Adolescent Sexuality in Context
Sex is a “normal” part of adolescent development
There are negative stereotypes about adolescent sexual behaviors
Majority of adolescents
-Have healthy sexual attitudes
-Experience positive emotions related to sexuality
-Engage in sexual behaviors that do not compromise their developmental trajectory
Various factors can impact adolescents' attitudes and sexual behaviors
-Society
-culture
-politics
-religion
-media
-literature
-internet
Sexual Identity
-how one thinks oneself in terms of romantic/sexual attraction
-ALso learning to manage sexual feelings( e.g., arousal)
-Degrees of intamacy
-Skills to regulate sexual behavior and avoid potential conquences
Also influenced by...
-Physical factors (e.g,hormones)
Social norms
-E.g, extent to which peers are having sex, use of contraceptives
Sexual Scripts -Stereotyped patterns of behaviors for how individuals think they should behave in sexual contexts
-Can cause problems and/or confusion for adolescents
Double standards in sexual norms
-E.g.,-> females have more restrictions; males have more freedom
Studying sexual activity during adolescence is a difficult endeavor
-Increased ethical restrictions
-potentially awkward for some participants
-Sharing sensitive information with a stranger
-Adolescents mau exaggerate and/or downplay their experiences
Sex Education Strategies
-Controversial topic in the U.S
-Many states teach abstinence-only programs
-No evidence to suggest that these programs...
-Delay the initiation of sexual intercourse
-Reduce HIV risk behaviors
-(denford et al,2017)
Other programs emphazize contraceptive knowledge
Such programs do not increase the rate
Still other programs focus pm on inclusive education
-Gender idenity
-Sexual orientation
-Consent
Works to make sure all students (including LGBTQ+ youth)
Recieve medically accurate and unbiased information about sexual health
Helping
What does it mean to help someone?
Not as simple as we think
5 steps to helping (Darley & Latane)
-Notice the event
-Interpret the situation correctly
-Take responsibility
-Know what to do
-Decide to help
Altruism:
-Helping another person without expecting anything in return
-Helping others at the cost of one's self
Are humans altruistic?
Considerable debate on the topic
No-> people help others for their own personal gain
-Feel good
-Avoid guilt
-Reciprocity
-Survival of family genes
Yes->people help even when it is not in their best interest
Theories of Altruism
Evolution Theory
-Altruism is adaptive-Innate
-Some debate on this
-Evolution theory focuses on survival of the fittest
-Why would we put ourselves at risk to protect someone else?
It makes more sense to help someone you are related to than to help a stranger
Cognitive Theory
-Importance of prosocial behaviors become more apparent over time
-As children develop intellecrtually,they start to understand the importance of prosocial behavior
-Altruism develops over time
Age-Related trends in Altruism
2- to 3-year-olds try to comfort distressed playmates
-Not as likely to make self-sacrificial behaviors
4-to 6-year-olds start to perform more real helping acts
Adolescents are sensitive to peer pressure
-Likely to engage in prosocial behavior if deemed desirable by peers
What is morality?
Set of principles that...
-Cause us to experience pride/shame as we act on violate these standards
-Motivates us to act based on this distinction alllows us to determine right from wrong
ABCs of morality
-Affect--> pride/shame
-Behavior--> how we act
-Cognitions-->how the think about whats right/wrong
Discipline & Morality
Love withdrawal
-Withholding attention, approval, affection
-Creates anxiety
Power assertion
-Exerting authority
-Spanking, withdrawing privileges, physical restraint
Induction
-Explaining why a behavior is wrong and how/why it should be changed
-focus on the consequences of wrongdoing
Testing Morality
Imagine the following scenario
Heinz dilemma-his wife gets a rare disease, the cure was only from pharmacist but he charged to much, Heniz broke in and stole it to save his wife
Developing Moral Reasoning
Lawrence Kohlberg's Levels of Moral Reasoning
Preconventional moraliry (up to age 9)
“follow the rules because if you dont, youll get in trouble;if you do, you mightt get a treat”
Conventional morality(early adolescence)
“follow the riles because we get along better if everyone does the right thing”
Postconvential Morality(late adolescence/adulthood)
“Sometimes riles need to be set aside to pursue higher principles”
Q&A
Which level of moral reasoning is being use?
1.Looting is a problem if everyone did it there would be escalating chaos and greater damage to the economy.
