Interpersonal behavior refers to how a client interacts with others in their immediate environment (e.g., therapists, family members, or partners in couples therapy).
Several key interpersonal behaviors are covered, including:
Contempt - Definition: A passive-aggressive style of relating to others.
Signs:
Eye rolling
Sarcastic imitation of vocal tone
Example:
A client describes an argument with their mother while mocking her tone and rolling their eyes.
Research connection: John Gottman found that contempt is the strongest predictor of divorce.
Defensive - Definition: Reacting hostilely to input from others due to feeling threatened or attacked.
Example:
A client brags about writing a Nobel Prize-winning book.
When asked about the book’s content, the client accuses the interviewer of trying to steal their idea. “why don’t u think I could win it” “client feels attacked and response in a hostile manner”
Dismissive - Definition: Reacting to input by disregarding or rejecting it, without necessarily feeling threatened.
Example:
A client is told that their drinking might be affecting their ability to keep a job.
Instead of considering the suggestion, they shrug it off and blame their boss for wanting to fire them anyway.Guarded
Hypervigilant Definition: Excessive awareness of the environment, often due to heightened anxiety or fear.
Possible causes: Trauma, PTSD.
Example:
A client is obsessed with noise levels in their neighborhood.
Looking constantly around
They repeatedly mention how much they appreciate a neighbor being quieter and express distress over a lawnmower noise.
Guarded Definition: Being overly cautious about sharing information due to lack of trust.
Possible causes: Trauma, paranoia.
Signs:
Minimal responses
Evasive communication
Example:
When asked about their week, a client gives vague, one-word answers like “the usual” and avoids elaboration. Closed or secretive..
Oppositional/Defiant - Definition: Reacting to authority or requests with resistance, argumentation, or hostility.
Behavioral Traits:
Frequently argues or refuses to comply with instructions.
May display frustration or anger in response to authority.
Often challenges rules or expectations.
Example:
A client refuses to answer questions, saying, "I don’t have to tell you anything. You can’t make me."
They may also respond sarcastically or aggressively to perceived control.
Suggestible - Definition: Easily influenced by others, sometimes excessively compliant.
Behavioral Traits:
Changes opinions or behaviors based on external input.
Easily persuaded by authority figures or peers.
May struggle with independent decision-making.
Example:
A client shifts their answers based on the interviewer’s tone, agreeing with contradicting statements.
1st example: Affect(full and congruent seems anxius and concerneed) and Mood, thought process(tangentional and distractble to thing in environment), speech reglar rate and rythm memory:unable to access Interpersonal: hypervigelent and dismissive and gaurded(turing away from interviewer
2nd example: mood(dysphoric) and affect, thought process, speech(appropriate not pressure, memeroy/conciuos(unable to access), mootor(relaxed) interpersonal; defensive (clients reats with hostility and feels attacked
3rd- mood(dysphoric) and affect(full and congruent), thought process, speech(reg rate and rythem, motor(relaxed), memory(unable to assess), interpersonal: suggestible(easily influencced by interviewr persuattion
4th example: mood(dysphoric) and affect(full and congruent with dysphoric mood), thought process( logical , attention:rumentanting ans stating twice that s itlls all their fault), speech(reg rate amd rythm), motor, memory(unable to assess), interpersonal: dismissive and defensive