Being realistic and having an accurate perception of reality is NOT a critical component of mental health
Optimism is a general expectation that good things will happen
Future-oriented
Subjective
Cognitive, motivational, and emotional
Pessimism - the tendency to expect negative things in the future
Optimism and pessimism are not necessarily opposites - you can even experience both at the same time
Optimism
inherent part of human nature
Gives us a baseline optimism that’s generally more positive
Individual differences exist
Depends on the situation and person
It's a characteristic that people possess to different degrees
Dispositional Optimism
A global expectation that good things will happen and bad things will not
Benefits:
More active and effective coping
Problem-solving
Planning
Positive reframing
Better adjustment to life transitions
Starting college
New parenthood (lower levels of postpartum depression)
Health issues
Better work performance
Motivation
Productivity
Interactions
Work-life balance
Increased health and longevity
Fewer illnesses
Stronger immune systems
Faster recovery
Lived 7.5 years longer when positive
Optimism does not lead people to ignore health issues and minimize threats
Optimism does not lead people to persist on goals that are unattainable
Optimism as an explanatory style
Martin Seligman
Positive style in thinking about causes of events
It’s the way we think about the causes of events that forms the basis of whether we are pessimistic or optimistic
Sometimes referred to as learned optimism
It stemmed as an opposite from learned helplessness
3 dimensions of attributions
Stability: stable vs. temporary
Pervasiveness: global vs. specific
Locus of control: interval vs. external
Pessimistic
Negative events are stable, global, and internal
Optimistic
Negative events are temporary, specific, and external
Explanatory style for bad events is better predictor
Associated with positive outcomes
Chris Peterson - Harvard Study of Adult Development
Better physical health in military veterans
Correlation between optimism and good health weren’t there immediately but it appeared decades later (started around age 45)
Seligman study: winning records in MLB teams
Correlation between optimism and pessimism with last season predicting next season outcomes
Better academic and athletic performance
More productive work
Better interpersonal relationships
Greater life satisfaction
2/12 Notes
Kristen generally feels good about the future and is confident that things will work out for her. This is an example of which type of optimism?
Dispositional optimism
Joe’s teacher asks a question and he gives the wrong answer. Joe thinks, “I always get nervous when I have to answer questions.” Joe has made an attribution that is…
Stable attribution
Myths about Optimism
You are either optimistic or pessimistic
Optimists are born not made
Being an optimist is always better than being a pessimist
Optimism is necessary for human flourishing
There are no downsides to optimism
Truths about Optimism
It varies across domain and situation
We can change how we think
One type of pessimism is associated with good task performance
Possible to be pessimistic and have good well-being
Optimism can impair planning for future events
Defensive pessimism
Negative thinking that channels anxiety about failure into successful achievement
Sets low expectations
Allows planning for worst-case outcomes
Associated with good performance, but also more anxiety and neuroticism, lower self esteem
Sense of control helps to reduce risk of depression compared to other pessimists
Most helpful with
Negative outcomes that are possible and important
These outcomes can be prevented
Downsides of Optimism
Being unprepared for future negative events
Risk taking behaviors (smoking, seat belt wearing)
Toxic positivity
Being too unrealistic
Optimism & Reality
Optimism can have costs if it is too unrealistic
Flexible or realistic optimism is ideal
Best to be optimistic when the future can be changed by positive thinking, but not otherwise
Too much realism can be problematic
Common positive illusions
Self serving bias, rosy future, exaggerated control,Adaptive attributions
Associated with healthy adjustment
Depressive realism- people with mild depression have more accurate judgements
Increasing Optimism
Reflect on positive experiences
Practice reframing different situations
2/14
Hope
Two components
Pathways: the ability to find ways to reach your goals
Agency: motivation to use those pathways
What type of goals?
Highly valued
Short term or long term goals
Approach oriented or prevention oriented
Easy or difficult
Sources
Learned cognitive set
Cause and effect learning from caregivers
Strong attachment important
Benefits
College outcomes
Athletic performances
Happiness, satisfaction
Therapeutic outcomes
Physical health
Locus of control, self esteem, and personality
Locus of control
Behavior is shaped by expectations
Expectations of the degree of personal control we have in our lives
Internal: outcomes under personal control
External outcomes are influenced by external factors
Internal reinforces behavior, external punishes
Internal associated with self esteem, coping, and life satisfaction
Self-esteem
Own capacities, own judgement
The evaluative component of self-concept
Strongly related to happiness
Why important?