Conventional
2. Looting is generally wrong yet morally right when your family's survival seems to depend on it
Post convectional
3. Looting is wrong because you might ger punished but if no one is punished thats a sign that its okay
Pre conventional
Preconventional Morality
Stage 1: Punishment vs. Obedience
-The goodness or badness of the act depends on its consequences
Authority is outside the individual
-Rules are fixed
Stage 2: Individual Interests
-Person conforms to rules in order to accomplish a goal (e.g. reward)
-”You scratch my back and ill scratch yours”
Stage 3: Good boy or Good Girl
-Laws are internalized but not questioned
-uphold social norms
-Behave good to be seen as good
Stage 4: Maintaining Social Order
-Child becomes aware of society's laws
-Obey rules to uphold law and avoid guilt
-Laws are meant to preserve social order
What is Socialization?
Children/adolescents develop beliefs, values, and behaviors desired by society
Serves three specific purposes
-Regulate behaviors(emotions)
Establishes social order
-Properly socialized children will become productive/prosocial members of society
-Likely to appropriately socialize their own children
Social Systems
-There are a number so social systems that impact socialization
-Religous
-Media
-Peers
-Family
Revisiting the Ecological Model
The Family
Two or more persons who have emotional ties and responsiblities to one another
-Individuals related by...
-Birth
-Marriage
-Adoption
-Choice
Early research focused on mother--> child and nuclear families
Modern perspective focus on family as a system
-Reciprocal relationships
-Constantly evolving
Families are developing and embedded systems
The family is a holistic structure
-Interrelated parts that affect one another
Direct effects:Pair of fmaily memebers affect and are affected by each other
Indirect effects:Addition of a third party affects the pair
Parenting
Recall attachment
-Secure vs. Insecure
-Warm sensitive parents--> Secure attachment
-Children more likely to explore if they view their parent as a secure base
Around 2 years of age parents start to teach children how to (or not to) behave
Components of Good Parenting
Research on “good parenting” (Barber, 1997)
Connection
-Show love
-Listen
-Provide support
-Show respect
-Talk about differences
-Be a role model
Components of Good Parenting
Research on “good parenting” (Barber 1997)
Autonomy
-Emotional Autonomy
-Adolescents are becoming Indvidual's
Behavioral/Decisional Autonomy
-Set limits
-give reasonable choices
-be open to negotiation
-Independence in stages
-Help teens become future oriented
-Guide>Control
-Let adolescents make mistakes
Parenting & Development
Also differences in parental control
-Can have lasting effects on development
Behavioral Control
-Regulating adolescents behavior through reasonable discipline and monitoring
-Well behave & less likely to engage in deviant activites
Psychological control
-Regulating adolescents behavior through manipulation,shame, and gulit
-E.g., parent shaming
-Poor developmental outcomes
-Poor academic performance
-Association with deviant peers
-Antisocial conducts
The Changing Family
Families are developing and embedded systems
-Adoptive families
-Postponed marriage
-Decreased childbearing
-Fewer stay at home parents
divorce rates
-SIngle paret families
-Blended families
-Same sex parents
-Donor Insemination families
-Sestemenmoic status
Stress vs. Toxic Stress
Stress
-Some stress can be beneficial (i.e.,eustress)
-Teaches the child/adolescent how to respond to his/her/their enviorment
-Other stress can be detrimental (i.e., toxic stress)
-Natural disasters, abuse/neglect,chronic fear
Toxic stress can alter a developing persons brain (Radley et at., 2004)
Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACES)
Potentially Tramatic events that occur in childhood and adolescence
For example:
-Expereincing violence,abuse, or neglect
-Witnessing violence in the home or community
-Having a family memeber attempt or die by suicide
-Parent with a substance use problem
-Parent with mental health problems
Regulation
Parents are still needed to regulate adolescents behaviors
-Supervision
-appropriate limits
-discipline
Parenting Styles
Atuhoritarian-Imposing rules, expect obedience
Authoritative-Demanding of Responsive
-Set reasonable rules and enforce them
-Explain reasoning behind rules
Permissive
-Submit to childrens desires
-Few demands and little to no punishment
-Parents are indulgents
Uninvolved
-Few rules or demands
-Uninvovled in childs life
-Parents dont care OR dont have time
Demandingness
High
Authorive Parenting
Low
Permissive parenting
Responsivess
High
Authorive parenting
Low
Rejecting-Neglecting Parenting
This Just In….
Lawnmower Parents
-Go to whatever lenghts nessary to prevent their child from having to face adversity,struggle,or failure
Modern Parenting Labels (In popular culture)
Attachment Parenting
-Parent(typically the mother) os always around
-Maximal parental responsiveness
Heliocopter Parenting
-Make sure children are safe andsound at all times
-”Hover” to make sure eveything is oaky at all times
Free-Range Parenting
-Gives children considerable freedom
-Teach chlidren how the real world works by exposing them to potetial failure
Tiger Parenting
-Children follow strict rules and gave to meet extremely high expectations
-Children are pushed to be the best at everything they do
-Want children to grow up to be strong and fierce