Definition: A stable pattern of traits & characteristics that make a person unique.
๐น Traits โ Permanent & consistent features of behavior.
๐น Characteristics โ Unique qualities (e.g., temperament, intelligence, physique).
๐น Etymology: Persona (Latin) = Mask worn by actors โ Now means deeper psychological traits.
A theory is a set of assumptions used to explain and predict behavior.
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A good theory must:
๐น Be testable (hypotheses can be studied).
๐น Be organized (structures research).
๐น Be falsifiable (can be proven wrong).
๐น Guide action (helps in real life).
๐น Be internally consistent (no contradictions).
๐น Be parsimonious (simple but effective).
(๐ Use the "P-H-D-B-L" mnemonic to remember them!)
1โฃ Psychodynamic Theories (Freud)
Unconscious mind & childhood experiences shape personality.
Example: Childhood trauma resurfaces in adulthood.
2โฃ Humanistic-Existential Theories
Focuses on growth, happiness, meaning in life.
Example: Struggles in life make us stronger.
3โฃ Dispositional Theories (Traits)
Personality = stable traits over time.
OCEAN Model:
๐ Openness (curious)
๐ Conscientiousness (organized)
โค Extraversion (social)
๐ค Agreeableness (kind)
๐ฐ Neuroticism (anxious)
4โฃ Biological-Evolutionary Theories
Genes + environment = personality.
Evolution shaped our behaviors.
5โฃ Learning/Social-Cognitive Theories
We learn from experience & observation.
Example: Kids copy their parents' habits.
๐ Reliability โ Consistency in results.
๐ Validity โ Does it measure what it's supposed to?
๐ Research Approaches:
๐น Idiographic (small groups, deep study).
๐น Nomothetic (large groups, generalizations).
๐ Research Methods:
๐น Clinical โ Case studies.
๐น Experimental โ Cause & effect studies.
๐น Virtual โ Online personality tests.
๐น Correlational โ Finding relationships between traits.
1โฃ Free will or Determinism? (Choice vs. fate)
2โฃ Nature vs. Nurture? (Genes vs. environment)
3โฃ Past vs. Present? (Childhood vs. now)
4โฃ Uniqueness vs. Universality? (One-of-a-kind vs. common traits)
5โฃ Equilibrium vs. Growth? (Stability vs. change)
6โฃ Optimism vs. Pessimism? (Can people change for the better?)
๐ถ Born 1856 โ Had a complicated family life that shaped his theories.
๐จโโ Developed Psychoanalysis (studying the unconscious mind).
(๐ Use the "UPC" mnemonic: Unconscious, Preconscious, Conscious)
1โฃ Unconscious โ Hidden thoughts, urges, and childhood trauma.
2โฃ Preconscious โ Memories we can bring to awareness when needed.
3โฃ Conscious โ Current thoughts & feelings.
(๐ Use the "I Eat Soup" (Id, Ego, Superego) mnemonic!)
1โฃ Id (Devil on your shoulder) โ Pleasure-seeking, impulsive, wants instant gratification.
2โฃ Ego (The referee) โ Balances the id & superego, makes realistic choices.
3โฃ Superego (Angel on your shoulder) โ Morals & values, pushes for perfection.
๐น Eros (Sex Drive) โ Seeking pleasure (not just physical).
๐น Thanatos (Aggression/Destruction Drive) โ Includes anger, teasing, and even self-harm.
๐น Anxiety โ Emotional distress from unconscious conflicts.
Neurotic Anxiety โ Fear of losing control.
(๐ Use "RRR DIP-FS" to remember them!)
1โฃ Repression โ Pushing painful memories deep into the unconscious.
2โฃ Reaction Formation โ Acting opposite of how you really feel.
Example: Secretly liking someone but acting mean to them.
3โฃ Regression โ Returning to childish behavior during stress.
4โฃ Displacement โ Taking out emotions on a safer target.
Example: Yelling at a sibling instead of your boss.
5โฃ Introjection โ Copying someoneโs personality traits.
6โฃ Projection โ Blaming others for your own faults.
Example: A cheater accusing their partner of cheating.
7โฃ Fixation โ Getting stuck in a childhood stage.
8โฃ Sublimation โ Turning bad urges into positive actions.
Example: Angry person becomes a boxer.
(๐ Use the "Old Age People Love Grapes" mnemonic!)
1โฃ Oral Stage (0-1 yr) โ Mouth pleasure (sucking, biting).