Foundation for life satisfaction
Buffer against stress and anxiety
Self esteem helps to maintain social relationships
Sociometer theory: serve as a metric for monitoring social relationships
Caveats: the basis for self esteem matters, the pursuit of self esteem is not necessarily advantageous
Takes attention away from things that yield happiness
Personality
5 factor model
Conscientiousness and extraversion are positively associated with subjective well-being
Neuroticism: negative affect
Conscientiousness: strong relationship with life satisfaction, achievements, self direction, health longevity
Agreeableness/openess: weak relationships
Similar overall relatioshiops with eudaimonic well-being
Openess: personal growth
2/17
Goal Pursuit and Change
Goals
Desired outcomes that people extend energy trying to achieve
Motivational concept: energizing and directing our behavior towards the behavior of these outcomes
What makes us adopt a goal? Research says that commitment to a goal comes from valuable and attainable
Expectancy Value Theory: goal- directed behavior is determined by expectation of attaining a goal and the incentive value of that goal
Goal characteristics
Goals more likely to be achieved: concrete
Better for goals to be more: specific
SMART goals
Specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time based
Put forth more effort when goals are: difficult
More likely to achieve goals that are autonomous or controlled? Autonomous
Are we more likely to achieve approach goals or avoidance goals? Approach
Approach and Avoidance Goals
Approach goals: positive outcomes that people move toward
Avoidance goals: negative outcomes that people try to prevent
Avoidance goals are associated with worse perrformance and fewer positive outcomes
Reasons for the difference: approach goals are easier to regulate and monitor
Avoidance goals evoke anxiety and self-defensiveness
Avoidance goals are associated with decreased feelings of competence and self esteem
Avoidance goals are less likely to feel freely chosen and intrinsically enjoyable
Materialistic Goals
Overemphasis on materialistic goals is negatively related to well-being
Why the negative relationship?
Extrinsic goals direct people away from intrinsically satisfying goals
Financial goals are often controlled not autonomous
May develop out of insecurity
Monitoring Goal Progress
We calculate the discrepancy between current state and desired end-state
The act to close the gap: higher-than-expected rate-> positive feelings
Lower-than-expected rate-> negative feelings and often greater effort
2/21 Notes
Increasing intrinsic motivation
Doing something we purely want to
Things that can increase intrinsic motivation: autonomy, competence, and relatedness, alignment with personal values, removal of barriers, timing of extrinsic rewards
Intrinsic and extrinsic motivation
Both are important for performance
Intrinsic predicts quality
Extrinsic predits quantity
Goals and Well-being
Positive relationships between goal related progress and well-being
Depends on goal importance and other factors
The matching hypothesis: the degree of person-goal “fit” determines the effect on well-being
Greater likelihood of increased well being with pursuit of goals that express needs, values, and motives or self control
Personal expressiveness
Activities that show our true selves
Pursuit of expressive goals produces feelings of involvement and meaning
Associated with eudaimonic well-being
Autonomous motives: freely chosen goals more likely to increase well-being
Transtheortetical Model of Change
Precontemplation: not intending to change
Contemplation: recognizing the need for change
Preparation: making plans to change
Action: actively altering behavior
Maintenance: continuing new behaviors and avoiding relapse
Termination: new behavior is fully established
Goal commitment: making a decision and following through
Keeps us on track when we face challenges
Meets our needs for competence, relatedness, and autonomy
Can be increased by looking for meaning, choosing commitments, and setting priorities
2/24
The WOOP model
Goal-setting strategy for initiating and sustaining effort toward goals
W: Wish
O: outcome
O: obstacle
P: plan
Wish
What is something you want that is important to you?
Outcome
What will it be like to accomplish this?
Obstacle
What is your biggest internal obstacle?
Plan
How will I navigate this obstacle?
