating your abilities and your successes as higher than they really are. You downplay your faults and your failures, and you overestimate all your good points.
Second illusion — overestimate how much control we have over life. People tend to think they can steer their fate and produce the results that they want. They can get where they want to go. They can take charge. When people estimate how much they are in control of their own fates, they overestimate how much control they actually have
Third illusion — optimism. People are unrealistically optimistic. They think good things are more likely to happen to them than to the average person and bad things are less likely to happen.
People tend to end up with a more favourable view of themself than the facts would seemingly dictate
People tend to attribute success internally and failure they attribute eternally to other factors. They then base your self-esteem on what’s attributed to yourself so that’s mainly based on your successes.
Dismissing your failures and making excuses for them while taking your successes to heart is a pathway to self-deception
Selective criticism helps sustain positive illusions, criticising bad news while accepting good news with no criticism
Enables you to weed out information you don’t like and thus build your self0esteem on a positive view
Memory bias occurs when people forget bad things and remember the good. You don’t repress it in the sense that you push the thought into the unconscious (freud’s theory), but instead it came through your conscious mind and you just don’t think about it very much
‘it could have been worse’
People will typically compare themselves to others that are similar but a bit worse off than themselves
False consensus = Overestimate how many other people are the same as you
Used with opinions = people who have similar opinions will agree with you, leading you to believe that many people agree with you.
False Uniqueness = underestimating how many people are the same as you
You can make yourself feel better than others even if you recognise exactly where you stand by distorting how similar you are to other people (more common in those with high self esteem)
Self-esteem is essentially a matter of how you evaluate yourself
Not many people have really negative views of themselves, whereas there are many who think really highly of themselves, and others more in the middle
Mentally healthy people tend to have somewhat high self-esteem. They tend to overestimate their good characteristics and have these positive illusions
Depression goes with low self-esteem — people suffering from depression tend not to have so many positive illusions
Self esteem can help people improve, but you must not mistake correlation for causation — self esteem may be linked to good grades but it probably doesn’t cause the high marks, in fact, its more likely that the good grades cause the high self esteem
High self esteem bolsters initiative — people with high self esteem think they are right, they know what’s what, and are more likely to act on what they think
In contrast, people with low self-esteem don’t have the same faith in themselves
High self-esteem are generally happier than people with low self-esteem
When times are hard or stressful, high self-esteem gives you a little more resilience, it makes you feel better
Low self-esteem is intertwined deeply with depression, and it seems low self-esteem comes first or is an early warning sign or make you more vulnerable to depression. But then depression makes it worse.
Something that keeps track of something that is important; could be a measure of whether other people will like you, whether you’re appealing, if you have social acceptance and status
As social creatures, humans are concerned about reputations and whether they fit in.
Self deception may be helpful toward fooling others to think well of you. May also become a means of persuading others.
Self-esteem scores are spread along the range, with lots of people in the middle rather at low or high
People understand why people have high self-esteem as it ultimately helps them achieve an end goal, but people with low self-esteem confuse psychologists—do they not know what they want?
‘Self concept confusion’, theory by Jennifer Campbell, is the theory that people with low-self esteem just don’t know themselves. They have a more garbled self-concept than a clear view of one self as a bad person. More oriented toward protecting themselves from failure than toward trying to achieve success
Absence of positive self-image may be one consequence of confusion, but confusion is the deeper reason for low self esteem.