2โฃ Anal Stage (1-3 yrs) โ Control issues (potty training).
3โฃ Phallic Stage (3-6 yrs) โ Oedipus/Electra complex (boys love mom, girls love dad).
4โฃ Latency Period (6-12 yrs) โ Social skills develop, sexual urges hidden.
5โฃ Genital Stage (12+ yrs) โ Mature adult relationships form.
๐น Free Association โ Saying random thoughts to uncover unconscious issues.
๐น Dream Analysis โ Dreams reflect hidden desires.
๐น Freudian Slips โ Accidentally saying what you really think.
(Mnemonic: C.A.P.A. โ Conscious, Archetypes, Personality, Applications)
๐น Conscious โ Everything we are aware of, linked to the ego.
๐น Personal Unconscious โ Hidden memories & forgotten experiences. Contains complexes (emotionally charged ideas).
๐น Collective Unconscious โ Shared ancestral memories, forming archetypes.
๐ก Memory Trick: Think of the mind as an iceberg!
Tip (Conscious) = What we see above water.
Underwater (Personal Unconscious) = Hidden past experiences.
Deep Ocean (Collective Unconscious) = Ancient knowledge shared by humanity.
Archetypes are universal, ancient images from the collective unconscious. They appear in myths, dreams, and symbols across cultures.
๐ Key Difference:
Complexes = Personal unconscious (unique to an individual).
Archetypes = Collective unconscious (shared by all humans).
๐ How Do Archetypes Form?
They come from repeated ancestral experiences and have a biological basis. They exist in everyone but only activate when a real-life experience matches the primordial image (a deep, inherited memory).
๐ก Memory Trick: Think of archetypes like pre-installed apps on a phone. They are there from the start, but they only open when triggered by experience!
(Mnemonic: P.S. A.A.G.W.H.S. โ Persona, Shadow, Anima, Animus, Great Mother, Wise Old Man, Hero, Self)
1โฃ Persona โ The mask we show to the world. (Think: Social media profile vs. real you!)
2โฃ Shadow โ Our dark side, hidden fears & desires. (Think: Villains in movies!)
3โฃ Anima โ The feminine side in men. (Think: Yin in Yin-Yang!)
4โฃ Animus โ The masculine side in women. (Think: Yang in Yin-Yang!)
5โฃ Great Mother โ Nurturing yet destructive. (Think: Mother Nature โ gives life, but storms destroy!)
6โฃ Wise Old Man โ Symbol of wisdom. (Think: Gandalf, Dumbledore!)
7โฃ Hero โ Fights evil, but has a weakness. (Think: Superman & Kryptonite!)
8โฃ Self โ The goal of personal growth, uniting all parts of ourselves. (Think: Reaching inner peace!)
(Mnemonic: "E.T. FINDS" โ Extraversion, Thinking, Feeling, Intuition, iNtroversion, Doing, Sensing)
โ Attitudes:
Extraversion โ Outgoing, energized by others.
Introversion โ Reflective, prefers solitude.
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Functions:
1โฃ Thinking โ Logic-based decisions. (Think: Sherlock Holmes!)
2โฃ Feeling โ Emotion-based decisions. (Think: Romantic poets!)
3โฃ Sensing โ Focused on details, reality. (Think: Detectives, chefs!)
4โฃ Intuition โ Big-picture, future-focused. (Think: Inventors, dreamers!)
๐ Word Association Test โ Uncover unconscious thoughts by reacting to words.
๐ Dream Analysis โ Dreams reveal hidden desires & fears. (Think: Decoding symbols!)
๐ Active Imagination โ Talking to inner archetypes to understand yourself.
๐ Erikson believed the ego is a positive force that creates your sense of "I" (self-identity).
๐ The ego:
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Unites past experiences, present self, and future goals.
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Protects individuality from societyโs influence.
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Grows stronger with each life stage.
๐ The Three Aspects of Ego
Aspect | Definition | Memory Trick |
Body Ego ๐โโ๏ธ | Awareness of your physical self (how you see your body) | "Body = Physical Self!" |
Ego Ideal ๐ | The person you want to become (your dreams & goals) | "Ideal = Best Version of You!" |
Ego Identity ๐ | Who you are today based on life experiences | "Identity = Real You!" |
B.E.E. (Body Ego, Ego Ideal, Ego Identity) ๐
๐ Your culture and society shape how your ego develops.
๐ Different societies raise children differently to fit cultural values.
๐จ Pseudo-Species = The illusion that oneโs society is the "chosen" group.