The model is practical and evidence based
Can apply it in a lot of different ways
Related to success with our goals
Self Regulation
Ability to initiate and guide actions towards the achievement of a desired future goal
“Marshmellow test”: children who could delay gratification had more positive future outcomes
Observed in childhood, adolescence, and adulthood
Benefits
Better adjustment and less psychopathology
Better relationships and social skills
Fewer addiction problems
Better academic performance
Control Theory
Regulation is directed toward reducing the discrepancy between current state and future positive goals
Emotional experience depends on rate of progress, not actual discrepancy
4 components: standards, monitoring, strength/will power, and motivation
Planning for success
Planning in advance has a large effect on self-regulation success
Two types of intentions: goal intentions (desire for outcome) & implementation intentions (plan for action)
Specifying implementation intentions is an integral component in goal achievement
Creates markers that make self regulation more efficient, automatic, and less susceptible to distractions
Other important factors
Commitment: degree of determination and willingness to persevere
Confidence: belief about ability to accomplish a task
Self Control Failures
Excuses: failures in self control typically viewed negatively
To avoid negative inferences, we create explanations
Excuses: self serving explanations that aim to reduce personal responsibility, thereby disengage core components of self from the incident
2/26
Self regulation failures
Excuses
advantages
Protects self esteem
Reduces guilt & self blame
Motivates improvement
Helps relationships
Disadvantages
Problematic when used excessively
Reduces self control
Irresistable impulses
Irritability to resist temptations and strong emotions
Evidence suggests that beliefs about control may be most important
Procrastination
Example of self regulation failure
Voluntary delay of intended action despite being worse off
Produces short term benefits but long term costs
Reduced stress and fewer health problems early
More stress and health problems later
Lower quality work
More factors-> procrastination
Age: negitively correlated
Neuroticism: small positive correlation
Conscientiousness: large negative correlation
Impulsiveness: large positive correlation
Intelligence and positive affect: weak to nonexistent relationships
Self handicapping
Most likely to procrastinate on tasks that are boring or unpleasant
Intentions are unrelated
Grit
Passion and perseverance for long term-and meaningful goals
Having direction and commitment
Persisting even after experiencing difficulty or failure
Predicts success beyond what talent and intelligence contribute
3/10
Developing grit
Develop a fascination
Daily improvement
Greater purpose
Growth mindset
The growth mindset
Fixed mindset: believing your qualities are carved in stone
Growth mindset: believing your basic qualities can be cultivated through efforts
Associated with…
Embracing challenges
Persisting
Valuing effort
Learning from criticism
May have a bidirectional relationship with grit
Goal Disengagement
Letting go of unattainable goals is often advantageous
No obvious indication of when we should disengage
Emotional consequences more significant for highly important goals
Benefits
Higher SWB
Less stress
Greater self mastery
Greater investment in new goals
Flow
An intrinsically rewarding and enjoyable state of complete absorption with an activity
Defining feature: intense involvement
How do we measure flow?
Often measured with the experience sampling method
Characteristics of Flow
Challenge skill balance: skills and balance at hand
Clear goals and unambiguous feedback
Action-awareness merging
Complete concentration
Sense of control
Loss of self consciousness
Autotelic experience
Who experiences flow?
Universal across classes, genders, age, cultures
But there are individual differences in capacity to experience flow
3/12
Big 5 personality trait associated with flow
conscientiousness-> negatively correlated with neuroticism and positively correlated with conscientiousness
What happens to the brain during flow?
Decreased activity in the prefrontal cortex
Synchronization of cognitive control and reward networks
Increased dopamine activity
Benefits of Flow
Psychological benefits
Focus on concentration
Intrinsic motivation
Emotional well-being and happiness
Emotional regulation
Cognitive benefits
Learning and skill development
Creativity and problem solving
Faster mastery
Practical benefits
Work and productivity
Education and learning
Sports
The arts
Examples of flow activities
Listening to or playing music
sports/athletics
Video games/technology
Work tasks
hobbies
Can be solitary or social
Jobs that have autonomy, creativity, complexity produce flow but flow can still happen in any job
Suggestions for achieving flow
Eliminate external distractions
Eliminate internal distractions
Work at your biological peak time
Listen to music
Work on one very specific task at a time
Choose the right level of challenge
Have a clear outcome or goal
Create a mental cue