Navigating the emotional aspects of performing sex work in a whorephobic and homophobic society.
Presenters: Dr. Juline Koken and Dr. David Bimbi
Focus: Stigma, burnout, and positive marginality among escorts.
Methods: Draws from "Classified Project" and "Lady Classified Project".
Prostitution/Whore Taboo: Sex work is highly stigmatized; it constitutes a concealable stigma.
Employing stigma management strategies to minimize personal impact.
Information Management Strategies:
Passing: Hiding one’s identity as a sex worker.
Covering: Downplaying or disguising the stigma.
Coming Out: Disclosing identity to select individuals. (Goffman, 1963)
Threat of being labeled impacts coping strategies among escorts.
Types of Coping:
Avoidance Coping: Trying to evade the stigma or its consequences.
Approach Coping: Actively dealing with the stigma through engagement.
Impacts on Mental Health:
Short-term and long-term effects.
Evidence shows negative health consequences linked with concealable stigmas (Frable et al., 1998; Link & Phelan, 2006).
Qualitative analysis of independent women escorts’ coping strategies regarding stigma.
Burnout levels assessed using scales; relationships examined.
Participants: Independent escorts recruited through online advertisements, maintaining anonymity.
Data Gathered:
Semi-structured interviews on stigma management in personal lives.
Brief computer survey covering demographics and burnout scale.
Coding and data analysis conducted with input from sex workers.
Strategies employed to manage stigma:
Seeking friendships with fellow escorts.
Disclosure to select friends/family.
Educating others about sex work to counter stereotypes.
Engaging in 'passing' or going ‘back into the closet’.
Social Isolation as a coping strategy.
Leads to social support. Example quote reflecting openness about work and desire for support.
Passing: Maintaining secrecy fearing judgment.
Going Back into the Closet: Concealing employment from partners.
Social Isolation: Withdrawal due to fear of being found out and shame about work.
Desire for a shift in societal perceptions regarding sex work.
Advocates for decriminalization rather than legalization; importance of societal acceptance.
Awareness of stigma: All women in the sample displayed awareness; diverse stigma management practices.
Connections with other sex workers varied, with some remaining silent about their work.
Duration of sex work not related to coping strategy or income.
Negative experiences in disclosure often led to silence among participants.
Those openly disclosing attributed it to a desire for education and destigmatization.
Defined as the expected emotional engagement with clients; not just physical intimacy.
Two forms of emotional labour: deep acting and surface acting.
Emotional labour linked to work-related burnout risks.
Emphasizes stress management through coping mechanisms:
Avoidance coping and approach coping affecting mental health outcomes.
Burnout as a syndrome from chronic job stress, including:
Emotional exhaustion
Depersonalization
Decreased personal competency feelings.
Industry-specific factors influencing burnout: workload, autonomy (Maslach et al., 2001).
Prior study highlighted comparable burnout rates of sex workers to nurses (Vanwesenbeeck, 2005).
Average hourly rates of escorts by race:
White women: $500+
Black women: $400+
Variability among Asian women.
Burnout levels categorized:
Low (0-16), Moderate (17-26), High (27-48).
Sample percentages: High burnout (23%), Moderate (39%), Low (38%).
Focus on independent escorts assumed higher autonomy levels in job selection and earnings.
Low emotional exhaustion linked to emphasizing positive social relationships with clients.
High burnout led to diminished effort in marketing and ‘work self.’
Low Burnout: Empathy and emotional congruence present.
High Burnout: Emotional dissonance visible; example of physical discomfort with client interactions.
Noted disparities in burnout and emotional exhaustion related to race:
Black women expressed distinct challenges within the profession and reported higher emotional exhaustion than white counterparts.
White women recognized their racial privilege in managing stigma and work environments.
Less evidence of traditional "working identity" among participants.
Low burnout women emphasized authenticity; high burnout women showed greater disconnection from their work.
Impact of race, support networks, and work orientation demonstrated as crucial to burnout experiences.
Need for qualitative research focusing on clients’ perspectives regarding escorts they hire.
Post SESTA/FOSTA implications for escorting’s safety and accessibility highlighted as critical for future study.
Positive resistance against stigma through open identification within marginalized groups.
Historic significance of studying Internet-based male escorts, established in 2000-2001 by David Bimbi.
Individuals embracing stigmas can exhibit pride and resistance, redefining societal perceptions.
Participant demographics and methodologies outlined, focusing on qualitative interviews and participant compensation.
Interviewed men expressed awareness of stigma but actively incorporated pride into their identities as sex workers.
Discussion of values placed on sex work in broader LGBTQ+ and S&M communities.
Many male escorts described their work as deliberate and professional, highlighting integrity.
Men observed their work as a means of resisting societal expectations related to heterosexuality.
Respondents highlighted the emotional support provided to clients grappling with their sexual identities.
Some escorts discuss broader ideas of relationships that deviate from conventional norms.
Reframing sex work as a therapeutic service rather than degradation; embracing a 'sexual humanitarian' identity.
Advocacy for decriminalization of sex work, discussion about political movement from within the community.
Historical context connecting gay rights activism with the push for sex workers’ rights.
Increased acceptance of sex work within circles of LGBTQ+ individuals; challenging preconceived notions of stigma.
Narratives suggest that not all male escorts have positive perceptions about their work.
Positively marginal escorts identified with wider movements for sexual liberation and societal acceptance.
Need for expanding research horizons, particularly in understanding societal attitudes post-legal changes affecting sex work.
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