๐ก Example: Nazi Germany believed they were superior, leading to dangerous consequences.
๐ Development happens step-by-step, like a blueprint unfolding.
๐ Just like organs develop at the right time, personality must develop in a sequence.
๐ฎ Think of it like leveling up in a gameโskip a level, and your character won't be complete! ๐
๐ At every life stage, thereโs a battle between two forces:
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Syntonic (Positive Trait) โ Strengthens ego.
โ Dystonic (Negative Trait) โ Weakens ego.
๐ The outcome of the battle determines your ego strength (reward) or core pathology (penalty).
๐ก Example: In childhood, if you develop trust (syntonic) instead of mistrust (dystonic), you gain hope! ๐
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Each stage builds on the previous one.
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Early struggles donโt decide everythingโyou can grow at any stage.
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Biology plays a role, but experiences shape personality.
Stage | Age | Crisis | Basic Strength | Core Pathology | ||
1. Trust vs. Mistrust ๐ถ | 0-1 yr | "Can I trust the world?" | Hope ๐ | Withdrawal ๐ช | ||
2. Autonomy vs. Shame & Doubt ๐ผ |
| "Can I do things myself?" | Willpower ๐ช | Compulsion ๐ฃ | ||
3. Initiative vs. Guilt ๐ง | 3-5 yrs | "Is it okay for me to explore?" | Purpose ๐ฏ | Guilt ๐ | ||
4. Industry vs. Inferiority ๐ | 6-12 yrs | Can I achieve things?" | Competence ๐ | Inertia (lack of motivation) ๐ต | ||
5. Identity vs. Role Confusion ๐ซ | 12-18 yrs | "Who am I?" | Fidelity ๐ | Role confusion ๐ตโ๐ซ | ||
6. Intimacy vs. Isolation ๐ | 19-30 yrs | "Can I build close relationships?" | Love โค | Exclusivity (emotional distance) โ | ||
7. Generativity vs. Stagnation ๐จโ๐ฉโ๐ฆ | 31-60 yrs | "Can I contribute to society?" | Care ๐ค | Rejectivity (self-absorption) ๐ซ | ||
8. Integrity vs. Despair ๐ง | 60+ yrs | "Was my life meaningful?" | Wisdom ๐ฆ | Disdain (bitterness) ๐ฅ |
๐ฎ Level 1: Infancy (0-1 year) ๐ถ
๐ Trust vs. Mistrust โ "Can I trust my caregiver?"
๐ก Memory Trick: A baby needs to trust that food and love will come! If not, they withdraw from the world.
๐ฎ Level 2: Early Childhood (2-3 years) ๐ผ
๐ Autonomy vs. Shame & Doubt โ "Can I do things myself?"
๐ก Memory Trick: Toddlers say "No!" a lot because they want control! If scolded too much, they doubt themselves.
๐ฎ Level 3: Play Age (3-5 years) ๐ง
๐ Initiative vs. Guilt โ "Is it okay for me to explore?"
๐ก Memory Trick: Kids love asking "Why?" If constantly shut down, they feel guilty for being curious.
๐ฎ Level 4: School Age (6-12 years) ๐
๐ Industry vs. Inferiority โ "Can I be successful?"
๐ก Memory Trick: Kids who are encouraged do well, but if they are called "dumb," they stop trying.
๐ฎ Level 5: Adolescence (12-18 years) ๐ซ
๐ Identity vs. Role Confusion โ "Who am I?"
๐ก Memory Trick: Teens experiment with different identities. If they never find one, they stay lost!
๐ฎ Level 6: Young Adulthood (19-30 years) ๐
๐ Intimacy vs. Isolation โ "Can I form deep relationships?"
๐ก Memory Trick: Without a strong identity, itโs hard to form real intimacy. Some fear commitment!
๐ฎ Level 7: Adulthood (31-60 years) ๐จโ๐ฉโ๐ฆ
๐ Generativity vs. Stagnation โ "Can I make a difference?"
๐ก Memory Trick: People want to leave a legacy, whether through kids, work, or mentoring.
๐ฎ Level 8: Old Age (60+ years) ๐ง
๐ Integrity vs. Despair โ "Did my life have meaning?"
๐ก Memory Trick: A wise old person accepts their life, but a bitter one regrets wasted time.